Excitement for first RT exam?

I’ve been on this site for a couple of months now. Looking forward to meeting a member in person for my first rectal temperature taking. Any tips, suggestions for Me?

Meet some people in the chat rooms, respond to posts you find exciting, make friends and chat with them. Post an ad in the Personal Ads section. Be sure to get to know and trust whoever you might end up playing with!! Be safe.

Have you as a teen, young woman or now an adult woman had this done to you in an actual medical environment?

If you did, it might bring back memories and give you some idea of a play partner/ role play and the actual procedure itself.

That said, be careful and make sure you are comfortable and can trust who you might meet.

You can list a personal ad, but unfortunately... a lot of the responses are not from people you can trust or not what you requested (gender, sexual orientation, location, online vs. in-person). In any case, be cautious and make sure that you spend time at least chatting with someone to make sure it's a good match. Also... verify identity. I had a problem where a man was posing as a woman on Zity. Good luck!

All very good points.

I will add - make sure that your first meeting is a vanilla one in a public setting - cafe/ deli. Talk to the potential partner and make sure that you are comfortable with them before thinking of play. Trust your instincts.

I know this can be hard, especially if you meet people from out of town. But a necessary step, even f you end up playing shortly theerafter.

Hi,

I found this wonderful site a year ago and have been trying to find a medfet playmate. Its tough. Wish that I live in LA! But Iive in Boston.

Good luck.

To one and all,

Please be safe. I am doubtful about trusting internet connections as a way to go forward with such an intimate experience. Keep the first several meetings public and discuss interests and boundaries. Be firm in what is okay!

I see your profile is rather bare. You might fill it in a bit more to widen the search interests. Exams? Enemas? Spanking? Dom or Sub?

Don't waste anyone's time by reaching out to them and then responding days, or weeks, later. That's a good start. 😑

Nope. I didn't even know it was going to happen. My sister did. I was shocked and it hurt a bit.

I've met with two people from this website and vetted them both really well before I ever met up with someone in person. I would suggest talking the time to get know someone well enough to make sure you that vibe with each other, have similar interests, and know exactly what each person wants and also expects from the other. Before I ever met anyone in person, I knew identities and had enough information that I had gathered that made me feel comfortable that I was dealing with upstanding people within their own communities. There were also several meetings in public before there was any naughty fun behind closed doors.

Hey Browser what is wrong with Boston?

Boston is a great city.

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