For the Men - Bisexual attraction

If you believe that, you can make yourself believe any kind of 'justification' for having one kind of sex or another.

Everybody knows...

“It depends on what the meaning of the word ‘is’ is.”

I'm the same way. I'm so glad that I'm not alone in that

I am bisexual and thinking back I was experimenting with friends with innies and outies from a fairly young age.

I don’t think I have that big of a preference either way… My “type” seems to be fairly similar regardless of the genitals.

I’ve been in 3 extremely serious relationships. Two female, one male. I’ve been the dominant/ top in all 3 of these relationships. I can’t say I’ve felt more or less attracted to any of them based on their gender compared to each other.

Sometimes I feel like my ex boyfriend was most “fun” (I dated him during senior years at high school), and I used to think it was because there was never any pregnancy anxieties. No matter how many times I tried, he wasn’t getting pregnant. As time goes on I think it was just an explorative relationship.

I do feel emotional attraction for women only. Having sex and other kinky things with female is so much more connecting on all levels. But having sex, especially receptive anal with man, gives massive pleasure from both being dominated, but also that feeling when hard dick slides in and out, oh and I love woman being witness in thar scenario.

So I only meet with men either as a friend, close friend or just a sex partner, but never as deep connecting relationship as with woman, but it is how I am.

@agracier I couldn't agree with you more! As I've commented here and to guys in person, it ain't rocket science: intimacy in any form with members of only the opposite sex means you're straight. Intimacy only with partners of your own gender means your gay/lesbian. And intimacy (in any form at all) with both genders, even if occasionally, means you are bisexual. It's not like you're straight if you get blown by a guy but don't engage in anal intercourse. Or you're straight if you jerk guys off but never kiss. That's just a lie you're telling yourself and others, perhaps because of your own insecurities. There's nothing wrong with being bi, any more than with being straight or gay. It's a function of personal interests. The idea of assigning descriptions to ourselves and others is to give interested friends a picture of what you're about so they can relate to you accordingly, not with bias, just honestly.

I literally laugh at descriptions of some men here in their profiles who claim to be straight simply because they like a nice hand job from a guy once in awhile but are never romantically involved, or like to get pegged but never do the pegging. It's just hypocritical and reflects a deep insecurity with their sexuality.

To be sure, I'll get a lot of flack from the righteous, the indignant. How dare I make judgements about THEIR sexuality. But, hey, I'm sure a few out there still believe the world is flat.

Sometimes I feel like my ex boyfriend was most “fun” (I dated him during senior years at high school), and I used to think it was because there was never any pregnancy anxieties. No matter how many times I tried, he wasn’t getting pregnant. As time goes on I think it was just an explorative relationship.

While i get the point... as a gay total bottom with some sub thrown in, i've learned that impregnation can go way beyond making a baby. i've posted (elsewhere) a hetero study that demonstrates there are chemicals in semen have a bonding effect on the brain. Though it hasn't been studied, i speculate that the human gut is also highly absorptive, and suspect that there can be a similar effect between two males.

From a purely psychological standpoint, when i a repeatedly penetrated and inseminated by the same Guy, i definitely can get "impregnated" with and by Him.

I had trouble tackling this question myself for a long time, and still trying to unpack a lot of my feelings.

I've had crushes on guys all the way back to middle school, just as I had crushes on girls too. I tend to find more women than men physically attractive, and I think that drove how I dated in my teens and twenties. I didn't understand why I would feel really odd attractions to certain guys and wasn't able to process it until I got older. Conversely, the majority of my fetish experiences have been with guys, and I had a huge amount of shame for a long time about seeking out medical fetish experiences with other guys. At first it was because it was hard to find female partners, but as time went on I realized how much I enjoyed the male-male experience and being able to do things with someone who ).

I can acknowledge now (early 30s) that I am definitely bisexual, and as with many bisexuals, I do have sexual and romantic preferences that aren't equal between sexes. Definitely see my interest in at least most men as more sexual than romantic (probably driven by my fetish interests and lack of romantic experience with guys), though I would not discount having a romantic relationship with the right guy if that opportunity presented itself.

I just love sex with men OR women. However I am married and tend to stay away from other women only because afraid of a more intense emotional attraction. From an early age I was always attracted to playing with boys my age and was very confused because I was equally attracted to girls. I think a mans body can be so beautiful, especially with a hard on LOL. With men it is usually just the sex plus I am a very sub bottom and love to get fucked, women can't do that without toy help.

I am very attracted to women, but I lust after cock. With men it is just sex for me.

I see ads from guys looking for a guy to have some fun with.. Many will be looking for intimacy with making out and lots of touching and that sort of thing. I honestly can’t wrap my brain around the notion of kissing a guy or anything of that sort. For me it’s all about his penis. I find zero interest in guys wearing women’s panties and so forth and seeing a guys ass does nothing for me.. But a big thick cock is another story.. YMMV!

I'm the same way with men. It's just sex. I'm not really into making out or kissing with a man, but sex, sign me up.

Before, and early in my sexual activities with men, I had no interest in kissing, fondling mens nipples, or other types or foreplay with men. I strictly wanted to suck their cocks, and swallow their sperm! Nothing more. But, with women, I loved all those activities.

Then; one day I was in an ABS booth with a man, and we both decided to strip naked, and stand up. When we did, our bodies, and cocks, were pressed against each other, and we wrapped our bodies in each others arms. Next thing I knew, we were French kissing, and my sexual excitement grew intense! I realized that I was as excited kissing the man I was with, more than any woman. I could not believe my feelings, but wanted to repeat them. From that day, I have completely enjoyed men more than a woman, but they still excite me also Unfortunately, now women my age don't want sex.

Until a few years ago I was only attracted to women and never thought of doing anything with men. When I visited a porn cinema during a business trip out of boredom in the evening and saw masturbating men, who then sucked each others cocks, my curiosity was awakened. The activities with men piled up and I shifted my limits more and more. However, it has always remained on the sexual level with men. That's why I could never imagine kissing a man. I have had the experience that most men, I met so far, were also hired. We have fun, and it's good. There are women for love.

For me its evolved. I have always been far more attracted to women and with men it was and only could be sex. As I've gotten older and been with men I've allowed myself to open up (figuratively and literally). Plus I've realized I'm more demisexual. So currently I'm open to feelings with the right person regardless of gender but I still prefer women.

I have zero attraction to men but as I get older I have a great desire to see, touch, masturbate and maybe (maybe!) suck a cock. And I would like to be seen, touched, masturbated and sucked too. Anything else - nope.

I have to say that I agree withRick9asla. I can't imagine French kissing a male but being given access to anything below the waist -particularly if I am the sub, is amazing. I have no ha ngups about

being bisexual- I consider myself lucky.

I also love subbing for a female but the opportunities are very rare. If my wife were into it , I would be totally in my element.

I have had sex with both men and women, separately and both together. I prefer women. My attraction to men is their hard cocks. Either for sucking or it being used to penetrate me.

The physical attraction has always primarily been with women. Older women. Not necessarily beauty queens. I find older non habit / uniform nuns attractive (though haven't had sex with them). The attraction with women has a strong lust element to it. When I masturbate, it is often to imagery of these types of women.

As far as same sex, the only thing that really attracts me about a man is seeing him wearing, either a jockstrap, or a black clergy outfit. I do find some cut cocks to be very appealing. But I'd much rather suck them than look at them. So I guess you could say there is a lust value in the attraction of men as well.

Since my last response quite awhile ago, I have become even more stimulated by the idea of being with a trans woman or crossdresser. It actually seems a good option for a bisexual who loves both sexes. In a way, you get both in one person.

I’m a straight ‘try-sexual’. If the situation is right, with the right guy or guys, I’ve had some quality tequila, and I’m very horny- I’ve tried sex with men only a few times, and have very much enjoyed it.

I do naturally prefer females, but fortunately gave myself permission to experiment. Other than friendship, I’ve never been emotionally involved during or after any same sex contact.

I have always loved both! My first sex was with a group of boys in 7th grade. We learned by playing and doing things to each other - for over a years about once a month. I had my first cock from the older brother of one of the guys. I have loved cocks in me ever since. I have never had my cock in a boy or man.

I had my first girl at 16 at a drive in theater. Then at my house. I loved the softness and feelings of penetrating her. I have always loved girls - I am only romantic with women.

I'm 80 now and have had wonderful experiences with both women and men. I love to love women, even when I got too old to use my penis in them. Women are cuddly and fun to play with. I love men to use ME as a GIRL. I am only interested in men's equipment and use. I love the company of women at dinner and in bed, and of men to do things together. Bed with men is for being used by them - nothing romantic but much physical enjoyment!

I think both experiences are part of the human experience. Love women, enjoy men!

Love women, enjoy men!

You can't express it better. It also applies to me.

I would prefer sex with a woman rhan a man. Women love to have slow, gentle and loving sex. Women have beautiful curvitures. Their breasts and bottoms so beautiful to touch and arrouse them.

@Vin I can relate to a lot of what you had posted.

I've had crushes on guys all the way back to middle school, just as I had crushes on girls too.

I was the same way, and I was kind of shy around both boys or girls whom I had thought were cute and had 'crushes' on. I was usually able to get past my shyness with the boys more easily though I think because I found the girls more attractive, and a bit more mysterious.

My crushes on boys when I was high school age were mainly on smaller more 'effeminate' boys, such as myself. I was more attracted to 'cute' girls as opposed to 'sexy' girls. I had a 'type' that I liked regardless of either sex.

Although I 'liked' more effeminate boys, my main fantasy always was taking it in the bottom from them. I could see myself or imagine myself being on top too, but primarily I fantasized about being penetrated. With girls I fantasized about vaginal sex and mostly about making out - the hugging kissing, heavy petting parts that I really didn't fantasize as much about with boys.

So far, my only play with another guy has been in a fetish situation that has happened a few times with the same guy, and that's been quite some time ago. For going on a long time now I have been more and more receptive to the idea of bottoming for anal sex, to the point of craving it. Unfortunately though I have been having more health problems having had started later last year. My latest - a hemorrhoid that bled recently that I had to get checked out because I am on blood thinners. My PCP nurse practitioner says it should be fine but she's scheduling me for a colonoscopy. In short, I wonder if my fantasies involving anal sex will ever play out.