Why is it so bad to wear diapers?

In a way diapers also represent an addiction. It is the way that industrial nations deal with the incontinence of babies and adults. Non industrial nations use different methods to achieve the same results without diapers.

The addiction aspect comes in because as a child you get addicted to diapers (diaper habit)...The older you get (before potty training) the harder it is to break. No stretch of the imagination, potty training is the breaking of an addiction...the methods are very similar. Like any addiction, some can and want to go back to it.

2 of my 4 spouses said I was addicted to diapers. My 4Th wife is an AB and a cloth diaper addict too.

Tom

I think it has a lot to do with out-dated 1950's based stigmatisum, And mainly the view that someone who is past the age of 3yrs wearing a diaper is somehow abnormal, and is still a baby, I myself wasn't out of diapers until the age of 5 due to delayed potty training due to my disabilities as a child.

I wear diapers nowerdays over 30 years later because of disabilities this time as a adult and that crept up on me after I had turned 30 in 2010, I had normal bladder functions until then.

Honoustly speaking there's nothing wrong with people wearing diapers for what ever reason and I have nothing against either abdl's who choose to wear them no offense, or genuine diaper wearers like myself society is the biggest problem because we were all taught to be out of diapers past the toddler stage ie before five.

And yes If I could magically go back to actually becoming a small infant again then yes I would gladly turn back the clock if only to start over again and this has nothing to do with any fettishes And by the way I hate that word.

And I think if we are to accept those people who wear diapers as part of society our mindset needs changing as specially towards those who like myself have hidden disabilities and those who need them to perform their work and their is nothing more I can say on that matter.

Yours sincerely

Chinababy888.

The selection of a diaper to wear is that of the individual and no one else. Although people do react to the individual's choice of diapers rather than the more suitable adult and acceptable choices made by the consenting public. I have one short statement for the consenting public. Walk a mile in my diaper before you receive the honour to criticize me for my choices.

Diapers are comfortable and nurturing. They allow for that little escape we all need from time to time. This is at no one's expense or right of entitlement or infringement there of. How many of the Ladies here in Zity Biz still have a stuffed toy on their beds they cuddle from time to time? Our cuddle comes in the form of a diaper.

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Every kink/fetish is misunderstood by definition. If it was mainstream, and 'normal' it wouldn't be a kink/fetish.

Halloween is upon us here in the next month. I am ready with a fully supplied diaper bag filled with all of my favorite diapers and changing products. I have three young ladies all volunteers to handle my diapering needs at a large party we will be attending. I will be appearing in Rearz Inspire Overnight diapers and a onsie. Loud and Proud of my diapered condition. Be proud of your diaper fetish my fellow diaper fans.

I think there are three general reasons

1) There is a view that to wear diapers is degrading - they seem a last resort for the medical profession

2) People think we walk about with them full of poop.

3) Far too many in our community let us down badly. e.g. stories involving children, inappropriate comments, a bag of used adult nappies that left at a railway station that caused a security alert that I recently witnessed etc.

R

I think the answer to your question is more like "why is it bad NOT to wear diapers" as there would be very many people walking around thinking "what I would give for a diaper" and no one would be able to find a dry seat on any public transport anywhere ?

And General hygiene would also be under threat.

I hadn't heard that it was bad to wear diapers, but then again I have always had continence difficulty so I never developed quite as strong an aversion to them as everyone else.

I don't think it's bad to wear diapers. Some doctors may think it is not a good idea if you are fully continent. There is some anecdotal evidence that wearing diapers and constantly emptying your bladder into them if not medically necessary can cause you to become incontinent. But I have never heard anyone ever saying that wearing diapers is bad. It's maybe a little bad to the environment with disposable diapers but other than that there is nothing that a diaper can do to you.

It is not so bad to wear diapers. it is definitely more comfortable with a diaper fileld with powder.

I don’t think it is bad. Some people need them, so how can that be seen as a bad thing. Some people just enjoy wearing them and some get a kink out of them, again can’t see why that is a bad thing.

If someone you know thinks it's a "bad" thing for adults to wear diapers, consider it their problem and not yours! It might not have been a popularly accepted issue in the past and, perhaps, even kept hidden, but in the modern day, has become recognized as a need by many. This could be due to post-surgical matters that many adults routinely undergo or simply as a result of stress-related issues that are more commonly accepted.

My own interest developed as a three-year-old child upon being informed by my dad that I would quickly have to learn to not need diapers at night. That information came as somewhat of a shock and, forever afterwards, became a fetish interest that remained well into middle age. When diagnosed with prostate cancer some eighteen years ago and upon learning I would thereafter be bladder incontinent for a time following surgery, my joy overcame any negative aspects I might have felt regarding the cancer issue (there were none as I can readily adjust to and deal with matters beyond my control). A close friend of mine, who'd suffered an industrial accident and had become permanently in need of urinary catheters, strongly advised me not to go the diaper route and that use of catheters was a much better idea - an idea I rejected. My former diaper fetish could now leave the closet and become a real and acceptable need and I did not follow through on the advised and recommended Kegel exercise routines to regain control of my bladder. Presently, most control has long since returned and I can resort at will to use of pads (guards), but always resort to the comfort of wearing diapers at night and frequently throughout many days . . . and I couldn't care less who among my family and friends knows about it!

BTW, that catheter-dependent friend of former years is now dealing with the serious issue of having his urethra virtually destroyed from constant wear-and-tear.

Anyone not realizing how commonly diapers are worn by adults and of how popular they have become should have a look at www.heathwick.ca (Canada) or www.healthwick.com (U.S.).

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It's not even bad thing to wear diapers. Just look at the aging population we have right now, some of them are back in diapers. Even the disabled population has to wear diapers as well. People make wearing diapers very bad thing because they are not educated and informed. Even doctors now are comfortable in people wearing diapers and are even okay if people wear diapers to keep comfortable. Even for me, my doctor is very comfortable and okay with me wearing diapers, to help keep me calm, relax and stress free. My doctor has always told me, that if the diaper helps you get though life, then go for it.

People have a hard time on what is different. This topic is something I love to talk about. So what is the big deal that someone wants to wear a diaper? It's just another form of underwear.

Some people think that diapers are a kink or a fetish and think that diapers should remain in the closet. Diapers in reality are nothing more than just a pair of shorts and underwear. It's why for me, I don't see diapers as a fetish or a kink and instead I see diapers as just another pair of shorts and underwear. On top of that, I don't think that people should have to hide their diapers and I'm all for people wearing diapers and even out in the open as well.

I started wearing diapers at night about 6 months ago and went to wearing them 24/7 about 3 months ago. I have a pee kink and I love peeing in them just a little throughout the day. I'm 72 years old, have had my cancerous prostate removed and live with an insulin pump. While I'm not incontinent, if anyone ever notice I wear diapers and said anything, I'd simply reply, "Are you aware 2 of the causes of incontinence are diabetes and prostate removal?" There's no need to explain I love pee and wish to keep it close to me. I could get them for free (100% VA disability) by lying; but, until I need them for true incontinence issues, I will pay for them myself.

Is wearing them bad? NO! People who are incontinent need them. They're blessed such underwear is available for their use. Are people satisfying a kind doing something bad? NO! We're just quietly doing what we like to do with no ill effects on anyone else. In fact, we're lucky they're available as they provide a means to satisfy several different kinks. I actually hated regular underwear and started going commando before I had the opportunity to easily convince my wife I should start wearing. BTW, I do really enjoy wearing them and peeing in them.

The only thing bad about diapers is how childish people behave about people who want/need them.

I totally agree with you. People make it so bad and childish about people wanting or need to wear diapers. Diapers are NOT a bad thing and if you need them or want them, then so be it. Diapers should never be seen as a bad thing.

There are people out there that think diapers should only be worn by babies. Or they think a child should be completely potty trained by a certain age. Plus there are people out there that look at adults in diapers as weird, and also make fun of them. But what others over look is medical conditions that cause us to have to wear diapers to get by in life. For me being in diapers have saved me from embarrassment while out in public. Diapers have saved me from waking up in a wet bed, and also my wife appreciates it also.

Yes I have to wear a diaper when I sleep. But I have come to love them now I'm hooked and I do wear one when I'm just sitting around the house. I never pushed my kids when we started potty training them our oldest took to the potty right away. Our son could go either way witch drove my wife crazy but I have always loved diapers so I let him go at his own pace. Our thrid child she was still wearing pullups at 7. Now at 13 she wears night time garments like pullups to bed. It shouldn't matter if one wants to wear diapers then it's their choice.

The need to wear diapers doen not difine itself by a medical condition. In my humble opinion could also be needed mentaly. Diapers make life more fun and exiting. That mental need is as impotant as incontinence. The only difference is that the mental need makes it a choice. People who don’t wear by choice have a different battle to fight that is really heavy as well.

I’m still struggeling with my little-side and probably will for a lot of years. I had a few periods in life that I had to wear (urge incontinence and an OAB) and rather have the choice to wear or not.

Spikey

It's not bad to wear diapers, it's just not socially acceptable for an adult to do so. I personally don't care what anyone thinks. I enjoy wearing diapers. And its nobody elses business.

I think once you reach a certain age it's no big deal. I wear nappies 24/7 and all my close friends and family know and it's not a problem

Come to my house there are diapers everywhere as well as cattueters and changing supplies I have my diaper pail in the bathroom.but either fchante or be changed where I am in my wheelchair or in bed

.so if diapers freak you out ,then I freak you out

And your not my friend ,diapers chose me ,be glad I answered the call ,trust me you would be miserable if I shit on your couch,or peed on the floor during dinner? So we are all better of from my use of diapers!

Oh I don't think it's bad at all (and don't think other people disapprove of it either) if somebody has to wear them because of a medical condition or disability.

I do think lots of people probably would think it's bad that people like me do it--not because we need to--but because we love it, we have a wet diaper fetish, and doing it is how we get off. But those same people also probably don't approve of anything anybody would do to get off other than straight, vanilla sex with one's spouse.

But honestly--for me anyway--the fact that those people WOULD disapprove contributes to me enjoying the naughtiness and humiliation aspects of it.

Update, I know I touched on this subject before in my previous reply so I wont try and repeat myself.

These are the nine reasons I think why pepole think wearing diapers is bad as a fully grown adult.

1. Wrongfull perseption or judgement calls, pepole think that if they see somebody wearing diapers or nappies who isn't obviously disabled that they must be a pedofile or have a sexual or mental disorder.

2. Lack of education, People still belive the outdated view that diapers are childish and something that should remain a taboo subject, and this isn't always the case either as many people have to wear them due to their professions or jobs this ranges from sports car drivers to pilots and astronaughts or deep-sea saturation divers medical staff like surgons or jail/prison gaurds wear diapers/nappies and it has nothing to do with childish obsessions.

3. Lack of appritiation of the known facts (invincibility factor), many pepole have in their minds oh it will never happen to me and totally as a result they forget the simple fact that as we age our bodilly functions change too or they don't think they could suffer any form of disability relating to a pysical accident or medical condition.

4. Bullying or abuse, many people forget that if you come across somebody who has been bullied or tortured all of their lives then they have a genuine condition known as ptsd or simillar condition and they may very well be subject to with-drawl or regression to a child like state of mind.

5. lack of care for the elderly or disabled, many people who simply don't understand why peapole wear diapers simply don't understand that there's a chronic lack of places where those who are disabled and or terminally ill, or those who are elderly can go to be cared for as specially if the government is squeezing resorces and so forget that the vast amount of those paitients require home based care.

6. Sexual or pornography portrail, the fact that there are many sex based websites out there involving those who choose to wear diapers is distresding to those who really genuinely need them because it paints a negitive and un-wanred and wrongfully negative portrail of those people as being something they are not (see earlier statement).

7. Hate-crimes or want to hurt people, sadly in society there are those who willingly go out to hurt or humilliate peaople with disabilities and although illigal will stop at nothing to cause someone they target to comit suicide or breakdown in these cases the individuial targeted can have his or her life ruined and this kind of hatered should never be allowed.

8. Lack of clean toilets or dirty facilities, many people dislike for obious reasons going to use dirty or un-hygineinc facilities and try to avoid this by wearing diapers and this should never have been a problem if it wasn't for all the negitive persecptions that still exist in todays society.

9. Long Distance Travel, many people forget that travelling for long periods of time can cause problems with incontinence and over-look the fact those who genuinely need or choose to wear diapers often times don't have the choice or luxury of where or when they will need protection in the form of diapers or nappies and this goes for people of all ages from infants to the elderly.

In all these cases this is the portrail or reason why people can get the wrong ideas about of those who either choose or genuinely need diapers.

Wearing and using diapers for there intended purpose isn't a bad thing for medical reasons or even a fetish when respectfully done. What makes them bad is when fetishes have went to far. Examples are going around in soiled diapers around people, just wearing a diaper or intentionally exposing them. There's a place and time for fetishes. Many have a diaper fetish and I'm ok with it done respectfully and reasonable.