I'm not the submissive type- yet I find the idea of forced nudity situations in front of females insanely hot. Why?

I've read these stories for years, both on Zity and several other sites.

I've never experienced anything like it in real life myself, yet I find the thought of being required to stand or lay there, completely naked, exposed, and vulnerable in front of a bunch of female peers and female authority figures, with refusing not really being an option, to be the most mind-blowingly arousing thing ever.

Heart pounding, penis throbbing, stomach fluttering, mouth dry. Standing there, submissively and obediently with my arms at my sides or behind my back while the lady doctor or school nurse carefully examines every inch of my naked body, while a female teacher chaperone looks on. While waiting my turn in line, I get to see my buddies undergoing the same treatment. OR at a swim meet, standing there for roll call while my girl classmates, woman teachers, female lifeguards, and swim team moms all look on. I know that a lot of guys who experienced this found it to be traumatic, but I'm not one of those guys. I'd love the female attention, slight humiliation be damned. I'd be eating it up.

As a latent exhibitionist, the fact that I didn't get to experience any of these officially sanctioned, institutional group CFNM / mild femdom scenarios during my peak formative years fills me with deep regret, melancholy, and sadness. So much in fact that it's helped fuel my love of dark, depressing, melancholy, angst-ridden, goth themed music. I'm a huge fan of The Cure, Peter Murphy / Bauhaus, Siouxsie And The Banshees, and Sisters Of Mercy. Also new-school goth / darkwave groups like Kaelan Mikla, Lebanon Hanover, She Past Away, Boy Harsher, Drab Majesty, and Hante / Minuit Machine.

Why do I find the idea of institutionally required / coerced CFNM scenarios to be such an incredible turn-on? And why am I so incredibly angry, depressed, resentful, and heartbroken that I never got to experience anything like that, except for that ONE time with that pretty female PA in my 20s? Why do I feel so shitty that that stuff wasn't a regular, normal part of my life like it was with so many other guys? Reading some of these various stories around the web makes me want to masturbate furiously, just before drowning my sorrow, disappointment, and despair in Jim Beam bourbon until I pass out on the living floor.

Why do I feel this way? Why do I enjoy the idea of forced nudity in front of girls and women so much? And why am I so upset that it almost never happened to me? Anyone have any insights?

I love exposing myself in front of a female medical professional too.

It is hard for me to put in words why I like it. It gives me a feeling that there just doesn't seem to be any word for that I know of. And it is hard for me to describe that feeling in words.

Maybe it's that we are so conditioned to have to wear clothes all the time, maybe it's because nudity is a little erotic. It's hard to tell. But many people love it and fantasize about it so you are not the only one.

Being forced takes away your responsibility. So even though you want it you don't have to admit it.

Maybe you can find someone to do a role play with you. So you can have a female "nurse" order you to strip in front of her for an exam.

@ILuvLadyDocs,

I've read these stories for years, both on Zity and several other sites.

I've never experienced anything like it in real life myself, yet I find the thought of being required to stand or lay there, completely naked, exposed, and vulnerable in front of a bunch of female peers and female authority figures, with refusing not really being an option, to be the most mind-blowingly arousing thing ever.

If my simply asking you a question about this is annoying or too public, I’ll be happy to remove it.

I’m sorry that you missed the experience, and I do hope that @DrPatient or others can help you improve your feelings about it. However, I do have a question or two if I may. I haven’t had it either (straight male, 72) and I can easily see how it could be very arousing. Except in erotic fiction stories or the occasional real life description of a guy being examined by his female physician or even woman doctor with her female nurse or student, I’ve never even read about it (forced or required CFNM in front of MULTIPLE women) IRL even once. Now I’m sure I need to get out more or even just read more, but my question is where are you reading these very specific scenario CFNM accounts? I fully believe you when you said

“I've read these stories for years, both on Zity and several other sites.”

but where on Zity or what other sites are you reading them on? Many thanks,

All the best,

Eric @ericmacson

P.S. While I don’t specifically wish to have your described experience, I do have a very specific sexual fantasy that’s quite similar based on my own fetishes. Since I have ~6 specific fetishes, AND I’m a longtime avid SCUBA diver + Instructor, my version of this CFNM scene is to be invited to be the sole male diver on a SCUBA diving charter boat (with, say, 4 or more women divers including my GF who invited me). My GF and her 4-5 invited 🚺 friends are not only divers but Dommes who will spend the entire 3-7d offshore trip being my Domme(s) as their sub. They can require me to be naked or to wear erotic fetish clothing (rubber, sneakers, etc.) as they “force” any or all of my fetishes on me including rubber, sneakers, plugs and enemas. To stimulate and embarrass me further they’re all wearing rubber or neoprene or latex and sneakers all the time. For myself, the 2 keys to this being, as you say, “mind-blowingly arousing” is 1) that my GF and I are Switches but I have a strong preference for being submissive to her Domme side while she gives me large long enemas, and 2) that I detest true IRL embarrassment, but being embarrassed and humiliated by these Dommes on the boat trip is intensely erotic to me because I know they’re trustworthy and bound to keep it perfectly confidential.

Eric