Chastity Cage Newbie

I've been fascinated with cages for a while and finally bought one, but my wife doesn't know yet. I thought I'd try it out on myself first to see how it went before showing it to her.

It arrived yesterday so I tried it on for about 90 mins but I think the ring may have been too big, so today gonna try the next one down.

The problem I have is when I'm putting it on, I get excited which doesn't help. Any ideas of helping me calm down? Or is it a case of sit and wait?

Hey there, long time chastity lover myself and i to remember the hard times of getting into the first cage. But dont worry it does get easier. As for help with that, you can sit and wait after you get your ring one like you said, which in alot of cases thats what you will have to do for awhile. And you can also try sliding into the ring and think about anything and everything else besides what you are doing while your putting the ring on and see if that helps.

As far as the ring being to big, is your cage sliding down while your wearing it? And by that i mean when you try to get hard, are you pushing you base ring and cage out and away from your body along ways?