In control of climax

I'm not so sure if this is really what a "Mommy domme" is about. I would like something like getting to climax, but in an embarrassing way and under the woman's control! I think I'd like being masturbated with a finger in my behind after being cleaned with a little enema or suppository, then having my private parts washed and be tucked in bed. Perhaps I'd also like to be prepared for it by a spanking for being naughty!

What do you think?

@Jacana, That is one of my top fantasies! I do especially like mixing it with punishment scenarios where the embarrassment is heightened.

This is always part of our play. The play is rarely a surprise so for days before, I'm ordered to abstain from masturbation. This means I'm usually hard and dripping before the play even begins. If I'm lucky, Mom is in an "edging" mood and during the punishment, she will stroke me to near climax and then stop. The last time, I was OTK and getting spanked and given an enema with a bulb. While she was spanking or giving the enema with one hand, the other would slip under me and stroke my cock. The feeling was electrifying. She does this because she knows that many times, after cumming, I will need some time to recover and build up the urges to continue so the longer she can edge and stop, the longer I can play and the stronger the climax. Then finally, I'm allowed to cum and will cover my stomach and chest with cum, or if really lucky, in her mouth...

Very early in our marriage my wife decided that she could fulfill her wifely duties without having sex by giving me a prostate milking. This occurred twice a month. I was to take medication so I could not masturbate [SSRIs, ED and DE side effects]. The physical manipulation of my prostate and seminal vessicles resulted in a long slow release of large amounts of seminal fluid with orgasmic contractions. This form of release does not, however, rlease sperm. Thus sperm continued to build up until ultimately old sperm was absorbed by my body.