Love everything anal but, get nothing out of anal masturbating.

So I absolutely love just about anything dealing with anal play or butts in general. I’ve only really got to experience it a couple dozen times with my ex wife (wasn’t her thing). Its been a couple years now since the last time.

I’ve tried, I guess you call it “anal masturbation”? 🤷 but I get nothing out of doing it to myself. I’ve thought about investing in a toy to see if that would help.

I just got out of a long term relationship and don’t really get out at all, so its likely to be years before I actually have a partner to get on that level with lol. Idk. Is solo anal play even a thing? I just assumed it was. 😅

Is solo anal play even a thing? I just assumed it was. 😅

Of course it is. Even wearing an anal plug is solo anal play.

Solo play is good - having a partner goes from "Good to Great"! (might make a catchy title for a book!)

I’m almost 72 and started giving myself enemas and anal plugs and toys when I was 15. Solo anal play is one of the great solo joys of life, whether by fingers, toys, plugs, catheters or enemas. Especially since developing serious ED, it’s a marvelous orgasm stimulator. Enjoy yourself solo, and look forward to or dream or plan for your next anal-playing or enema-loving lover. Couldn’t live without it.

Eric🍑💦❗️❤️

P.S. And if you’re so inclined like I am, gradually find exactly the right toy or tool to massage your prostate through your anus and rectum and it’s a whole other world of sensation and orgasms. Many objects work, but my go-to prostate massager is a stainless steel PureWand by nJoy®️. You do NOT necessarily need to invest in one or more “prostate massager” tools unless you just happen to find that one of them is the best device for you. I’ve never needed one.

Yes solo anal play and masturbation is a thing as long you not have a hang up about enjoying it. Plenty guys enjoy having a toy hit their prostate and or warm enema make the experience intense. Relax and enjoy and when in doubt stay on chat to get others views and encouragement.

I've enjoyed solo anal play for many years. Experimentation over time, and you'll figure out what works for you.

Most of all, you need to be willing to experiment.

I live by myself and I am used to single play. In the last 6 years or so I've only had a anal play partner once. (I had a few guys but that was not anal)

I'm very much into butt play, but would like to have someone play with me, because there a difference in excitement, not knowing what goes in, and how.

But that requires trust and a little more than just a FWB for one night

I live by myself and I am used to single play. In the last 6 years or so I've only had a anal play partner once. (I had a few guys but that was not anal)

I'm very much into butt play, but would like to have someone play with me, because there a difference in excitement, not knowing what goes in, and how.

But that requires trust and a little more than just a FWB for one night

I feel the same, fortunately I have a trusted committed partner, butt play with her is an order of magnitude better than solo. But solo butt sex is better than no butt sex!

@Ms_Erin if not married, would love to meet you! 😀

Ms Erin: Do you enjoy being by yourself?

Ms Erin: Do you enjoy being by yourself?

@Ms_Erin said she’d like to have a partner. Just more than a casual impersonal hookup. Like most of us.

I agreed. I got nothing from solo play. I need someone to do it for me.