I'm getting careless with my diapers...

Only a few months ago, if I wanted to wear a diaper, I'd put a curtain over my locked door, turn up the music to mask the sound of the tapes, turn off the window fan so the curtain doesn't blow around, and I'd be as quick and discreet as possible. I'd put on some dark pants. More recently, I've been wearing more often, and taking less measures to cover up.

Do you think it's because I'm more used to wearing with people in the house? Or perhaps because I'm starting to get a little careless? My diaper wearing remains a secret to everyone, mostly because I'd rather not explain myself.

Longer you wear, diaper becomes common in your daily life; however, you have to treat it carefully.

I would have been the same assuming your younger than me and still living at home, at the time i don't think i wanted to be caught. so maybe a way of looking at it is that it's something you enjoy doin therefore want to do it more often... try and imagine living on your own!? would you do it any less and is it more a case that your want to be more independent??

The more you use diapers you understand that no one notice and its in your head.

if you don't take off your pants, no one can know you are wearing a diaper

At peseent i don't have any friends that come by,but if i had any women come by i'd want to have my plastic pants hanging in the shower or somewhere disceetly but a pace where I know she wil find them and ask me why I have plastic pantes around and who do they belo9ng to? 😁 😁 😁 😁

I don't think you are getting careless with your diaper use. i think you are getting use to wearing diapers again and i use to think the same way at first but the more often i wore diapers the less i didn't worry about what people thought about me wearing diapers.

I would have to say that, according to criminal psychologists-not myself, you are trying to become discovered. I draw this from the conclusions made about, most specifically, thieves. Thieves who are really adept at getting away with what they do might eventually start slipping up here and there. I question the professional's theories on the intent behind this as a means to getting caught on purpose though. Rather I believe that once you discover that you are well off at getting away with something, you start to have a swelled since of confidence that might lead you astray from your usually very careful routine.

Granted, I don't know you from Adam to make any conclusions whatsoever, but merely offer ideas from my own introspection. I have had moments of sloppiness as well in regards to many things that I was attempting to keep under wraps. At times I had to admit that a part of me desired, if on a small scale, the idea of discovery; other times the loose ends were simply present due to my being overly confident and, well, missing certain incriminating elements.

I agree with most that you aren't being careless. This is a part of you and you are just living your life.

I think you are just getting used to wearing, but be careful not to get careless as that could well turn out to frighten you off forever ! :'(

I think its personally important to realize once you've accepted that part of who you are and have grown comfertable with yourself that you dont feel afraid to do it. Its also a question of whether you just need to come out to those around you so you dont have to hide it. Maybe just state "its my preferred underwear" or "thats what I like to wear"

Its your preferance I'm just making a suggestion.

I get careless around the house, its just the wife and I. She is aware and over the years I leave more and more (diaper stuff) out in the open. I think it has helped her accept things as they are also.

I know the feeling. It's almost like: "I know my neighbour can see me if he goes to the hedge, bends down to find a hole to peek through, bending his back". After YEARS of diaper wearing you star to think: "F#### him, I'm not the one peeking". Ofcause you should not do things, which you KNOW will offend other people, but when they peek hard enough...

Besides: If they have to really extend themselves to get a glimpse of you in a diaper: Should you care?

I have the same issue I wear around people and was comfortable knowing no one went in my room that changed suddenly now I'm under constant scare of it... and at this point I just don't care if they go digging for it... be prepared for more questions then answers.... and be ready to accept what you find. Thats why I rarely go digging

The more often you wear, the more your mind gets careless, as it see's it as commonplace. Just the other day, I took off my AIO cloth diaper and put it on the shelf in my dormroom's bathroom. After my shower, I dressed and went to class, with my diaper just sitting there(unwet, was wearing for fun, not use) x.x I remembered in the middle of class and had a panic attack. Luckily, my roomate spent the evening with his girlfriend, and hadn't come back yet by the time I got back to my room.

I make no effort to hide the fact I wear nappies all the time now. gradually all my family and friends have found out. No one ever says anything.

I think that the older you get and the longer you're into this, the less you care what other people think. At least that's the way it is with me.

Years ago I'd lock myself into my room (or later my apartment) and close the drapes and have my fun. If I went out in public I'd wear my diapers under a long coat or a low-hanging shirt with baggy sweatpants on to hide them. When the fun was over, everything went back into my "diaper box" and then that was hidden in the closet.

Now, if you came over here to visit, you'd see diaper pins laying on the dresser in my bedroom and a pink Nuk 6 pacifier in the head of the bed. If you went in the walk-in closet you'd see my diapers laying spread out on the floor (after a spin in the dryer I let them air dry the rest of the way). My diaper pail is in the back corner, back behind some hanging clothes but still visible. There are plastic pants hanging there drying on the door knob. Sometimes if I've had lots of recent diaper fun and my diaper pail is full, you smell it as soon as you go in the closet. And if I go out diapered, I now just pull a pair of shorts on over them and actually enjoy the fact that they're totally obvious to anyone who looks closely.

The only hold-back for me is that I still have a kid living here but he's now college-age and doesn't go poking around in my bedroom anymore that I know of, if he does this while I'm gone and knows my secret, he's never said a word. If he ever did, I'd tell him "I don't invade your privacy and expect you to not invade mine" and that would be that.

Once he finally goes off to live on his own I think I want to be even more open about it. My wife knows and generally doesn't care. Life is short, and I want to spend what's left of it enjoying who I really am.

Revealing diapers happens now and then.

I don't think your getting careless at all, just more at ease with what you need, and don't need to do to in order to continue to wear diapers secretly. Like any other activity, practice improves your skills.

Like any other secret, though, the odds are that the more you wear, the greater the likelihood that someone will notice, or at least begin to suspect. Secrets also tend to be hard to keep over a long period, so you are probably going to want someone to notice at some point, but that is always an individual choice. I'm certainly not recommending letting just anyone find out.