Stumbling into a CFNM relationship/friendship

Is anyone in a CFNM relationship and friendship?

I recently met a woman by accident whilst out walking my dogs and during pleasant conversation she noticed I wear traditional men's y-fronts/tighty whities. That was enough for her to make an observation and one thing led to another and I was invited to attend her house. Upon arrival, I had to strip down to my underwear and vest and carry out chores as directed whilst she supervised and watched. Needless to say, I received a spanking and instructions to relieve myself whilst she watched and since then, when I pop round, I have to be dressed as instructed and carry out her instructions including washing her feet, brushing her hair and other stuff. Likewise, I have been surprised by her enjoying bathing me, yes I have to stand in the bath and be washed. I have also been her naked waiter and cleaner and its the control I enjoy. Strange thing is, I'm 59 and she loves my body. Similar to her husband who passed away a couple of years ago. She is 63.

Is anyone into this type of relationship especially considering the ages of the participants and if so, what else could I expect? Its a new relationship and quite tame so far and I'm wondering if there are indicators of secret desires she has not introduced me to yet.

I must walk my dog in the wrong places! I'm envious & fascinated. Does she ever masturbate you? Are you invited to pleasure her in any way?

This thread brings back mélodies to my mind. Back in the seventies, in my late twenties, I had a very intense relation with a girlfriend who was very much info medfet and you could say this relation was essentially CFNM.

Maria had set the rule that every time we were to have sex, she would impose on me a compréhensive medical exam, me stark naked, her keeping her clothes on..

She stethed me with a stéthoscope she had stolen from her older sister, who was a réal MD. But she devoted most of her exam to my penis and balls. She retracted my foreskin several times and she palpated my penis shaft and testicles. She was very nice and gentle when she touched me and I enjoyed it a lot. This mock medical exam allways ended with Maria taking my rectal temperature on her lap. I had confessed to her that I had a strong rectal temperature fetish. It felt so good when she parted my buttocks and slowly inserted her thermometer deep in my rectum. I remember my erect penis pressing on Maria's tight as the thermometer registered. Maria never told me how long she kept the thermometer in my butt, nor what my temperature was when she took it out.

After she withrew her thermometer, I was allowed to take off her clothes and the sex we had was fantastic, out of this world.

I recently met a woman by accident whilst out walking my dogs and during pleasant conversation she noticed I wear traditional men's y-fronts/tighty whities.

I used to have a (lovely sweet) cat that I took outside for walks on a leash, when travelling and camping she would be something of a chick magnet, getting much attention, lots of stroking and petting.

No one ever noticed me though or even remotely looked at me in a suggestive way.

How do these things happen to others, but never to me?

No one ever noticed me though or even remotely looked at me in a suggestive way.

How do these things happen to others, but never to me?

Maybe you should purr more.

So let your undies show and you never know what will happen…

Weird because growing up EVERY kid wore tighty whiteys and I would imagine a lot of us (me) still wear them just because it’s what we’re used to.

@Borehamwoodman,

I liked very much your story and found it very romqntic ? Do you have sex with this charming woman ?

They were too busy stroking your pussy @agracier . 😃

I would say you have more good things coming lol

Not quite the same but a similar experience I had with a woman about 5 or 6 years older than me before I retired. I was sent by work to take measurements to monitor some defects in her old house (early 1900's). I found her quite attractive despite her age so often made it the last call of the day allowing me to accept offers of a coffee after I'd finished.

She always let me clean up in her bathroom after I'd finished before driving home. One day it was raining really hard I was soaked through so said, when asked, did I want a drink that I really needed to get home and into dry clothes. Knowing I had quite a distance to go she suggested it would be better if she dried my clothes for me in her dryer. I'm ashamed to say, I thought the prospect of removing all my clothes and handing them to her excited me a bit, though I assumed I wouldn't be stripping in front of her. She said she'd get one of her husband's dressing gowns for me to wear while they dried. She was a widow.

She gave me the dressing gown showed me into the utility room where the dryer was and left me to get undressed. When I'd finished I called her and she came and put all my clothes in the dryer but also surprised me by saying she'd run a hot bath for me. I thanked her and she led me upstairs to the bathroom. We both went into the bathroom and she checked the temperature of the water and gave me some shampoo, soap and a flannel then left me to take my bath.

I got into to the bath and began to feel warm for the first time for a few hours but was surprised a few minutes later when she knocked on the door and came straight in with some towels saying 'I thought you'd like some nice warm towels'. I was a bit surprised but rather excited to have her in the room while I was naked in the bath and more so when she suggested she stay, saying 'I used to chat to my husband while he took his bath when he came home at night, you don't mind do you, we're both adults aren't we?

I didn't know quite what to say but was happy with what she suggested so said nothing. Then she offered to wash my back for me! Without waiting for a reply she took the flannel from me and did just that so now I was naked, being washed by this woman that I'd only met a few times before. After she finished my back the time came for me to get out and I wondered what would happen next? I didn't have long to wait. She held the towel up and I realised she expected me to stand up. I'll confess I did have a semi but was glad of the increase in size in case her husband had been bigger than me. I only hesitated for a moment then stood up but as I did she stepped back away from me rather than wrapping the towel around me immediately and I realised she was getting a good look at my naked body.

She kept hold of the towel told me to turn around and started to dry my back and arms then left me naked while she reached in and took the plug out of the bath whilst telling me to turn and face her. She dried my chest and arms then knelt on one knee, her face close to my genitals, and dried my legs and I wondered how far this was going? Rather disappointingly she then handed me the towel saying. half laughing, 'you'd better do the rest I'll go and make some hot drinks for us both'

I finished getting dry, put the dressing gown on, then went down to the kitchen for the drink, thinking what a strange situation sitting here,, naked under her husband's old dressing gown, drinking coffee with a woman who was almost a stranger, who has just given me bath and seen everything I'd got.

I went there twice again but one time her daughter was there and on another a neighbour (female) called just as I was finishing my work so things never went any further though I did think the neighbour gave me some strange looks but perhaps that was just my imagination.

Yes.

Started with a high school friend, sweet boy, we were both very naive. Of course had no idea about “CFNM” then. We played doctor a lot.

Similar situation in college with another sweet, submissive guy. Still in contact today and play from time to time. Very trusting friendship.

Never kissed either guy, never removed any of my clothing. Or was asked to or wanted to.

I’m genuinely a very submissive person but only with women now. I do love the control aspect of being the doctor with a male patient, and though pictures of naked men don’t do much for me, I’m fascinated by photos or artwork of CFNM medical situations.

I finished getting dry, put the dressing gown on then went down to the kitchen for the drink thinking what a strange situation sitting here, naked under her husband's old dressing gown, drinking coffee with a woman who was almost a stranger, who has just given me bath and seen everything I'd got.

I went there twice again but one time her daughter was there and on another a neighbour (female) called just as I was finishing my work so things never went any further though I did think the neighbour gave me some strange looks but perhaps that was just my imagination.

What a pleasant sounding experience, especially I would think in retrospect, when mulling over what happened and what might have happened in addition.

To be honest, this sounds like something I'd like to do with an almost stranger. I truly think I'd prefer something like this happening to me than to having an actual sexual encounter.

In any case, I am happy for you and for having shared in the telling.

I do love the control aspect of being the doctor with a male patient, and though pictures of naked men don’t do much for me, I’m fascinated by photos or artwork of CFNM medical situations.

CFNM and medical situations together seem hard to come by and find. But I have found is in one of my albums somewhere.

Agracier: Thanks for your comment, yes it is a happy memory and I'd love it to happen again. I think it just felt like friendship without the complication of sex but I doubt I'll ever experience anything like it again.

@GraceT wrote:

...and though pictures of naked men don’t do much for me, I’m fascinated by photos or artwork of CFNM medical situations.

It's the same for me. I am hetero, so don't generally get any arousal from seeing other men's bodies. But an image of a naked man being subjected to medical dominance (especially rectal temps!) by a clothed woman evokes a very strong reaction.

Well same here. Hetero guy, don't care about the body, naked or not, of another dude. But seing a naked man scrutinized by one or several women who clearly enjoy it turns me on every time.

It's the nakedely (not sure that's a word 😁) submission of the man to the women that is really something else for me.

Same for me, Seeing a man being examinated by a ( preferably attractive) woman, especially having his rectal temperature taken really turns me on. A man examining anorher does not do much to me.

I must say that I have a strong rectal temperature fetish and I enjoy as much taking my girlfriends' temperature as having them take mine.

I agree with Runner Up and Svensson, pictures and videos and stories of men being examined by women is one of my likes, probably because of the submission or perhaps a reversion back to childhood when women including grandmothers and aunties would undress and bathe me. I think also the feeling that the woman attractive or not has control, making me strip and submit to them is important. I say attractive or not because I perhaps hope that the older and less attractive woman might get more pleasure out of the experience.

As many of you know , I am 70 + years old , lost control of my legs about 15 years ago , bladder not long after , Had a "few" stroke's and last May a head wound that put me into a nursing home . This is a teaching facility so every day , my body is looked at one way or another , My catheter and penis is checked by one or more nurses ,,,, at least once a day . Twice a week my favorite nurse takes me in to take a shower ,,,,,, and as I am a fall risk and have lost most of my control of my right hand she bathes me . It is wonderful when she scrubs my back , a little embarrassing when I feel her fingers on my rear , and most embarrassing when she cleans my penis and catheter . But you won't hear me complain ,,,,,,,,

Nytwatch1. Sorry to hear of your misfortune but happy to hear you have at least some 'compensations.' Wishing you well.

@johncrossley Today is my shower day .

@johncrossley Today is my shower day .

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@nytwatch1 do you allready experience a Hitachi Magic Wand or a Lovense - Domi to give you a complete private massage , leading you to be like " forced to cum " ?

A pity that it is not in the way of live to agree that aged or people with reduced mobility have also sexual needs and fantasies .

You can type , ... , you can hold a vibe in your hand , try it , and don't stop to continue the " massage " until your natural contractions stopped . Enjoy !

A gorgeous relationship. Being instructed to undress by a women and doing as told throughout the day. Even remaining in the relationship as other female friends are invited over.

I appreciate your story.... You may think it weird or odd but it really is not so!

Several years ago, I was in my late 40s at the time, I went into for a colonic irrigation, a deep cleansing enema session provided by naturalistic/holistic providers. The lady providing the service was in her mid to late 60s. As the session progressed her hands seemed to be all over me and soon was tightly grappling my enlarged manhood. A which time she quietly said, "I hope you are comfortable but my husband died several years ago and I just miss touching a man, ok?" Me I just laid back and permitted her to touch me. She did not attempt a happy-ending or anything more, just a quiet relaxation session.