Who knows the status of your circumcision?

This is interesting to think about. I guess there are a few categories of people who “know” my circumcision status in various ways.

1) People who have seen my penis in person. Beyond those I’ve had sex with, this includes:

- At least 7 doctors I remember specifically looking at it.

- Other medical professionals I have no specific memory of. For example, I had a couple of childhood surgeries and assume I was cathed for those procedures.

- Several play doctors, all of whom examined my penis very thoroughly

- Another play patient who I was examined alongside a couple of times

- Any guy who has seen me changing underwear, showering, or toweling off in a locker room - this category theoretically includes hundreds of guys I don’t know, plus a few friends and coworkers who go to the same gym. Though I realize that most guys who may have seen my penis in these circumstances probably didn’t particularly notice or care about my circumcision status.

2) People who I’ve discussed circumcision with. This includes a few close friends from teenage and college years, and in adulthood some other gay men as well - as an adult this has never been a conversation topic with any of my straight male friends, but the topic occasionally comes up among gay friends when discussing sexual experiences and partners (some have a strong preference for either cut or uncut partners but most do not).

3) I’ve also posted some faceless nude photos on various sites before, but that feels like a different category and far more anonymous than someone who has seen it in person, even if they also don’t know me. I’ve also exchanged photos in chats on apps like grindr, or gone on cam with online friends - most of these guys I never ended up meeting in person.

4) For that matter, anyone who reads this post or related posts I’ve made on this site is now included in the group of people who know I’m circumcised.

The only people that know I am now circumcised are my ex wife and the women after that I have had sex with as well as all the medical providers since I had to get circumcised since its not only visible but in my records as well and even though its been awhile I still sometimes get asked about why it was done or if I had any complications.

A surprisingly large number of people know about mine.

As I have said previously on here, when I was done only my close friends knew, but shortly after that I moved to secondary school with communal PE showers. I was the only cut boy so word got around school like wildfire. In adulthood, many of my friends know, as I am still friends with a couple of people from school and they have made jokes about it at various gatherings over the years.

Beyond that, it is my former partners (and probably their friends since women talk lol) and any medical professionals that I have seen, since it is on my medical records and I have seen it written on the screen in the summary of me when going for other GP appointments.

After years of teasing and comments about it, I am fairly relaxed about it now. There isn't much people can say about it now that someone hasn't said before lol

Any one who has seen it, or anyone who has asked

You can check mine out in one of the photos I have posted in my Zity album “My Personal Pictures”

Good question

I can say that my whole family, brothers, parents, nephews, some uncles and grandparents

Part of my in-laws.

My wife and previous partners.

My closest friends and their wives because it is certain that my wife already told them

Doctors

And people who have seen me in public showers

My group of close friends know that i am uncut, either from seeing it in changing rooms or at the sauna or from a discussion we once had about circumcision.

Other than that obviously my family medicine doctor and my urologist know.

All of my family and anyone who has viewed me naked, probably 50 people. There is also an interesting event where I was operated on to remove a fragment that had penetrated my upper thigh area and was lodged in a position very close to the femoral artery. Photographs were taken during the operation and published in a medical journal. Two years later a female doctor unwittingly showed me the photographs and told me about it. I had no idea that photographs of the operation site and my penis had been used in this way. The lady doctor did assure me that there were no identifying details and they take care to not identify the individual, apart from the persons age. Anyone who read that journal would have noticed that the male in the photographs was circumcised.

I'm a nudist and like group activities so it was out for all to see. Happy to show it to anyone who asks as well, not inhibited that way. Various doctors and other medical professionals for all the procedures I've had done. And there is a picture galley that the surgeon who did the circ revision did. I presumed he has shown it to other patients considering the procedure.

I have been circumcised for 1 year. and happy like that. Those who know are : my children, one of my brothers, and my close friends. I do not hide it. If it comes up in conversation, I fully own it, especially since I am a naturist. So all my naturist friends also know.

A few weeks ago, at a guys' night over at a friend's place, one of the guys told us he'd gone to the emergencies the night before because of a complication following a surgical procedure. The friend whose place we were at—who knew about the previous procedure—asked him if it was related to a vasectomy or a circumcision.

From that point on, he explained to the rest of us at the party that during his vasectomy, the surgeon had recommended circumcision, and he had agreed without thinking twice.

So we all started talking about the foreskin, asking who had one and who was circumcised. He was the only one who was circumcised.

Apart from medical people, only my wife and one or two very close friends.

I only had it done last year due to balantis.

I was so ashamed of it as the Balantis was caused by A being diabetic and B: not being able to wash myself properly when I had my wrist in plaster.

Initially I wouldn’t undress in the locker room at the gym but I’m ok now.

I have one friend that really loves this as a fun fact about one's self. I think simply to be promiscuous (maybe inebriation is required). So from time to time the question will be proposed to the guys of the larger friend group, ladies attendance be damned. "Are you cut or uncut?"

It's a little confusing and plenty silly, but everyone answers and I assume they are truthful. It's always about 50/50.

Guys in the gym lockeroom and bunch a people at a nudist spa in Germany!

Everyone in Gym Class in Junior High and High School knew I was circumcised (as most of us were) because we all had to shower together at the end of class and saw each other in the shower. Anyone in the gym at University because we had to walk from the locker room to the showers at the end of a long hall. Many of my aunts and many of my boy cousins because we changed into and out of our bathing suits together at the cottage in the summer and especially two boy cousins and several of our male friends who examined each others' genitals and masturbated each other.

I get on cam a lot for a public chat room, so quite a few people, we are definitely 100+.

I just recently had a convo about circumcision with my best friend as he just had a son and they were going to have him cut. I told him that I got cut around 6-7 years old and he replied with almost the same answer at 7 years old. Now we both know that we’re both circumcised

@jz724 Is he going to have his son circumcised as a baby? Isn't it a breach of tradition?

@jacana yes as a baby as he doesn’t want his son to go thru the pain of getting it done older

Everyone I've ever had sex with, everyone who shared a dorm shower with me, everyone I swam naked with, everyone who has seen me in a gym shower, everyone in my family.... I don't really understand the question because, as private as genitals are, we do see one another nude sometimes and we do know our own family and we know the customs of our particular chunk of humanity.

I don't really understand the question because, as private as genitals are, we do see one another nude sometimes and we do know our own family and we know the customs of our particular chunk of humanity.

@JakeNewYork I think this question is more relevant for men who belong to a minority, like me, I’m circumcised even though it's unusual in my country. It's also possible that I'm placing too much importance on it; for other people, being circumcised or not is irrelevant.

@JakeNewYork Indeed, as @Woyzeck says things are different in cultures where routine circumcision is the norm (e.g. the US) and cultures where it is uncommon (Western Europe except for Jews and Muslims), so circumcised boys feel like exceptions in their own family and social milieu.

All of Christendom, including its contractors, subsidiaries, enemies, allies, and auxiliaries (including Mormons, Jehovah's Witness, and Hasidic Jews) shall assume I am circumcised.

...and they are correct.

If you see me from 20 feet away and stereotype me, there's really no surprises. Your brain recognizes patterns, this is not evil.

As a male dancer for a time I'm sure many women have seen my penis circumcision status. I also was an escort for my hairdresser friend who set me up with many of her friends who just wanted a good non-committal fuck. Many women enjoy getting laid with no after interaction with a man until they want sex again. I learned that early on and wore myself out escorting. I actually didn't wear myself out, but I DID get married and thought it better to stop with the escorting to honor my commitment to my wife.

I am uncircumsized and I'm really happy that I am. Who know? Well, of course my wife and former wife (she has passed away), all my school friends on the sports teams I was on as we showered together, and a few girlfriends. I never met a female that showed her likes and never had a question about it. As for a partner if a male? It doesn't matter at allto me, but I do enjoy another uncut guy as it it provides more to play with!

Classmates and Friends WHO have Seen me nude

Well, everyone on Zity, the guys in the locker room at school, my parents and a small but exclusive group of beautiful women