Help for Nerves

My bf is having to get a new provider, since ours left his plan.

We have been seeing my internist, who is female, and she has referred him to a female

He is nervous, of course. How do you cope with nerves before a first visit?

What is he nervous about?

...We have been seeing my internist, who is female, and she has referred him to a female

He is nervous, of course. How do you cope with nerves before a first visit?

The nervous energy is one of the best parts! An exam from a new doctor is full of unknowns and mystery. So exciting, I love it! I usually embrace my nervous anticipation and masturbate like crazy leading up to my exam.

On a side note, if you both have have been seeing your internal med doctor, why is he looking for a new provider and why is she referring him somewhere else? Why not keep your doctor if he's already established with her?

Deep breathing exercises. Get there early and get used to the environment. Ask questions to level the power dynamic a bit.

Get him a gallon enema bag. Fill it and show him his reward if he is a goood boy for you. Then, if he is even reasonably OK with the nice doctor, let him have it. That will help him next time too, especially if you help him with it, giving more encouraging language all the way through, even while driving.

I’m getting a new female doctor next week too. To get ready I’m writing out my too extensive history. I’m skipping coffee, for sure. In the old days new visit one would strip naked and get a hernia exam & rectal. These days I expect her to listen to my chest through my shirt & call that the exam. I always wind up with high blood pressure readings by the nurse even though I’m okay at home.