Top 2 or 3 of your favorite things about masturbation?

I'm thinking the orgasm would be up there. What else? For me it would be watching the semen shoot out of me, but I can no longer do that after having had my prostate and seminal vesicles removed. I love edging, especially if I can drag it out for a few hours, but feel guilty afterwards because I am aware I could be using the time more productively. I love imagining I'm getting a handjob from a naturally pretty regular woman anywhere between 18 and 55 as I stroke my penis with reckless abandon. What she's wearing really doesn't matter. She could be wearing a sweatshirt and jeans, with her hair in a pony wearing her glasses and no make-up for all I care. As long as her eyes are going back and forth between my face and my penis while her hands are going up and down over my penis. She'd be concerned with how it feels for me. As she tried some new action (a finger in the butt, teasing licks and sucks from the mouth, oils, etc.) she would ask does this feel good? How about this?

I love to imagine that I am about to be spanked with the belt or that someone is rubbing or licking my clit until I cum💦✌️👅😈

I would love to role-playing play you with...and help your imagination go wild and crazy..

I remember being younger and I would cum so hard that it would hit my face. I had a lady friend who loved to watch that.

Edging for long periods of time and remembering all the sexual things i did as a very horny kid!

To preface this, I love making love to Anthony, and love his penis inside of me. When it comes to masturbating, though, there is just something different and unique to me, that I enjoy.

I've had out of this world orgasms during masturbation; the kind that result in a nice little nap after, haha. I love that feeling and rush that comes with releasing myself and just letting go. I've had it to where I went for, I don't know, maybe an hour or so, and I was sweating and my hips were sore from having my legs spread for so long, and I had left a HUGE wet spot on the sheets. So, love love LOVE the orgasms, number one.

Number two, it's me time. My thoughts can drift anywhere they want when masturbating. Fleeting thoughts, weird thoughts, whatever. Their my thoughts and images, though, and that's what I like. Gives me a chance to explore what I like and enjoy, and then I can relay a clearer picture to Anthony of what gets me off the most so he can replicate.

Lastly, I can play as hard, soft, long, slow, or as fast as I want...maybe fits in with number two. I'll always enjoy sex more, though, as that is more intimate and an act of love we share between each other but I sure enjoy my own abilities to orgasm on my terms, too! 😊😉

@Shygirl17 Very well articulated. I agree. Sex is great, and masturbating is great, but they offer different types of erotic engagement.

….My thoughts can drift anywhere they want when masturbating. Fleeting thoughts, weird thoughts, whatever. Their my thoughts and images, though, and that's what I like. Gives me a chance to explore what I like and enjoy…

This is a big one for me. I can change positions, toys, techniques, and erotic material whenever I want, and not feel like the other person is having to keep up or change gears each time. I’m free to explore whatever pathway it takes, and nothing impedes the natural (naughty) flow of my own mind and imagination.

Doesn’t require me to talk to my wife 😂🤣😂

@Larrybrady When I was a teenager, masturbating in bed on my back, I recally getting semen in my hair. Those were the days!

Masturbation lets me enter into my own fantasy word of being with a woman that I used my imagination to create or remembering a beautiful lady I seen or been with. It's a world of no commitments, only pleasure. It makes me unwind, relax and forget everything and then I fall asleep and get a really good nights rest.

Some really good answers here that I may not add much to.

I do love the point of orgasm, and how it is a major release, especially if I had spent the last several hours or so really horny. I lovew those few moments afterward, just floating slowly back into reality.

Number two, it's me time. My thoughts can drift anywhere they want when masturbating. Fleeting thoughts, weird thoughts, whatever. Their my thoughts and images, though, and that's what I like. Gives me a chance to explore what I like and enjoy, and then I can relay a clearer picture to Anthony of what gets me off the most so he can replicate.

I don't have a partner, so that part isn't, and hasn't been, relevant to me. But yes, I can have my own thoughts. My own perfect girl enters my mind as vivid as reality sometimes, doing things---anything and/or everything---that gets me satisfied. The fantasy girl enjoys my fetishes as well (see bio), and is my idea of perfectly beautiful (which a lot of girls satisfy, but I will say I love stunningly fit abs, smaller breasts, and soft skin). The fantasy girl also has no hard limits, even if I do (and I do). So I can realize my truest fantasy fuck.

Granted, some orgasms are duds, but there's always next time.

I think a lot of people hear summed up my experience on this. Masturbation is my way of being able be sexually pleasured the way I want to feel it. Sometimes its about getting a quickie and easy dopamine/endophin rush. Other times its about drawing out the physical, sensual sensations and allowing myself to enjoy it and not jump straight to orgasm. I can play with my nipples, testes, rectum, prostate, etc. It also gives me the mental space to feel out my own sexuality or feel more comfortable with it, to explore my fantasies, etc.

1. It's the perfect stress reliever.

2. It's good for cardio.

3. It's entirely free.

4. It comes with infinite repeats.

5. It allows you to feel pleasure while thinking about whatever the hell you want.

I don't like masturbation. i do it (eventually) for lack of an other (Top) to have sex with, to relieve the built up tension. i can edge for days, even a couple of weeks (not continuously lol) without cumming. The length of time is always connected to wishes for that "other" person to fill the position. Once i cum, it's a lot and pretty powerful. Not unusual to have to clean semen from my face. One time while removing bedding to launder in noticed my headboard had something on it... yeah, you guessed it. Not usually a place i look for semen.

After i cum from masturbating, i'm physically relieved, but psychologically disappointed. my ideal orgasm is the one a Man/Top has (gives) inside of me, not the one my body can have on its own. i love it when He is in control of both our pleasure and orgasm. Him masturbating me, never to make me orgasm, but for the purpose of making me more needy for His pleasure and orgasm is the best kind of masturbation for me.

At 63 I’d rather take care of my own issues than rely on another human being and the complications that go along with it

Got a wife that has no interest in me or sex don’t want or need more disappointments

Orgasm would definitely be number one but the anticipation leading up to the orgasm as well as the slow stroking and the eventual ejaculation would also be pleasurable!

It's the ride. As long as you like, however you like. Fast or slow. Reaching the destination or not.

I masturbate for release some days but more often than not, it's just for the long sensation. Taking myself to the edge and then staying there for as long as I like. My adventures with e-stim figure prominently in this.

First would certainly have to be the orgasm itself and the euphoria, relaxation, and calmness that results afterwards. Second would be that it can be done almost anywhere if the urge strikes and I want or need an orgasm at that point of time.

Masturbating while imagining of someone

I can fuck any woman I want, they always enjoy it & they always ask for me to fuck their ass. If agent Scully / Gillian Anderson from the X-files knew how many times I'd fucked her ass I recon she'd probably shoot me...

Come to think of it I doubt if she'd have been able to sit down much in the late 1990s & might have needed some kind of anal re-bore!

1. It's good 'n' cheap

2. It's self-lovemaking

3. I can watch my own porno movie posed in front of a mirror

I absolutely LOVE the feeling of the orgasm. But I also really enjoy watching my cum shoot everywhere. I used to try and catch my load in tissues but in the last few years I’ve just been letting it shoot wherever it lands and worry about the cleanup later. It’s very freeing.

The fact that I can enjoy an enema and the e-stim without worrying about any recriminations or concern about pleasing anyone else but myself.

First, it feels good.

Second, I can fantasize about any woman I’ve met or anyone I make up in my mind.

Third, I’m alone in my own thoughts and I like myself.

Fourth, I can think about any sexual experience I’ve ever had and I can embellish the experience any way I want.

Five, When I was three years old and playing with the boy next door, his aunt who was babysitting him decided he needed an enema.

As we were playing with a little pile of toys on her kitchen floor, she abruptly gathered him up, stripped off his training pants while carrying he to the bathroom where she had a basin full of soapy water and a straight chair waiting.

She sat down, turned him upside down on her leg while pinning his legs against his body and starting injecting him with bulbs of the soapy water.

After several bulbs full, she sat him on a child’s potty chair for his release.

Then she moved the chair back against the wall and she started taking her clothes off. When she was naked, she spread a towel on the floor, opened a closet door and pulled out a red enema bag with a long hose and a big black nozzle.

She was an Italian woman in her 30s (I’m guessing) with a huge black bush and large breasts with big nipples.

She began filling the bag with the soapy water until it was full. Then she hung it on a nail before she laid down on the towel on her back and raised her legs over her head.

Her hips and lady parts were maybe four feet from my view. I watched as she inserted that big nozzle into her bottom and opened the clamp and started her enema.

In a moment, she put her fingers in her pubic hair. I asked what she was doing and she said it made the enema feel better. Years later I realized she was masturbating.

When the bag went flat, she removed the nozzle and moved to the toilet and began her release.

My friend who was through on his potty chair wanted to return to the toys. His aunt wiped his bottom, redressed him and we went back to the toys while his aunt continued eliminating her enema.

Eventually, she came back into the kitchen where we were playing. She was still nude but was carrying her clothes.

She obviously wasn’t concerned about her nudity but she did begin redressing. When she was fully dressed, she told me it was nap time and I should go home.

True story and I’ve never forgotten but it’s been masturbation material all my life.

I like the feeling of being naked to begin with. I feel natural that way. And then touching my genitals and nipples produces a feeling of well-being. Then the relief of orgasm that satisfies the body with a completed action. I am always alone in this and would enjoy a companion for mutual masturbation. Sex is always wonderful and better when shared with someone, especially someone you like or love, when giving pleasure to another person.

The top things for me are -

1. Gently feeling my cock and pubic hair area before I get out of bed in the morning. Feeling the frenulum. Pressing my whole hand along the length of my cock and gently feeling.

2. Doing this in front of someone while they watch. For many years it's only been my wife. Bonus points if I get to see and feel their tits.

3. Mental imagery - imagining someone fingering my wife's cunt while her legs are pulled back. It's usually the doctor that I imagine with me watching and masturbating.

4. The orgasm if I edge it for a while with the feeling of how it builds with very little touching of the cock. The explosion is massive.

I can do it pretty much whenever I want (flexible work schedule leaves me at home often)

Letting someone watch me do it

Watching myself in the mirror, which is how I began masturbating as a young teen

My wife refuses sex (she's sexual, but a dom so it's all about her pleasure).

Masterbating after she's spent from multiple orgasms makes me feel submissive. I'll be right beside her and she won't even glance my way.

Also, jerking off when eating her out is just amazing.

For me, masturbation allows me to:

1. Have sex without worry of sexual transmitted disease or getting a woman pregnant

2. Set my own pace for pleasure as well as the location. Sometimes I just need the stimulation not the orgasm

3. Masturbation brings back memories of my childhood when I thought my penis was just another one of my toys