To preface this, I love making love to Anthony, and love his penis inside of me. When it comes to masturbating, though, there is just something different and unique to me, that I enjoy.
I've had out of this world orgasms during masturbation; the kind that result in a nice little nap after, haha. I love that feeling and rush that comes with releasing myself and just letting go. I've had it to where I went for, I don't know, maybe an hour or so, and I was sweating and my hips were sore from having my legs spread for so long, and I had left a HUGE wet spot on the sheets. So, love love LOVE the orgasms, number one.
Number two, it's me time. My thoughts can drift anywhere they want when masturbating. Fleeting thoughts, weird thoughts, whatever. Their my thoughts and images, though, and that's what I like. Gives me a chance to explore what I like and enjoy, and then I can relay a clearer picture to Anthony of what gets me off the most so he can replicate.
Lastly, I can play as hard, soft, long, slow, or as fast as I want...maybe fits in with number two. I'll always enjoy sex more, though, as that is more intimate and an act of love we share between each other but I sure enjoy my own abilities to orgasm on my terms, too! 😊😉