Spanking implements; some excite, some are a turn off

Don't know why; but some spanking implements I find exciting to think about; while others have the opposite effect, turning me off. So implements that excite me are: a regular size belt folded over, a tawse, a birch (with a birch, it's not the actual branch; but the actual use of it). Implements that are a big turnoff are razor stops, wide belts, thick paddles...

I find slippers and flat sandals exciting to think about being spanked with them.

Slippers, sandals, rulers, thin paddles turn me on...

There is nothing more pleasant and exciting than being spanked by a (preferably big) woman with a slipper or a sandal on the bare bottom.

Canes are a huge turn-on for me, but they have to be the traditional crook-handled type, not a straight one.

Don't know why, but canes all in the neutral category for me... As for the spanker; I've mentioned my adult cousin who wanted to punish me in the cellar of her castle-like house when I was a teen while she was touching he patent leather inch wide belt. Anyway, so shapely, strict looking, dominant women dressed in tight pants, in their 30's are exciting..

@reddevil So, did she use that belt on you?

I wouldn't say any implement "arouses" me. Used properly, they hurt - or should. And I think the choice of implement should be up to the punisher.

However, perhaps because of my traditional UK school upbringing in the 70s and early 80s, the cane does have an aura and mystique about it that transcends all other implements. I avoided it at school (partly through good luck) because it wasn't something you wanted to become acquainted with - certainly not from our headmaster. Since then, however, it is something that I do experience from time to time.

The spanking implements that excite me include the hand, hairbrush, paddle, and wooden spoon. Although I have never been caned, I have seen videos of it being done and the resultant injurry, and I would not want that done to me. Spanking should always be consensual or at least have the option of a safe word that is honored. In other words, it should result in pleasure during or at least afterwards. Denise

Love to give and take: Rattan cane, tawse, paddle, and good old fashioned hand.

Only implement that might "scare" me would be a nasty rubber paddle made from old tire. I was carnival barker for St Paddles Day fundraiser at our dungeon. People would pay to spank others and thus raise money for good cause. My job was to get them to spend, be an interlocuter, and facilitate the event. This one guy I'd never seen around was just blowing money left and right. I called him "Daddy Warbucks". At the end of the event, everyone was tapped out, and I was still trying to raise money. Warbucks offered to spank me for a big chunk of change. Not my thing, but I took one for the team. Money for a good cause. He wailed as hard as he could on my bare ass with that rubber paddle endlessly. I was not amused. I took it like a champ, and earned a bunch of respect from the crew of bottoms. Thats said, all my friends and partners were disgusted by his behavior. No warm up, bad implement, not technique. Just douchey all around. I zoned out to cope and was able to disassociate by just staring at people I knew around the room- making eyes with them. The nurse looked like she was going to cry. One of my play partners looked like she was going to throw up in disgust. My leather sister was pissed. This dangerous mistress looked like she was going to start fighting this guy. I had bruises for a while. One star, would not suggest.

I'm turned on by the traditional spanking implements used in the UK.

So top of the list is the crook handled cane, beloved of schoolmasters in the past.

Then the slipper and the folded over belt.

Not to be forgotten is the hand which brings a sense of intimacy to the proceedings.

The biggest turn on for me is the hand - using it well and hard against a naughty bottom! It makes a sufficiently painful sting against the palm of the giver's hand and certainly against the bottom of the receiver. It leaves a pleasing red print on the subjects rear end and is unlikely to cause any major damage. Implements for me personally take away from the close one on one contact between spanker and spankee but I appreciate many think differently. I guess there is no right or wrong.

My preference for a spanking is to use either my hand or a larger faced wood brush...the usual way I was spanked myself as a boy. I have also had a good deal of experience using a wood paddle on recalcitrant bottoms. I suspect a firm house slipper would also be a handy and excellent bottom warmer.

Not much a fan of the idea of a cane, switch, belt or wooden spoon, although I do find the idea of a birching to be quite interesting.

Turn ons: Any paddle that is roughly the same size and shape used on me. Ditto for hairbrushes.

Neutral: Leather; belts, etc. (limited experience)

Turn offs: Any cane. (bad memories of a tomato stick that my grandma used on me one time when I was little) and Hot Wheels track (another bad memory)

Mixed: Wooden spoons, a leather slippers, rulers.

Not much a fan of the idea of a cane or switch or wooden spoon, although I do find the idea of a birching to be quite interesting.[/quote]

A birching would do many a young backside a great deal of good in the prevention of antisocial behaviour and for petty crime! I suspect they would only need one very public birching, maybe in front of their peers to make them keep to the straight and narrow path in future!!

@John_Sitter

My dad's leather slipper was what I had on my bare bottom most of all.

While I'm turned on by most any paddle, the implement I find most intriguing is the Scottish tawse. I own one from the London Tanner and have found it to be thoroughly wicked. As far as pure destructive power though (not that that's what I'm after) I think the long handled bath brush must rank near the top.

I never got spanked or caned by my parents, but school was different class,they would cane you for the least little thing,sometimes on the hands,or the backside, when they gave you 6 on the backside you knew about it,nice feeling though,even if it was painful

Wooden paddles are a definite turn on for me, the sting and burn that covers a large part of my bare bottom and there is nothing better that the sound of a paddle on a bare bottom.

Least favorite is the cane. They seem to do the most damage.

Just the sight of a paddle is equal to seeing an enema bag with douche nozzle attached, very exciting

In my experience during pickup dungeon play, the recipient’s choice is typically a wooden paddle. In my play, however, I prefer to use a leather slapper with a 2”x6” business end. To me, it produces a pleasing sound when it strikes flesh and is versatile enough for me to control the force of the blows.

There is also a big difference between what spankos want and what subs desire.

Anything spanking me is usually a big more, please. I squeal and giggle in a disgusting display of wiggling joy. The top things are flyswatter, bare hand, large whisk " don't knock it till you try it", wooden, spoon spatula," yes another kitchen thing. What can I say a little bare arse under an apron string is a real magnet for abuse", cricket bat. I am not much for paddles and the tawse thing their too impersonal or lack creativity. I must admit to having a thing for canoe and kayak paddles. I like how they flatten my whole arse in one mighty swat I feel it right up to my nose and into my toes.

Tina has a field hockey stick " The tenderizer" that I rather enjoy. That is more of a beating, not a spanking. Still, though I get off on it. Makes me all wet and juicy for poking. I bring my cricket bat " Slappy " in to play and we have a sports day whacking and poking each other Futari style till we're blue-arsed as baboons.

For me the hand, with its 'skin to skin' contact, will always be both exciting and sexually arousing, regarding spankings! The hairbrush - both my Mom and Aunt's - weapon of choice, is also an implement that excites me and has an erotic appeal with respect to bare bottom punishment! Although I look back with some nostalgia to those days of my childhood and youth, it is obviously not lost on me just how much those 'intense conversations', with Mom's cherrywood, and Aunt Rose's celluloid, hairbrushes, I - or to be more precise, my bare buttocks - had, HURT!!!! But from the safety of 40 or 50 years later, it is easy to see things in 'rose tinted glasses'! LOL And that unmistakable, incomparable, pleasant warm prickly heat that only A GOOD OLD FASHIONED BARE BOTTOM SPANKING can produce, once the hot, pulsating and burning heat and thob has subsided, almost, THAT IS ALMOST, makes the agonizing pain and 'fires of hell' endured earlier just about worth it! I have always thought of and found the cane to be a rather austere, cold and remote implement! Though I'm sure the heat and burning sting the weals on your buttocks generate, after its skillful application, make its ministrations anything but cold and remote!! LOL

As a child, I was spanked several times by my mother with a wooden spoon. As an adult spankee, wooden spoons get me pretty excited.

I tend to appreciate leather implements: strap, belt, french martinet. Souvenir paddles with their kitschy sayings are a turn on, "heat for the seat", "grasp firmly in case of frustration", "apply until object is blushing pink". A rattan carpet beater can cover the whole bottom in one stroke, and the heat it stokes up is incredible!

Although I'm American, and grew up here, my dad was English. He mostly hand spanked me, or when older used his belt, but when I was about 7 I won a prize(?) at a local fair, a thin reed cane with a crook handle. When my Dad saw it, he confiscated it and told me that's what he got as a boy, and if I needed it he would use it on me. It was put in the umbrella stand and there it stayed except for 3 memorable occasions. I have mixed feelings to this day about the cane.

For me it is a bare hand on a bare bottom. Nothing harsh, just a nice reddening spanking.

I would say I'm actually turned off by most implements, with the exceptions being hairbrushes and small paddles suitable for OTK. Anything else seems to reduce the intimacy for me.

I would say bare hand or hairbrush, excellent for the act and, either can be an implement for anal insertion post spanking!

I'm very aroused by the prospect of getting the strap, particularly when administered by an older, stern headmaster type

I also like other traditional english discipline such as the cane, the ruler and having my legs slapped while stood on a chair xxx

@honey-drizzle How about the slipper?

I wouldnt call them favorits as teachers and my mum used spank hard at school in class norm was paddleor in gym old plymsole cane was reserved for head or deputy head boy stunk like hell left marks for days, get no sympathy from mother say must have deserved it.at home mum used what came to hand mostly wooden kitchen spoon id bearly get in the back door if in trouble my shorts and undys be pulled right down and offtold stand on kitchen chair as mum belived bad behaviour was down to being constapated she get pice soap insert it up my bum then start spanking my bum with said wooden spoon.