Does anyone have a wet dream after too long without an orgasm?

Does anyone have a wet dream after too long without an orgasm? If I go 3 weeks of heavy teasing but no orgasm and l'll likely cum in my sleep.

Yep… if I go about a week without cumming, I’ll have a wet dream. It’s been pretty much exactly the same pattern since I was a teenager.

Yes, it is called a nocturnal emission...still get them in my 60's.

Guess I can't hold off long enough to find out. 😄

I wish.

This is a sexual phenomenon that, unfortunately, I have never experienced, very very much to my regret. Somehow it just doesn't happen.

It is also so that while I know that I dream and often vividly, sometimes reciting whole pages as if reading a book to myself out loud, I hardly ever remember my dreams. Not even immediately after waking up though I know I am dreaming while in the process of waking up.

I don't even have any dreams with sexual content that i can remember.

Generally I cannot hold so much 😃

It happened a few times and it was very exciting. One time having a castity cage applied on my genitals. It was closed since a week and I dreamed about the lady having the key. In the dream she tied me and after a long teasing of my penis she finally removed the device from my penis while I profusely started to ejaculate.

In my teens this was the case - having a wet dream when I was very horny and/or going too long without orgasm. Now, in my old age I'm lucky to wake up just being hard. 😢

Wet dreams and not having orgasms are not linked for me. During puberty I had some wet dreams and certainly not because I refrained from having orgasms. 😅 Nowadays I sometimes refrain from ejaculations because it boosts my overall mood. I become more focussed, continuously slightly aroused and my erections harden. But no wet dreams. This somehow surprises me because I do masturbate or have sex during these periods just without ejaculation. I would have expected that bringing the sexual energy to a higher level without intentional ejaculation would result in a wet dream.

Nowadays I sometimes refrain from ejaculations because it boosts my overall mood. I become more focussed, continuously slightly aroused and my erections harden. But no wet dreams. This somehow surprises me because I do masturbate or have sex during these periods just without ejaculation. I would have expected that bringing the sexual energy to a higher level without intentional ejaculation would result in a wet dream.

The same here. I purposely try and keep my sexual arousal level high. But even long ago when in my teens and young and vigorous, I never had wet dreams either.

I have no idea why not because I find it a shame to waste my dreams on nutty stuff that I don't remember anyway. And it's not for lack of fantasizing while falling asleep either. I find that is the best way to fall asleep instead of pondering on the problems the next day will surely bring.

I don't recall ever having a wet dream in my entire life but still have sexual dreams. But then I've never gone the three weeks of which you speak waiting for one and don't intend to.

When I was younger this happened but most of the time I kept satisfied by masturbation.

I don't recall ever having a wet dream in my entire life but still have sexual dreams.

I don't even have sexual dreams. None that I can remember at any rate. The dreams I remember are of going to work or school or a social gathering naked while everyone is dressed or of taking a school test and giving up because of not knowing one flipping thing about the subject anymore.

Wonderful dream material to be sure ... sigh sigh.

I remember frequently waking up with slimy underwear when I was little. It wasn't white though, it was clear. I would wake up while it was happening.

As an adult, it has maybe happened 3 times. I don't usually go very long without relieving the pressure .

@Public_Enema i know exactly what you mean and remember this stage of development myself.

I don’t remember having a wet dream since my teenage years, however some of my kink “friends” have them after a few days/ weeks of denial or abstinence.

My ex used to be a leaky boi… It didn’t seem to matter if he had cum 3 times that day or had been denied for a week… He’d have at least 4 wet dreams a month.

In the early days of puberty I was having wet dreams constantly but not understanding what they were. At first like others already commented, it was a clear, somewhat sticky discharge that confused me all the more. As puberty took it course, the nocturnal emissions became, let’s just say more opaque. And then things tapered off. I still have them but just a handful every year.

My first ejaculation was a wet dream just after turning 12. I had many during my teens and 20's. They gradually became more infrequent, probably because I masturbated a lot then. I still get them occasionally, often while having a dream (nightmare) about my Mom giving me an enema when I was a kid.

I think this stuff is pretty normal. For me, if I don’t orgasm for a week, I end up with cum in my panties the next morning. I always thought other guys experience the same thing. The longest I went without an orgasm was two weeks, and I had cum stains every two days

Guaranteed😃 It may not happen after few days, but it'll after about 2 weeks.

While I like the idea of having a wet dream, I would not look forward to going two weeks without an orgasm.

I wonder if edging multiple times a day would shorten the waiting period. Some activities, like drinking lots of beer all day, appear directly related to needing to pee sooner or more often in the near future. Physical capacity of the bladder and continuous liquid flow have very tangible impacts.

I’m not sure if the same accumulated pressure applies to orgasms or wet dreams. It the wet dream is triggered by the prostate or other related glands in the groin it might be possible to rush it with edging. But if a wet dream is triggered by the brain it may not be rushed in the same way. If the brain simply craves a reset by orgasm after a period of time then it’s less physical pressure and more emotional timing?

I don’t know what I’m talking about. I’m smart enough to know I don’t know how this works. Once again, if I were allowed to conduct a study of a thousand people for a year, and dictate exactly how and when each of them were to be sexually stimulated, we would all benefit from the results.

This topic reminds me of an ex of mine who was bisexual. He was a dominant male who had many play partners of all sizes and genders.

I remember him telling me while we were discussing our kinks that he much prefers orgasm denial play with women because, to quote him “With guys, sooner or later they’ll relieve themselves involuntarily, maybe in their sleep. Women are much more fun because they’ll stay right there on the edge of that cliff going out of their mind until you push them off.”

Thinking about that still turns me on to this day.

Not any more. It did happen in early puberty before I learned how to masturbate. After that I never let myself go that long. I take care of business to forestall the ache that accompanies abstinence.

I love edging and I am on medication that makes it difficult but not impossible to ejaculate. So I seldom cum while being awake. I do have wet dreams about once every three weeks or so.

If l have not ejaculated for a week of so, l get night time erections that leak pre cum, is that classed as a wet dream?

I am getting to be rather old and I have never had a wet dream. The longest I have gone without an orgasm in recent history is three months. I was thinking that might have prompted a wet dream, but it did not.

No . I have to take care of my needs every day. I need a orgasme every day , and sometimes more then one. I can't control my true needs. Just to see a Enema bag online turned me one in a Heartbeat. 👍