Honestly, I’m just so tired of all of the labels that everyone seems to cling to.
The only “label” that’s 100% accurate and non-negotiable is—human. If we could all just stick to that and forget the rest, the world would be a better place.
I don’t believe in color or religion or level of success/wealth. The true key to being a human is how we treat others.
I used to be hung up on the whole gay/straight thing until I realized that the goal for any interaction between two people (or more) is very simply…pleasure.
That said, I love to be with women. I treat them like candy. Licking, sucking, kissing, fucking—I could do that until it hurts. Until fairly recently, I was brainwashed into the whole sex with men is bad (dirty, gross, going to hell, etc.). Until meeting a member here (you know who you are), I didn’t know what I was missing.
Now since my life partner has decided she doesn’t want sex any longer, I choose to find my pleasure with men. I chose that because (in my history) I don’t want the drama that comes with having sex with a woman. I say that very generically and I mean no disrespect to women at all, but MY past has taught me that a woman would jeopardize my relationship if things were to get out of hand.
For me, men are very much a “blow and go” type of situation. There’s no flowers, no candlelit dinners, no wooing—it’s just let’s fuck—with no risk of pregnancy. I’m not a fan of kissing with men, I just don’t feel that type of intimacy with them. But show me a nice hard cock and I’m Charlie in the chocolate factory. 😉
If you were to show me a hot man and a hot woman—both wanting me with no strings and drama, I’d choose the woman…but I’d still ask her if the other could join us. 😉
My .02