Sub/slave assessment

Doms,

Did you have your sub/slave assessed or examined by a third person?

Was it before your sub/slave joined you or a regular visit?

What did you ask the examiner to look for?

Were you present during the exam?

Was it in person or remote?

I have never had an anther person exam my sub. I have always had a series of questions I ask my sub and exam them my self.

I mostly like to do myself in person that way I can take a good look at what I’ll be working with

I exam my sub by myself

I've done something like this with my wife. The first time happened before we were married but we were in a very established dynamic. I wanted her to submit to being examined by another play doctor. I was present. It was a full assessment including a pelvic and it was one of the most erotic things I've ever witnessed.

I'm a bit on the opposite site of drphillips. I've worked regularly with a couple who enjoy a (not 24/7 but in-scene) DDlg BDSM dynamic. The Dominant Daddy has brought his sub patient to me as more of an ongoing scenario. It's not regularly scheduled, but we've played it several times when the stars have aligned. Typically, the lg is ageplaying as a middle and has some disciplinary or other issue that needs correcting. I conduct a thorough examination, with the DD (usually) present, and the treatment plan can vary depending on its findings.

The submissive 'assessment' is an idea that could only be connived by someone who has no clue about D/s at all.

Giving away or sharing a sub is not uncommon, but that can happen when D/s relationship and mutual trust that is a foundation of that relationship, is established and well tested.

But expecting someone to go and perform any intimate activity with 3rd party before any relationship even begun is just plain ignorant and stupid. And what would be a purpose of that 'assessment' in first place? Everyone is different and has different preferences, and there is always as need for compromise from both D and s side. How that 'assessment' is supposed to help?

I find this idea incredibly good like Daddy Dom takes his subgirl to a Dr for examination and proper therapy.

That’s a big fantasy on my bucket list!

I find this idea incredibly good like Daddy Dom takes his subgirl to a Dr for examination and proper therapy.

I'm a switch, and when I'm dominant, I really like to do evaluations myself, I think it would be hot as a sub to be taken to a third party for a very thorough examination.

Dr Peter - great question! Yes, my sub received a thorough visual, external and internal examination from a 3rd party (female D) It was done in person and I was present. It was a wonderful experience for all. I asked the examiner to give direct and explicit instructions with a strict and clinical approach. She (the D) took her time, made sure nothing went unexamined and used multiple positions to ensure maximum exposure. Sadly the D moved to a new state and we’ve not had a chance to repeat….. maybe someday.

I was the 3rd party doctor five times. One dom had me examine 4 of his subs, on separate occasions and another dom had me examine his sub. On one occasion, the sub did not know it was going to happen until I showed up. Another was blindfolded the entire time and never saw me. These were typical well woman exams with pelvic and rectal. In person.

I took my cuckold male to my roleplay doctor for a thorough “medical” at the insistence of his wife. I had known them both intimately for a year or so but she liked the idea. I met him at the “surgery” and prepared him for the doctor, nude except for white underpants and ensured his genitals were shaved as the doctor insists.

The medical was particularly thorough and invasive the doctor permitting me to perform his genital measurements and temperature s, I was eventually pleased to take a very full semen sample from him as he is usually denied that pleasure at home. I was particularly keen to get him home for further attention in front of his wife!