Sub/slave assessment

Doms,

Did you have your sub/slave assessed or examined by a third person?

Was it before your sub/slave joined you or a regular visit?

What did you ask the examiner to look for?

Were you present during the exam?

Was it in person or remote?

I have never had an anther person exam my sub. I have always had a series of questions I ask my sub and exam them my self.

I mostly like to do myself in person that way I can take a good look at what I’ll be working with

I exam my sub by myself

I've done something like this with my wife. The first time happened before we were married but we were in a very established dynamic. I wanted her to submit to being examined by another play doctor. I was present. It was a full assessment including a pelvic and it was one of the most erotic things I've ever witnessed.

I'm a bit on the opposite site of drphillips. I've worked regularly with a couple who enjoy a (not 24/7 but in-scene) DDlg BDSM dynamic. The Dominant Daddy has brought his sub patient to me as more of an ongoing scenario. It's not regularly scheduled, but we've played it several times when the stars have aligned. Typically, the lg is ageplaying as a middle and has some disciplinary or other issue that needs correcting. I conduct a thorough examination, with the DD (usually) present, and the treatment plan can vary depending on its findings.

The submissive 'assessment' is an idea that could only be connived by someone who has no clue about D/s at all.

Giving away or sharing a sub is not uncommon, but that can happen when D/s relationship and mutual trust that is a foundation of that relationship, is established and well tested.

But expecting someone to go and perform any intimate activity with 3rd party before any relationship even begun is just plain ignorant and stupid. And what would be a purpose of that 'assessment' in first place? Everyone is different and has different preferences, and there is always as need for compromise from both D and s side. How that 'assessment' is supposed to help?

I find this idea incredibly good like Daddy Dom takes his subgirl to a Dr for examination and proper therapy.

That’s a big fantasy on my bucket list!

I find this idea incredibly good like Daddy Dom takes his subgirl to a Dr for examination and proper therapy.