Enema dependency

Amazingly, many of us had mothers who understood the importance of a weekly enema. Mine were as needed, but once on my own, and now a widower, my weekly fill has kept me vital and sexual.

Many friends here enjoy the same. It is real.

As implied by some, there's psychological dependence and there's physical dependence. For whatever reason/s, many on this (kink) site want, or even feel the need for enemas. There's something about establishing physical need or cause for a thing that amps up the authority for many.

What i find missing from most discussions on enema is the front half of the equation (i.e, the effects on the colon of what we put in our mouths). Eat enough plants, soluble and insoluble fiber, and unless you have rare motility issues, constipation will be a non issue. At least, the physical form.

Physically, I don’t need enemas. The morning poop works without these.

Nevertheless, I need some regularly; and that's just a matter of your head...

My lady can read minds and interpret my reactions. This is why our inclinations and addictions coincide; She loves giving like a bird loves flying, and I love and need receiving...

The necessary treatments take place every 7 to 10 days; this also ensures our mental balance...

I believe enemas even make guys cum in their colon once now and then used a 10” curved nozzle so easy to get through the sigmoid valve I could feel the sigmoid valve open to let nozzle through sigmoid valve. I had a cum and some was dripping from penis tip an i had a had on. I came out through the cecum and slowly it cum some again and I had. Good hard on and get cramps

Most fantastic feeling other than real sec. I had to run and expel if be anal see with the nozzle and flowing enema don’t run would have had to expel so quickly with nozzle out my feeling as if I came in the nozzle in colon.

If it feels good and you enjoy it ,it comes down to whatever we need to tell our self’s about the NEEDED ENEMAS works for me or you is fine . Me I have tons of big enema bags,nozzles,colontubes, ballon nozzles as well as a host of silicone nozzles. Then there’s the plugs the dildo nozzles and Estem equipment. I think we could all agree it’s about my health🤣

MissStress provided a link on this topic, from a thread that deals in similar discussion. In my post #41 on the other thread, I opine that my lifetime of enema use has never precluded a return to "normal" BM's within a matter of hours, usually about 12-18 hours, depending on my food intake. Many doctors have published that enema use, that is not extreme in terms of volume, type of solution, or time of retention, will not have negative effects on the bowel so long as things are reasonable and allow a return to "normal" bowel function.

Well said @ Dr Strangelove.

Initially I thought this was the case when, several years ago, I stopped having regular bowel movements. As it turned out, constipation was an early indicator of Parkinson’s disease, which was confirmed over a year ago. I had a nice conversation with the diagnosing physician about my constipation. I explained that I had been through all the drug and diet solutions. None of which resulted in satisfactory results. Regular enemas emptied my colon, providing the best results and quality of life. The doctor concurred and entered it my chart. My mornings alternate between an enema session and physical exercise.

I'm dependent on enemas, enjoy them. Haven't had a normal bm in years. Last time I was on a out of town job, couldn't manage the time for enemas, eating fruit and stuff, bms started again in about 3 days. The hoseman

In my opinion, I think enemas if given over a period of time can create enema dependency. It happens to me so when I can’t go naturally, I discontinue enemas until nature takes over then go for a period of about 30 days when I can resume enemas.

I can only speak for myself and the few I’ve given or received enemas from. Once our RN grandmother taught us personal hygiene as preteens and enemas became our responsibility. It was normally a two-way street between my siblings and I and a few others. For example: If my sister asked me to give her a couple of enemas, she as a rule, gave me a couple of enemas afterwards. The same was also true for my girlfriend and years later my wife.

I’ve been doing enemas for seventy plus years and have never had an issue with enema dependency. The doctors in the fifties believed in daily enemas during an illness or as a prophylactic for those around the sick one. So, there were times growing up, when my siblings and I received daily enemas for five or six weeks, due to an illness in the family. Afterwards, we never had an issue returning to normal within 24 to 36 hours once the daily enemas stopped. I'm simply stating what my experiences have been an those I have personal knowledge of.

I have had problem with constipation because i have a habit of eating a lot of carbs from my weight lifting days but when you're abdominal muscles it does have an effect on how the colon works. My doctor always told me that i needed to add a lot of fiber to my diet and do it in the way of vegetables. So i do and a lot of vegetables to my meals and usually that alone is enough to keep me consistent . I have never had any ill effects from too many enemas

When I stopped enemas & assplay I became a proper grump. Horribly depressed I was. Since I got on zity I feel I am back in touch with myself. My mood has lifted & any gut pains/issues have gone. Garlic enemas are really the best imo for gut health. just not so much as to become ill. 2 litres is enough for me.

What i find missing from most discussions on enema is the front half of the equation (i.e, the effects on the colon of what we put in our mouths). Eat enough plants, soluble and insoluble fiber, and unless you have rare motility issues, constipation will be a non issue. At least, the physical form.

This is wrong: In the internet you will find a lot of contributions concerning the fact that a plant based diet will be the primary source of constipation.

My opinions are two:

1. It's an individual issue. I've always been able to take 2qt+ enemas on an almost daily basis, and when I stop, I begin to have bowel movements within the next day or two. Other people obviously differ in this. They say so.

2. So what? If you're "enema dependent," It's not as if you can easily have a bowel movement anyway, even if you go for weeks without a proper bowel

movement. At this stage, I'm actually much more concerned about constipation and bowel stoppage. I honestly don't care much if I'm enema dependent, if I can still empty. My bowel obstruction In 2022 was sudden & unexpected, and led to all sorts of problems that I've detailed elsewhere. Now if it was up to me, I'd GIVE enemas nearly every day if I had the opportunity, and none of this bulb or Fleet enema stuff. I'd give minimum two quarts, soapy or not, then rinse...ladies only, though. I'd also take them the same way, from an interested (FEMALE) giver, age not a factor except no minors.

I am both physically and psychologically dependent on 2 or 3 quart hot and soapy enemas. When I start to be constipated and my stomach aches - everything stops. I have to get enemas until I’m cleaned out good.

My best friend gently pushes and pulls the long Vaseline covered douche nozzle and twists it around like my Mom always did, getting my asshole ready for acceptance of the enema. She has temporarily moved in with me since I developed a hesrt problem.. She and my assigned Caregiver administer enemas and make me very wet and sometimes I need to climax but they definitely haven’t encouraged that! They know I need enough enema to make my stomach hurt. It puts me into sexual bliss, right on the edge of a big orgasm. I moan and groan during the entire enema. The Caregiver (Norma) gives me enemas just like Mom did (strict) telling me to hold on to my bowel movement!! Then she puts a bedpan under my cheeks while laying on my bed and tells me to release it - or helps me into the bathroom. She’s fussy anyway and almost each time says, “Now you hold that BM inside you!”

I rather like hearing her fuss at me. Sometimes it’s almost impossible to release my enema but when I am expelling it, the make themselves busy in the bathroom, listening to my evacuations. They also rub my stomach while I’m sitting on the toilet, which prompts more bowel movement to come out.

Some of my new medicines really stop me up.

My life and activities have nearly come to a screeching halt. I now have heart.issues. I am in A FIB constantly now and cardioversion (shock) didn’t stop the A. FIB. So I have another upcoming heart procedure scheduled along with a para-thyroid removal. I am so tired, I’ve never felt like this in my life. I just thought for those who pray, I’m asking you to send a few my way. (Sorry if this paragraph is in the wrong area.)

Sincerely,

Moms Egirl. ❤️

I am both physically and psychologically dependent on hot soapy, enemas. When I start to be constipated and my stomach aches - everything stops. Now, I have to give a purgative enema to myself or be given enemas until I’m very full.

Congratulations ! - This will be far more meaningful and so better than to suffer upon all the problems arising from any sort of stomach aches.

I have been giving myself enemas for fun for many, many years and until recently I could say that I was not dependent on them. Working full time and with a wife and kids there just isn’t enough time to do it as often as you might want to.

But now that I am retired, I have the time and opportunity to do it quite often, to the point that I must now admit that I am now dependent on enemas, probably more mentally than physically. If I don’t have one for a few days my bm can occur if I eat carefully and take extra fiber but rather than punishing myself mentally and physically wondering “will I, or won’t I be able to go in the morning “ it is just so easy to get the bag and put an end to all the mental and physical drama. Within a few minutes with my bag and all is right with the world. Yes, I am dependent on enemas for my mental health.

@Moms_Egirl So sorry to hear about your awful predicament. Life definitely should not be as you are experiencing it. Thank goodness for that lovely understanding friend who has moved in with you. Trust those medical procedures sort things. Meanwhile you are definitely in thoughts and prayers.