Heterosexual women: the penis as a toy

My wife and I have had varying sexual practices over time, but something that's been pretty constant for a long while is her tendency to "play" with my penis: touching it, prodding it, pushing it, pulling it, masturbating it a bit etc. to get it hard, teasing me about it. This somehow gives the impression that it's a kind of toy for her.

To females here: do you somehow consider your partner's penis as a toy to be played with?

There was a period that we didn't have PIV sex. I used to play with his penis, but it was mainly to get him aroused or eventually cum. While doing that it was still nice to see how he and his penis reacted to everything I did.

I also liked to play with his foreskin and check how elastic it is. His skin is very stretchy and it is fun to play with it.

Now we still do these things but is shorter and part of our foreplay.