Females: motivation for anal sex, especially at first?

@Patientlywaiting Interesting. I recall meeting a woman in Ipswich years back who told me that she was quite dominant & assertive in most aspects of sex up until the point where a penis head was pushed into her anus whereupon she became instantly submissive. She did too.😈

General kinkiness did it for me. I've seen it a lot in porn and I went from "I wonder what that feels like" to "I want to know what that feels like, at least once". So I started with toys on my own and it was good. So getting my husband involved was a natural progression. Now it has become something we do every now and then. Usually after a few drinks.......

It all started when my incredible late husband would lubricate his fingers and then finger my peach while going down on me and the rest is history.

Not exactly what the question is about, but I'm a trans guy (and very much a bottom) and for me anal is just way more comfortable, especially since testosterone makes vaginal sex kinda uncomfortable for me. It also feels way better in terms of pleasure