Do You Have an Enemate?

Not at the present time. I've had two exceptional enemates in my life: a former girlfriend and my late wife. Many fond memories of past sessions. Those of us here that have experienced (past or present) role play enema sessions with a like-minded partner know how special it is.

Do not have one at this time but would sure love too. I live in the North East" (quiet corner) of Connecticut. Anyone interested in becoming a discreet enemate and friend, please send me a message so we can get to know each other.

Not currently. About two and a half years ago I began an online conversation with a member here. I thought perhaps we might have some common interests. We seemed to hit it off rather well online, and after a while I proposed getting together in person for cocktails and conversation. We met at a place close to her, and had some appetizers and drinks. We really seemed to hit it off. We made tentative plans that evening, and went our separate ways.

A few days later I messaged her to firm up the plans. Things were looking good. Next time I messaged her to set a time, BLOCKED! WTF?

I'm glad I only had about $30.00 worth of martini's and chicken wings invested in her.

UPDATE: She has been banned from here. I have no idea why.

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@Vicki_V

I just stumbled across your post from a year ago, and I am most curious.

Did the “right opportunity” ever come along?

Here’s my take on the nice lady you met and I will quote from your post:

1. “She saw your enema syringe hanging to dry in your master bathroom”

2. “This led to talking over…tea about your history of G.I. issues, headaches, stress, and enemas”

3. “She said back in the 1960s and into the 80s that she used to prep patients for surgery by giving old-fashioned cleansing enemas”

4. “From the way she described her nursing career, she has probably given many hundreds of enemas”

5. “She is such a nice person”

6. “She said if you ever needed anything, not to hesitate to call her.”

As a nurse, her calling was to help people. She’s retired and probably still wishes she could help people. With your history of G.I. issues and enemas, I’m quite certain that she would love to help with your enemas, but she, like you, was as hesitant to offer as you were to ask.

It would be easy to bring up the enema discussion again . . .

“Remember a while ago when you told me about how you administered enemas?”

“Of course. I’ve thought about it several times since.”

“So have I. And a few times, I was almost ready to ask if you would be able give me an enema, but I was a little embarrassed to ask.”

“Well, it can be a sensitive topic and while I thought about offering, I didn’t want to intrude. Tell you what, dear. You don’t even need to ask. Let’s just do it.”

Problem solved. Both your needs are met. You get the help you need and she gets to help you with your need.

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Fortunately I do have an enemate. She is my wife and best friend. If tomorrow she decided to never hit the red bag again I would still love her as much as I do now.

Keep it flowing,

Bill

I would really like to, but it is not easy to find one here in my area since there are not so many places to exchange thoughts about. People would stare at me like "are you damn crazy?"

My wife will give it to me, she has hired nurses to give it to me, she even had like minded friends of hers give it to me. She she has never allowed me to give to her.

I have been fortunate to have had two real "enemates" over the years in addition to a number of play patients that I have given enemas to. The first enema I ever administered was with a very cute college girl who I met to do a play exam. She had never had an enema before and wanted the experience. I had a bulb in my "doctor's bag" and gave her a few bulbs full. She enjoyed, but sadly we never had a chance to repeat the exam, although we made a few attempts to connect. My first real enemate turned out to live in my neighborhood. We connected on one of the old Yahoo chat groups after I saw a woman using a handle that was the same as a nearby street name. She was about 15 years older than me, and after she retired from work, she retired from play. But it was great for about 10 years. She was all about a series of enemas at each session and although we did not have a sexual relationship, she was very curious about anal sex while holding an enema, so into the tub we got. Turns out a penis is a pretty effective butt plug, so further explorations were on a towel on the bed.

My second longtime enemate also lived in the same town, and this time is about 20 years younger than me. We connected on the fetlife site and met several times before we set up a play exam date, with full understanding that it would include a two quart enema. That was the first of many sessions, every few months, over at least 10 years. Photos of several of her enema sessions are posted in my albums collection. I have a few video clips, but unfortunately can't post them here.

@e2eddie thank you for your testimony which of course makes me want to !

I wish!

Did she ever give you an enema?

How do you find such a female person?

I wish I did! But that title could only be held by my wife. I'm old fashioned like that, and that's ok. She hates the idea of enemas and thinks it disgusting.

I won't take on an enemate that's not my wife. It's very intimate, and nobody else could fill that role.

So I'm stuck with soloing it, and that's ok too.

Yes my adopted sister made me a true Klismo by 18 years of age. She was 25 by then .

The best mate I ever had was my wife, for 35 years we shared and explored the world of enemas in all its aspects.... in my long enema life, I found some good mates on the ship world I was living in, from medical persons to curious colleagues I never lacked someone to share a nozzle with, and now, in my old age and kind of stuck around home, I still find people willing to some of their time partaking of one of the best games around.... wouldn't it be kind of fun if we had enema Olympics? The largest nozzle...the longest one, the biggest receiver, the longest retainer...and so on with all the records....

My wife was a great partner but she passed lately people have been contacting me out of nowhere on this site and a couple others . Some work out and of course some do mostly men but a few lady’s I’m just happy to share enemas.

I’m glad that you are finding enema mates. Can you tell me the other sites you know of? I’m just finding out about things. Thanks. PENELOPE7

Welcome @PENELOPE7 to zity.

Looking forward to getting to know you better.

Thank you. That’s so kind of you. It’s so nice to be among enema brethren. PENELOPE7

Here you can finally freely express your questions and feelings in a simple way without being judged !