Playing Doctor with my Girlfriend

Tomorrow I'm playing doctor with my girlfriend. I have some ideas of what to do during the exam but with it being my first time actually playing I was wondering if anyone has some ideas of what to do in the exam.

Are you planning to be in the doctor role or patient role? Or both? 😃

I suggest a complete physical from head to toe. Have her nude for the complete exam. Hopefully you have some equipment like a stethoscope and a speculum. You can listen to her heart and lungs, a breast exam in a couple of different positions and do a pelvic exam. Also a couple of enemas and a rectal exam.

I would say it depends a lot of the degree of intimacy you have with your girlfriend.

Assuming you are the doctor, I would ask her to take off all her clothes and get on her stomach. I would then insert a thermometer in her rectum and use the extended registering time of the device ( ten minutes) to discuss what you both expect of this play doc session.

The scenario could be exactly the same if your girlfriend is the doctor..

I am going to the doctor and I have a speculum, stethoscope, tongue depressors, a blood pressure cuff and a scale

You need to be sure you have the right size speculum (small if she has not been sexually active and has never given birth). You will need a tube of KY jelly to lube the speculum so you don't hurt her inserting it. Go slow and don't rush through it. Don't get her all the way naked to start. If you have a hospital gown, have her change into that. If you don't have a gown, let the disrobing progress as needed. With her fully clothed, you can take her BP, check her pulses, and palpate/auscultate her carotids. Check the pulses in her feet. Look in her throat with the tongue depressor, Then take the steth, put it in your ears, and tell her, "I'd like to listen to your chest now. Can you take off your top for me?" Let her take off her top but keep her bra on while you listen to her lungs on her back, sides, and chest. Then move to her heart. Listen to the aortic and pulmonic valves and Erb's point on her upper chest, then tell her, "I need you to take off your bra so I can get a good listen at your tricuspid and mitral valves." Depending on the size of her breasts, you may need to lift the left one to get a good listen at her mitral, but tell her that you're going to need to lift her breast before you do it. Listening to a woman's heart is my favorite part of the exam. I take a long time doing that. I listen to her pump in different positions--standing, sitting, lying on her back, and lying on her left side. Do a long, leisurely, and thorough breast exam. (There are YouTube vids on how to do a good clinical breast exam. Make it clincal and don't use it as an excuse to feel her up) Palpate and steth her belly. It should take you at least an hour or more to get to the point where pants and panties come off.

There are different ways to to the exam and we probably all have a little different way. I like to have her nude the entire time. If she objects to being nude for the entire exam I tell her that two recent medical studies compared the results of women who had their physicals totally nude and those who wore a gown. Both studies showed that the doctors who required the woman to be totally nude, got better results. They found more symptoms than the doctors who had the women wearing a gown. The researchers determined that the doctors who had women wear a gown were so concerned with her modesty, moving the gown so that only the area being examined was nude, that they missed signs and symptoms of sometimes serious disease. So if she is concerned about her health, she needs to be totally nude for the entire exam.