Two parents/disciplinarians

Has anyone had the experience of having two parents/caregivers/disciplinarians assist with a spanking they received (or gave)?

You ask a very interesting question about the "gave" part because I have an unconventional experience with learning how to spank.

I grew up in a non-spanking household but I saw some cousins get a few spankings in my childhood. I understood the concept but little of the execution, not that it's hard to grasp. When I become a babysitter at the age of 16, a few of the parents I would babysit for were pro spanking. They insisted it should be used if deemed necessary as a punishment, especially if I were watching their kids alone all day while they were at work.

So the parents "assisted" by teaching me the ropes of how a spanking worked. I remember the parents called over their son so I could "go through the motions" with him (no actual hard punishment was given)

That must have been quite the experience for the boy! How did the parents teach you — did they demonstrate and then have you try? Was their spanking procedure unique in some way or did you just need to learn the basics?

Yes they demonstrated and then I got to try. Their spanking procedure was just a basic OTK spanking.

No. My parents didn't spank very often, but when they did, they handled it solo. I was probably spanked a bit more by my mom since she was home more often, but I wasn't a stranger to the paternal lap. After around age 9, my spankings became much more infrequent, though I did get a doozy of a spanking from my mother when I was 12 for doing something she had specifically told me not to do after dropping me off to go to the mall. That ended up being the last spanking I ever received from an authority figure.

If I understand the question correctly, you’re asking if both parents spanked me at the same time. My personal experience is no. I got spanked by both parents on occasions, but never them together. My mom generally used her hairbrush ( I still have it) and my dad used his hand or his belt.

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When I become a babysitter at the age of 16, a few of the parents I would babysit for were pro spanking. They insisted it should be used if deemed necessary as a punishment, especially if I were watching their kids alone all day while they were at work.

So the parents "assisted" by teaching me the ropes of how a spanking worked. I remember the parents called over their son so I could "go through the motions" with him (no actual hard punishment was given)

@AzureJuniperNYC

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I can relate to the boy in this post. Whenever my parents hired a new babysitter, my father would instruct the newbie regarding how to punish me (and my sisters) properly, if/when we misbehaved.

Of course, less severe discipline was administered for less severe misbehaviors, but if/when corporal punishment was appropriate, we were to be sent to Dad's workshop, where we would strip (totally naked) and wait for the babysitter to come (usually, after approximately a half-hour). When she arrived, she was to have us fetch the leather strap (one at a time), bend our naked bodies over Dad's sawhorse with our butts presented properly for our tannings, and finally return the strap to the nail from which it always hung on the the workshop wall. Then, another half-hour of corner time in the family room.

On one occasion, when I was in the 6th grade (11.y.o.), I had been naughty (at school) on a Friday and I thought that, in addition to the school paddling I had received from Miss Crawford, I would have an "appointment" with Dad and his strap after dinner that night. But, when I arrived home from school, my mother informed me that she and Dad were going out to dinner and a theater event in the city, and staying at a hotel in the city overnight. By this point in our upbringing, my older sister would normally have been left in charge, but both of my sisters had been given permission to attend a girls-only lock-in slumber party at the church that night, so a new "babysitter" would be spending the night with me. I thought that, at the age of 11.y.o., I was not a baby and was too old for a "babysitter". But, I also thought that this might be a fortunate turn of events for me, because with all this busyness, I hoped that I would luck out, because my naughty school behavior might be forgotten, and I would just enjoy a relaxing evening at home.

I was wrong! When the sitter arrived, my father introduced us, gave the sitter some general instructions, and then said... "Regarding discipline, it just so happens that Jonny was a bad boy in school today, so I will show you exactly how to punish him!"

He had her send me to the worshop and strip. At this point, my parents were in a hurry to get going, so I only had to wait about 3 minutes for them to arrive in the workshop. During the 3 minutes, Dad had obviously given this new sitter (Abby) some additional instructions, because she immediately said, "Fetch the strap, young man!" Then, I stood (naked) in front of Abby while my father lectured me, and he finally said, "Hand the strap to Abby, young man!" Then Abby said, "Bend yourself over the sawhorse!" And then, she proceeded to tan my ass to my father's satisfaction.

Although she had never previously been a sitter for my parents, I recognized Abby from church (apparently, she was more interested in earning some spending money than attending the girls' lock-in). She was a high school freshman, so only three years older than me (14.y.o.). I was very embarrassed and I had an erection even before my father and Abby arrived in the workshop. The erection went away while the strap was doing its duty (tanning my ass), but returned while I was standing in the family room corner (still naked) for a half-hour after my whipping. My parents left the house before my corner time was over. And eventually, Abby had me come stand in front of her again and asked, "Am I going to have to send you to workshop again, young man?" I said, "No Ma'am", as I stood at attention, with my hard prepubescent penis also standing at attention. She then reached down and pinched a substantial amount of my frenulum skin between her thumb and forefinger, and basically, using my hard penis as a leash, pulled me across the room to my mother's spanking chair, and over her lap. She said, "This must be very embarrassing for you?" And, again I said, "Yes Ma'am." And she said, "I know how to deal with naughty boys who have naughty erections while being punished.", and proceded to spank my bare bottom again, with my mom's hairbrush. After 10 swats, she had me stand up to see if I still had an erection, which I did, so she put me back over her lap for another set of 10 even harder swats, which did the trick (no more erection). Fortunately, she didn't send me back to the corner, because my erection would certainly have returned again while standing in naked in the corner!

After she was finished punishing me, she allowed me to put on my pajamas, and she was acctually a very kind sitter, and we had fun playing a board game and watching a movie before it was my bedtime.

I saw her in church on Sunday morning and she smiled and winked at me. From that day forward, I had a huge crush on Abby! And, I received another spanking from her when she was a senior in high school (when I was a freshman), for totally different reasons, but that's a different story.

@AzureJuniperNYC that’s rather cute, although I’d guess it was embarrassing for the boy. How did you feel about learning to spank, coming from a non-spanking family?

My cousin and I smarted off at my mom and my aunt and used some really vulgar language. We ended up over their laps getting our bums whipped. My cousin and I got whipped by both women in turn. We never pulled that stunt again.

My parents were very socially active so they employed babysitters frequently; however, my sister and myself were never spanked by any. There was always the threat that if we acted up that the babysitter would tell our parents and we would be spanked the following morning as we were usually in bed when our parents came home.

I had several girlfriends who babysat but none of them ever told any stories about spanking the children for whom they babysat.

I've never been spanked by two people or in front of a third person. However, one of my schoolmates told me that once he was very defensive about being spanked. His father and mother punished him jointly. After a short struggle, he was lying on both parents' laps. They were sitting on the sofa, and he was lying so that his hips were on his father's lap and his body was on his mother's lap. His mother held his hands while his father pulled his pants and panties down. Then he got a pretty painful spanking. When he talked about it, I thought he was fantasizing. It wasn't until I saw a spanking position like this online that I thought he might be telling the truth

Once on a camping trip my cousin and I were fucking around and I got dirt in his eye. My Dad pulled my pants down and bent me over a picnic table to spank me. He usually had a belt, but he was just wearing shorts. He had one hand on my middle back and the other one spanking me. My uncle took off his belt, and my dad kept his hand on my back while my uncle swatted my ass with the belt.

I've never been spanked by aunts or uncles. If I misbehaved in their houses my dad would give me a spanking when we got home.

I've had a one experience with two disciplinarians and another with a second 'observer'.

In the first case, my primary disciplinarian was training a protege. We concocted a scene where the spanker-in-training was my 'boss' and her mentor was a management consultant. The consultant's advice for my misdeeds was to administer corporal punishment and demonstrated by putting me across her knee. Then they would switch places and the newbie would spank me. This went back and forth for nearly an hour before, the 'consultant' had me bend over the arm of the sofa and applied my own belt to my already sore bottom and then have the protege apply her learning, taking turns until I had maybe received two dozen strokes.

In the other instance, the disciplinarian's friend acted the part of an employee of mine who lodged a complaint to HR about sexual favors provide but without the promised promotion. The head of HR played by the disciplinarian gave me a long hard spanking that her friend watched and provided commentary about. The complainant applied only a few swats herself - I had wish she would have been a more active participant but it was exciting to be spanked with an 'audience'.

Never had both parents spanking at the same time. Sometimes the other would be there and see it happen but they never both gave the spanking at the same time.

The closest thing was my cousin and I while playing with the hose in the backyard in the summer, got the great idea to flood and make the yard a muddy mess and to roll around get covered in it all.

Let's just say my dad and uncle (his father) were pissed!

They made us both come up to the deck take off our bathing suits (which was the only thing we were wearing), hosed us down to get all the mud off then brought us into the house and we both got our naked butts spanked pretty good at the same time.

Then we had to go shower and spend the rest of the day in my room.

Your dad and uncle were pissed? Sounds iffy. They should at least have waited until they'd sobered up.

I too never had both parents spanking at the same time. Sometimes the other would be there and see it happen but they never both gave the spanking at the same time. My dad was the main spanker but mum would spank me if I misbehaved while he was out rather than wait for him to come home.

I made a mess with dad's garden hose once, I was trying to make an ornamental pond in the garden using an old plastic bathtub. I dug a hole in the soil, placed the bathtub in it then filled it with water from the hose. Of course, when dad saw what I'd done he first told me to have a bath and get some clean clothes on, then he sent me to my room where he spanked my bare bottom with a leather slipper.

Your dad and uncle were pissed? Sounds iffy. They should at least have waited until they'd sobered up.

The American idiom 'to be pissed' means being mad and angry.

It does not have the same meaning at all as the British idiom which means to be drunk.

You are confusing the two meanings. Understandable maybe, but you've certainly seen enough movies or TV series to know there is a difference.

I've seen one US movie that used the phrase "pissed off" meaning mad or angry, which is the same as the UK expression. I don't recall hearing them saying "pissed" without the "off" after it. I'll keep my ears open next time I watch an American movie or TV series.

I've seen one US movie that used the phrase "pissed off" meaning mad or angry, which is the same as the UK expression. I don't recall hearing them saying "pissed" without the "off" after it. I'll keep my ears open next time I watch an American movie or TV series.

With or without the 'off' when Americans mention being 'pissed (off)', it never means being drunk. There are other expressions for that, like 'being wasted' for instance. Also a bit confusing I suppose.

Yea I meant pissed off, angry, big mad lol

Who knows they might have been drunk too. They did like drinking together hahaha

Never spanked by a babysiter, aunt or anyone other than a single parent - either my mom or dad and not very often. I did get spanked by a friend of my parents while working on their farm during the summer. Only once or twice that I remember and not severe.