Girlfriends and ladies willing to receive spankings!?

While dating, I would say that I did not run across young women who wanted to be spanked...with the exception of one woman. I had just broken up with a friend of this girl who apparently stayed away because I was dating her friend. Before our date she actually got permission from my former girlfriend to date me. I knew this girl well because she was part of our college group of friends.

On the date she really acted so much different than was typical for her...bratty and sarcastic which was way out of character. We were in my car driving back to campus and I had finally had enough and asked her directly why she was acting so badly. She looked sorrowful and said something like, "I know. I have been very bad tonight. I probably deserve a good spanking."

Lights started flashing and I figured I'd would just go where she was leading. I indicated that I agreed that she did deserve a good spanking and perhaps I should give her one. She went along and suggested it would be something I should do and that she certainly deserved it saying that that was how her mom and dad dealt with her when she was growing up and misbehaved. I found a private area near campus and pulled the car over. It didn't take long for me to have her over my lap wondering if I should take down her pants and panties. I thought about it for a second and then decided to go for it and see if there was any sort of objection. I did and there wasn't. She had a lovely bottom (full, round, firm cheeks) and over my knee I could see the lips of her beautiful vagina which immediately gave me a huge boner. I started to spank her bare buttocks making the slaps get gradually harder and harder until she was squirming and crying and experiencing a true spanking. She never objected but simply accepted the punishment. I spanked her for several minutes then comforted her and kissed her when the spanking was over. She seemed quite appreciative of the spanking and showed it by unzipping my trousers and taking well care of my throbbing 19 year old hard on.

She tended to avoid me in our group for a bit after than and seemed a bit embarrassed by what had transpired on our "date". She never mentioned it and did not agree to a second date...which was okay with me as I got back with my girlfriend shortly after that.

Good post, and a very enjoyable read @OldGuy48 ! You certainly struck gold there! Really hit the jackpot in fact! And considering it was the only time you dated her; it really was, with this girl anyway, a once in a lifetime opportunity! Which you took full advantage of!

As it turns out, @creator58, this date happened first semester of my sophomore year and I was in the presence of this young woman almost daily as part our group of friends. As I mentioned she never mentioned the spanking or even coyly referred to it. So I did not either. Every time I looked at her, however, my mind flashed to her lovely bare bottom over my knee and the exposed treasure between her legs and how her cheeks responded to each certainly stinging slap. She dropped out of college at the end of the year. Yes, it was a once in a lifetime opportunity as I married someone with no interest in spanking other than an occasional love tap on the bottom. While I certainly would say that this particular spanking was quite erotic for me, most of my experience with spanking was strictly disciplinary.

My first wife always said pain before sex is like fine wine with a meal. I never really didn't understand, until one day she told me to gather about a dozen saplings about two feet lone. I thought she was doing a floral display. (silly me)

Later that evening she told me to whip her with the saplings: I did some smacks here and there, when she abruptly stopped me and said, you don't have a clue do you, and ordered me to lay on the bed. She then took charge and whipped me. I started yelling and squirming she didn't stop, she just kept going increasing the force and frequency. Then something happened where it no longer was painful, it was pleasurable. At a certain point she straddled my face with her naked pussy. I grabbed her and sucked her to several orgasms. We both collapse and fell asleep.

After that spankings were part of our sexual routine.

Once a young girl came to my clinic for a medical examination when I checked her before entering the doctor I noticed her very red buttocks.

She blushed when I asked to see her again and asked if everything was fine and if she was hurting there

She told me that she really likes bdsm but she is ashamed of the doctor because he knows her since childhood

I offered to apply soothing cream to her skin and she immediately agreed

I felt a strong need to give her another hard spanking but I was too shy to ask

I attend many spanking parties. There are quite a few ladies (and a few guys) there who love being spanked. Not play spanking either. Some love a real butt burner.

I have found it very hard to find spankees, much less a spankee girlfriend. I live in the North East in a rural area. The are no spanking clubs for 50 - 100 miles away. I was spoiled because my first wife was into spanking as was her mother.

I love being spanked but I'm sure that is not surprising since we are on this website right now. But i think you have a good point with mentioning how you were raised and how it might have affected your love for spanking. I was raised in the south and got spankings but not too many since i was a good girl. However i always secretly craved them! It was thrilling to ask my first boyfriend for a spanking and he happily agreed.

I do not recall ever asking permission to spank , however I was not a vigorous spanker it seems & no one ever got mad at me.

Mom on the other hand was a vigorous spanker with the belt , aometimes prior to a red bag e" .

And now today I am very normal except for e ' atuff sometime which who even cares about anyway

I was one of the willing teenage girls growing up that enjoyed a good spanking. My mother did not hesitate to give me a spanking all the way through high school when warranted for misbehavior, a bad attitude, or being disrespectful. I find it interesting that being spanked by her and then held, hugged, and told me how much she loved me made me real very close to her even to this day. I am always up for a spanking when my husband wants to spank me even if it is for nothing more than maintainance spanking. My sister and I would sometimes spank one another growing up and on a few occasions when we became married adults. Denise