Years ago there was a study at a Dutch university about female and male sexual arousal.
For both sexes the test taken was the same.
Each person was seated in a blinded room (so full privacy).
The males had a measuring device around their penis, measuring the hardness of his penis.
The females had a sort of glass tampon inserted into their vagina, measuring the blood stream through their vaginal walls. @Rigel also mentioned such a device in his reaction.
Each test person had to look at a sex video over and over again.
They had to respond with a button how aroused they felt. Also the arousal was measured by the device.
So with the button it was more how aroused they felt. The device measured the actual arousal of the body.
After seeing the video over and over again, both males and females reported being less aroused. The button was used less and eventually not used anymore.
The males showed a one on one relation between the button and the hardness of the penis. Not being aroused also means not having a hard penis.
The females didn't show that relation at all. Not being aroused, still have a higher blood circulation in their vaginal walls.
The conclusion of this study was that the female body prepares itself for intercourse when a sexual content is displayed. This would also explain why females that sexual molested, show signs of arousal during this. Sorry for this hard conclusion, it is not ment to harm someone.