How do you become dependent on enemas?

Here’s a question. If you wanna become enema dependent would it be easier to get that way with daily large volume enemas or daily fleet enemas.

What’s everyone’s opinion on this.

I would like a large one

I don't like large enemas. My favorite volume is 1-1•5 lt.

I am dependent on enemas every 3 or four days. It is a matter of childhood memories with family and friends.

Dependence is caused by overuse.

You NEED at least a few days without any enema or laxatives and normal bowel movements.

If you "spike the enema with laxatives, use a rotation of different laxatives. Not the same one every time.

Presently my dependency is due to my very large hernia that backs me up. My shower enema attachment conveniently very close to the toilet, makes a quick morning and night time clean-out very easy to do. I fear I would be lost without this should have to live someplace else.

I am not sure why you would want to become dependent on enemas. After knee replacement surgery I was using opioid pain medication and became dependent on enemas for several months. It took a while, but I started to have regular bowel movements again. Now, I take an enema (usually once a week) because I enjoy it.

Fleets do nothing for me! Many years ago a kind nurse, with whom I had a conversation about enemas, gave me one to try. Later she asked me how I had got on and I replied that I preferred my water. She responded "Many people say that ".

"How do you become dependent on enemas"

Well that is an easy question to answer. You give yourself enemas daily for an extended period of time- I would imagine 10 days or more and then stop. At that point, see how your body reacts to not having enemas or how long it takes for you to have a BM after stopping the daily enemas.

Your body has a mind of its own. If you start doing a job it is conditioned to do like remove waste from your colon, it basically stops working and lets you do the work of waste removal. You will have to go through a period of no enemas- think of this time like a withdrawal period as your body starts to gear back up to take on the job of waste removal. This withdrawal period will likely take several days and you will experience constipation during this time.

As some have stated, they have to do enemas due to medical conditions that won't allow their digestive system to function normally. Speaking personally, I love enemas and do them regularly, but I am very careful not let my body become dependent on them to have a BM. I always allow my body several days of normal BMs after an enema session before doing another one.

I am not sure why one would want to shut down a perfectly normal functioning system and have to rely on enemas to have BMs, but to each his own as the old saying goes.

Before COVID-19, probably 2018, I did enemas everyday for the last half of June and all of July. I had started out one week and then wondered about "30 days of enemas." It seems I went 45 days and maybe more. I had it in a blog page that I erased.

These were not small enemas. More often than not, they were multiple enemas (two or three in a row) and many days had more than one session. But there was always at least one enema per day of at least 2.0 liters. For days with large enemas or multiple large ones, I would often use baking soda to keep my electrolytes somewhere close to normal.

It took all of 36 hours to have my colon return to normal bowel function. I don't suffer from constipation as a routine matter nor IBS. YMMV!

So why would you NOT want to be enema dependent? For me it means I am always clean, have a happy inside and no longer have mood swings and depression. My regime, daily enemas and regular colonics, also, aged 66, definitely enhances my libido, which my beautiful blonde enjoys.

Finding the sight of a bulging full, red enema bag with a large back douche nozzle connected to it's tubing as something exciting to see - well, that's the start of enema dependence 😄

What is an enema dependency?

We do daily enemas for two weeks every year after Christmas/New Year after gluttony. The intestine then works normally again after two to three days; without further enemas.

I'm probably misinterpreting this, but I'm basing my addiction on the erotic/sexual.

And this is where I'm so addicted...🤗😎

What is an enema dependency?

@aquarius that is a good question. Whether it's a physical dependency (which some people have) where you can't have normal BM's and need some stimulant (enema or whatever) to release - or if it's a mental dependency that you so much enjoy them (erotically, relaxatin or just for the cleansing feeling) that you frequently crave or them and/or are dependent on that feeling. Kind of a physical/habitual dependency like smoking or obsessive sex. I think for most it's the latter, but there are several members here who physically depend on them for bowel movements.

Some go in streaks - like your Xmas cleanout.

I’m the poster child for enema dependence.

I’ve had too MANY, too OFTEN, too LARGE, too HARSH for TOO LONG!

And, I can’t have a spontaneous bowel movement on my own.

but still

I LOVE ENEMAS.

Let's hear it for The Poster Child!! Life without enemas is unthinkable.

Here is a similar topic "Enema Dependency - Fact or Urban Myth?"

https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;msg=1232428

That could add other's views on this subject.

@Moms_Egirl I’ve had too MANY, too OFTEN, too LARGE, too HARSH for TOO LONG! And, I can’t have a spontaneous bowel movement on my own. but still I LOVE ENEMAS.

These are the qualities I love to find in a woman.

I have a lovely neighbour, a now retired RN. We met about ten years ago when we had snow, sadly an infrequent event. I was clearing my drive, she arrived home from work, got stuck and the rest is history. From the outset she made it clear that friendship was on and she loved my cooking, play was not. However as I got to know her it became clear she was a pretty broad minded lady.

Eventually I asked her if enema dependency, brought on by long term routine use of enemas and colonics could be harmful. Her answer was if you are scrupulous about hygiene, sanitise everything after every session and are prepared to spend upto an hour in your bathroom everyday, then that regime will bring nothing but good. And there is nothing so exquisite as enema orgasms !!

That’s a no brainer, small commercial enemas are meant to be quick and effective with minimal prep or fuss. Large volume enemas on the other hand not only move your bowels they distend your bowels basicly stretching you out, so you require more stimulation to know you even have to go, if you do. With frequent repeated use eventually you will be dependent on the enema to make you go, once that happens you can continue with high volume or switch to the strong small commercial saline enemas.

You will require one or the other anytime you want your bowels to move it’s much the same with laxative dependence, you begin to need that massive stimulation in order to go at all. This is bordering on self harm, intentionally sabotaging your bodily functions is really not a good idea.

Few years back I had a replacement knee op, I have parkinsons, I have back and hip problems and bad hiatus hernia .... all of which the meds cause constipation, some meals loosen things up, but then I'm bunged up again. So I alternate glycerin suppositories or soap sticks, or enemas, seems to be OK.

Most oral laxatives tend to work sometime too well or at some inconvenient moment, so anything up my bum works within an hour regarding supps, or instantly for enemas ... oh and did I mention that I like enemas .... anyone out there interested in a meet for play ?

Dependence is caused by overuse. I was once enema dependent at an early age decided by my mothers overuse of soapy enemas every other day. When this happens you can’t move your bowels on your own because they get lazy and constantly constipated. It was always convenient for Mom to have my bowel movements on a schedule, on her time. This is how it happens. Anyone can get enema dependent just like I was. Also I feel anyone can be free from enema dependance with some work over time and trying not to over use enemas, suppositories or strong laxatives on a regular basis.

It can be very hard and even next to impossible in some situations to break your reliance on enemas and the use of rectal laxatives. Who would what to? I for one like taking enemas and always feel better after having one. Like many others I would never want to go without my enemas that I love so much and can always rely on when needed. Lol

Jeanette

I can only speak for myself, my siblings, several girlfriends, and wife in regards to becoming dependent on enemas.

As kids, my siblings and I got enemas when needed for constipation. The average during the school year was two or three times a month. When mom gave one of us an enema, she also gave the other two an enema as well. So, it did matter who got constipated, we all got a couple of enemas together. During the summertime enemas at home went down to an average of once a month. However, during our six week visit with our grandmother during summer vacation, the number of enemas we got in private or together increased too a couple of times a week. There were a few summers when we got enemas every day or every other day, for two or three weeks straight, never having an issue going to the bathroom normally within twenty four too thirty six hours.

After our RN grandmother taught us personal hygiene as preteens and enemas were our responsibility. Our enema usage remained on par with moms enemas until my sister and I started swapping enemas once school started in the fall. In the beginning, it was still on par with moms enemas, but slowly increased too two or three times a week where it remained for a number of years. On top of that, a year or so into that activity, my girlfriend and I started swapping enemas during her period every month. She had issues with period cramps, so the number of enemas we did together depended on how bad her cramps were. Some months, it was only a couple of times, and other months it was every day for a week or more. Again, we never had issues going normally within twenty four too thirty six hours.

After I got married, my wife and I used enemas for both health and pleasure for a number of years before we had children. We did enemas on average of three times a week sometimes more, depending on the situation. We didn’t slowdown until we decided to start a family. Then it dropped to once a week or less. In all that time, nobody I was ever associated with, had issues becoming dependent on enemas. Just speaking about my experiences.

If you torture yourself with large enemas I suspect that you could distend and possible diminish the peristaltic actions of the colon and rectum. secondary would be your age and the amount of exercise your body is given. Using a solution that promotes peristaltic contractions would seem to be less likely to lead to dependency as it is contrary to distension of the colon. The idea of dependency is a possible ruse to convince the significant other to help you on a schedule that is verifiable in literature on the subject.