Do hold it in

So I'd love to hear you guys and gals experience with enemas and suppositories and in particular do you hold and resist the first waves of the urge to expel and do so until despite all efforts you lose control etc. Or do you simply go when you get the natural signals and urge to expel from your bowels...

Please share your thoughts, experiences and do feel free to add to this thread or go off script.

For me - I love to make the experience last as long as possible and fight to the bitter end to resist going. I'm pretty sure this is linked to my times when my Aunty used to give me enemas and or suppositories to make me go when I was backed up, but I withheld mainly due to humiliation of her being present when I expelled and just down-right stubbornness to comply ❤️

When I have saddle soap up my bum I often have a nappy on under my clothes and I hold as long as I can, usually sitting down, sometimes I get juice come out, but when I get up the whole of my bowels contents will gush out of me. Wish I had a friend to play these games with, have placed an ad on this website.

@sirwilliam55 wow I've used saddle soap too, very infrequently its only used for when I'm really revved up and want something super strong. Hope you find what you're looking for 🤞

Being a quad I used suppositories and enemas as part of my daily bowel care for many years ,till they were so ineffective I was hospitalized. After a doing a colonoscopy prep in the hospital I was still too full to have the procedure , so I had to drink one prep during the day and one at night for 4 days before I still wasn’t empty but they got a good look at what they could . They put me on oral medication that softens the stool and makes you unable to retain stool. Yes the medication will remind you to use the toilet politely for a short time in a person who has nerve and muscle function before it takes charge and makes you , so the medication thinks I am resisting it because it’s telling nerves and muscles that aren’t telling me , thus the medication thinks I am resisting it , and it takes control and makes me go. It’s given to poo withholders for that reason , you can resist the medication urges ,it wants you too because the longer you resist the more laxative it becomes and the more brutal the lesson learned when it makes you go . Once you take it there is no other choice but go . I am given it 1 hour before I eat each meal along with getting a fresh diaper because. It’s gonna be needed , I have 5 very large and soft movements a day , it is a syrup my aide gives me by oral syringe .