Release of sexual tension with enemas

Unfortunately women aged over 70 often lose interest in, and need of, sex opposed to older men with normal testosterone levels who are still craving for sexual release. Those of us who started masturbating with enemas during puberty will find that enemas are a satisfying method of releasing these sexual tensions. I personally like warm mild soapy enemas of 2 to 3 liters taken slowly within 30 minutes using a cock ring for maintaining a strong erection during the whole enema and the extended retention period with mild cramping.

Masturbation helps gaining sexual satisfaction without looking for a new partner, thus preventing the risk of divorce after many years of happy marriage with a wonderful wife, unfortunately now more a good comrade than a lover. How do you deal with that situation?

If you're in a sexless marriage just because your partner seems to have lost interest (versus learning to hate each other which also happens) -COMMUNICATE. Your partner might surprise you! Try writing her a love letter - and let her know your desires for her/him- not just your frustration.

I’m a woman in my seventies and the ONLY way I can climax is during a very warm (bordering on hot) soapsuds enema. Nothing else. It swells my lips, gives me tummy cramps and brings my sexual urges to a high peak until *BANG*!!!

If you want to stir up your woman’s libido give her a warm enema. Like I’ve said before, my enema bag makes love to me in a way that nothing else could!! 🪅

I would be glad to help you.

Actually, my enemas did not release tension, they made it reach a peak resulting in my having to stroke the peckeroo and once I popped it - that would be my release.

Release of sexual tension with enemas ??

Oh yeah ... manys a time ive resorted to a "good" enema thats relieved tension ... Soap added takes it up a notch ... I do like the soap

@reddevil

Actually, my enemas did not release tension, they made it reach a peak resulting in my having to stroke the peckeroo and once I popped it - that would be my release.

You've just identified a name thats not been listed (believe it or not) on the thread for names given to our sex organs .... Peckeroo .... true !

Maybe you do the Honours 😁

Actually the enemas increased sexual tension like others here and if i didn’t cum during the enema then a masturbation session soon followed!

When I was a teenager, my girlfriend and I swamped enemas on a regular basis. If we weren’t turned on when we started and that was rare, we both sure were by the time we finished. Leading to some interesting times in and out of the bathroom or bedroom for both of us. Years later, after I got married, my wife and I used enemas for the same reasons my girlfriend and I did. We used enemas before, during, and after sexual intercourse. There were times when we did enemas, that one or both of us weren’t interested in sexual intercourse. However, by the time we were actively doing or finishing a couple of enemas, we both were in the mood for good sex.

@That_Australian You've just identified a name thats not been listed (believe it or not) on the thread for names given to our sex organs .... Peckeroo .... true ! Maybe you do the Honours 😁

Okay - just did it, thanks!

I’m a woman in my seventies and the ONLY way I can climax is during a very warm (bordering on hot) soapsuds enema. Nothing else. It swells my lips, gives me tummy cramps and brings my sexual urges to a high peak until *BANG*!!!

If you want to stir up your woman’s libido give her a warm enema. Like I’ve said before, my enema bag makes love to me in a way that nothing else could!! 🪅

Hi, @Moms_Egirl,

Your solutions are way too strong for me, but I’m glad they’re so intense and sexually reliable for you. Pardon if I’ve asked before, but do you ever have an enema where you’d rather not climax for some reason, or the reverse where your enema doesn’t quite push you over into the orgasm you were trying for? Thanks,

Eric

Hi, @Moms_Egirl, Pardon if I’ve asked before, but do you ever have an enema where you’d rather not climax for some reason, or the reverse where your enema doesn’t quite push you over into the orgasm you were trying for? Thanks,

Eric

Hi Eric, Yes….there are lots of times when I purely take an enema for the clean out without having a climax. It’s just an enema without any intense sexual feelings.

For example, I take enemas for headaches or bloating, constipation. And I don’t feel turned on then. But there are times I might (during the enema). You never know. It IS a my favorite remedy that I know will take care of the problem.

On the other hand, if I’m horny and WANT to achieve a climax, I have to give myself a hot, soapy enema. Cramps and all. 🌷

Enemas do help to release sexual tensions. I am multi-orgasmic and I will either masturbate during enemas or whoever is helping me helps there as well.

Raining my hand! I have tension! Ready for it to go up my butt. Yes please, you can slide it in for me.

I give myself enemas about once a week. I will use my shower shot several times in between times when I do enemas. I have come to love the feeling of filling and expelling and that squeaky clean feeling in my rectum afterwards.

I don't always masturbate during my enema sessions but when I do, the orgasm it produces is like no other compared to the other ways I cum- intercourse, BJs, anal sex toys. Just seconds before the orgasm hits, I have these "waves" of pleasure that sweep through my whole body and make me toss and turn. I can only achieve this with enemas. The orgasm itself, is powerful and finally exhausting and relaxing or as the OP calls it "release of sexual tension."

You would think I would do these "sexual release" enemas all the time, but I have to be in the right mood and so not all of my enema sessions end with one of these powerful orgasms. It's only when I really crave to have one of these enema orgasms will I indulge myself. If I did them all the time, they would begin to feel commonplace kind of like eating your favorite dessert every day.

I have come to realize that my enema orgasms are the pinnacle of my sexual pleasure, and so I will always want to make them a special occasion. All this just builds the craving for them when I finally cave into the desire for that super "release of sexual tension."

@Moms_Egirl Do you ever climax without taking an enema? I would like to be held to only climaxing after a set of enemas, or perhaps only allowing it every 3rd enema session.

@Moms_Egirl Do you ever climax without taking an enema? I would like to be held to only climaxing after a set of enemas, or perhaps only allowing it every 3rd enema session.

@dobbs_asdf ……. No, I can ONLY climax during a hot and soapy enema or enemas. Even if I use other methods that used to induce a climax, they don’t work now. Likewise, I can’t control if I will or will not have a climax, or how many.

I’m in my seventies and what worked when I was younger doesn’t cut it. However, my enormous craving and sensitivity to enemas; (all things enema) is greater than ever!

@Moms_Egirl I feel a deep sense of admiration about that for some reason. At some point it would be nice to be coached towards that myself if even on 30 day trial basis :-) Otherwise I know I don't have the will power to pull that off without any accountability to someone else.

@dobbs_asdf ……. No, I can ONLY climax during a hot and soapy enema or enemas. Even if I use other methods that used to induce a climax, they don’t work now. Likewise, I can’t control if I will or will not have a climax, or how many.

I’m in my seventies and what worked when I was younger doesn’t cut it. However, my enormous craving and sensitivity to enemas; (all things enema) is greater than ever!

@Moms_Egirl,

I take it after reading many of your orgasm-by-enema posts that you really need the liquid to be very warm or almost hot, but obviously not hot enough to cause you thermal injury. Actually I like it tha same way that lets me feel the warmth of the solution entering and moving around. Do you just enjoy the warm-to-hot sensations in your anus, rectum and colon, or can you not orgasm unless you feel both the heat and the soap and cramps all together? Thanks,

Eric

Wow, how intriguing and it makes sense. Enemas, for me, provide a sense of comfort in a way. Yes I'm cleaning myself out but maybe a deeper level, I feel like mentally cleaning myself out, too. Life is very intense and stressful right now. Hubby is going out and I just got excited at thr thought I'll have my enema time. I've never masturbated during an enema but, provided there aren't many cramps, I do enjoy that feeling of fullness. Hopefully it will release a lot of tension I have on a mental level, as a whole.

@Moms_Egirl,

Do you just enjoy the warm-to-hot sensations in your anus, rectum and colon, or can you not orgasm unless you feel both the heat and the soap and cramps all together? Thanks,

Eric

Hi Eric,

To achieve an orgasm, I require all 3 components (heat, soap and cramps)!!

It is a marvelous combination. It will bring you to a different state of consciousness. (At least it does with me!!)

MEG

Shygirl17. There is definitely a brain gut connection and soothing enemas really do make a difference. As my beloved colon hydrotherapist keeps reminding me. Warm to relax the bowel, cool to energise it. Personally I love a really warm, soapy enema but may follow it up with a cooler herbal. Enjoy!!

So good to get a full gambit of answers for this question . an enema soothes like nothing else . it at times heightens that sexual arousal and sets the stage for a fantastic climax .

its all about what races thru my mind before and during the session

also to enjoy the full warm sensation that is the reason for the pleasure

Hi Eric,

To achieve an orgasm, I require all 3 components (heat, soap and cramps)!!

It is a marvelous combination. It will bring you to a different state of consciousness. (At least it does with me!!)

MEG

Hi, MEG,

Very interesting. I love the heat and the soap, but not much on cramps unless they’re very mild, in which case I can actually enjoy them a bit. I just fill myself with a latex DBC, usually 3.5-4.5 quarts and if I can get all my planned volume for the day in, I’ll hold about 30-60 minutes enjoying all the physical and mental feelings it’s giving me. Sometimes the volume, heat, soap and maybe mild cramps arouse me so much I have to cut the hold short and give myself an orgasm. I really enjoy the long filling and holding but the arousal is in charge and my orgasm comes whenever it comes. Anytime is fine with me!

Eric 🍑💦

Shygirl17

I masturbate to get through the cramps. If I don't masturbate there is no way that I can hold a full bag. My sister can. We were all talking about moms giving daughters enemas and somehow I asked if she masturbated in front of mom while she was getting her enema. She said, "oh hell no!" "Mom would roll over a croak." We asked her how she did it and she said that she would just imagine she was in another place. But then when we started masturbating together she would think about that. We both said it had to be hard and she showed us that she could still do it.

As my wife entered her menopause, the spirits of fear, despair, panic, and last minute panic moved into our home, and for me, stress.

Many of her friends told her that everything had changed after that; the fountain of lust and the desire for sex had dried up. Most would have resigned themselves to their fate and accepted it as biological normality. But she couldn't put up with that...

In our more than 40 years of marriage, sex was and is a very important pillar. The lust and the desire for the partner has never decreased, in fact it has even increased over the decades.

During this phase, she used every conceivable opportunity to live out the desire she still had, as if there were no tomorrow.

She herself loves being enema with glass syringes or giving me the big enemas. Then she really goes off. During this time, the glass syringes ran hot and I felt like I spent hours every day bending over to absorb the masses of water in my intestines that she planned for it. For me it was almost an insurmountable obstacle to slow her down.

At some point it was time, she had survived the menopause. And to everyone's surprise, thank God not much has changed; on the contrary, it's a little tighter now and takes a little longer to get wet. but somehow our sex got even better, hotter.

The idea of ​​trying soap enemas came from her, so we ordered OHN soaps. She received the first soap enema, three glass syringes in a row, and she had an orgasm when I pushed the soapy solution into her.

We both feel that their menopause has been good for us; maybe redhead witches are in a better position, but now the focus is on me... 🤔how long does the steadfastness last...😂

Hi Eric, Yes….there are lots of times when I purely take an enema for the clean out without having a climax. It’s just an enema without any intense sexual feelings.

For example, I take enemas for headaches or bloating, constipation. And I don’t feel turned on then. But there are times I might (during the enema). You never know. It IS a my favorite remedy that I know will take care of the problem.

@Moms_Egirl I have enemas like that when I'm noticeably backed up or something else is going on. I find that if I let myself have a good expulsion and a 15-or-so minute break to enjoy just feeling better again a followup enema not only clears a bit more out but also can get the sexual feelings going.

@elover77 Some is hormonal, but you also have to take into account the cultural conditioning that women get about, essentially "growing out of sex" and that somehow it is more mature to be "beyond that." Kind of like what they get about how there are only a few acceptable ways of having sex, etc. If you expect something and are told that it will happen and it "should happen" then you might just make it happen. OTOH if you tell yourself that sex can still happen and be very fun you might find that happening.

That's a great solution you have; I should try it. I get lots of sex here and there but enemas are a turn on too

As requested for an update, I did do an enema yesterday; it was a coffee enema. I'm not as familiar with soapy enemas, as Ive seen on here. I do enjoy a retention one, though, as it allows for more time to lay down and relax and have 'me' time. I enjoyed the whole process of boiling the water to letting it cool, and then adding a probiotic and some black strap molasses which allows for more retention, all to my steel bucket. I only do 32oz, but in theory, I could have done more. I let the water stay around 105 degrees or so, seems to be just right. I let everything else go mentally, and allowed myself to just focus in the moment. I also took some chlorophyll about 30 minutes prior to, as that allows for more cleansing and detoxing.

I had a little harder time inserting the colon tube this time, not sure why. The tube wouldn't cooperate and I couldn't get a firm grip on the tube, I guess. It finally went in and then I laid on my left side to fill myself up. Once done, I removed the nozzle, then turned over to my right for 15 minutes.

I enjoy that feeling where I feel I can't retain but then it passes. For me, it's kind of like conditioning my body to not overly react, if that makes sense. As always, I felt tremendous relief and felt rejuvenated. 😌