How to find a good play doctor

Hello everyone, I have been on zity since I can remember and always been on the look out for a good play doc! I want to know how I could find a good one? I am looking for one who is professional and doesn’t want any type of sexual relationship, just strictly examining me head to toe. I see my primary doctor for a physical every year but I wish it was every month and even more thorough than he is.

I wish we lived nearer to each other.

Good luck. The sexual component is present for the vast majority of doctors. And they’re patients.

I'd think doing what you're doing with this post might be part of the process. Specifically being completely clear and upfront with what you want and what you don't. Maybe no sex but are there other medfet activities you might be okay with. For example, I could do an exam like that as an internist with over 35 years of doing just that for a living. The thing is, I would be fine with no intercourse but do you want a pelvic exam? Are you open to having your rectal temperature taken and an enema before anoscopy? This isn't quite as straightforward as one might initially think.

You are a little too south for me :-(. It helps if you travel though - your search area is that much more

I too would love to find a doctor who gives a professional business-like examination, with no attempt at happy endings for either. Thing is, I'm in London UK.

If you are looking for professional type regular exams you should check out being a standardized patient. There are several schools/universities in California that use them. The person doing the exam is a medical student. You'll be told ahead of time of the type of patient you will be and what the reason for the visit is. You role play and do a report on the student. There are some people who have been lucky enough to be standardized patients and have written about it here. Most places will pay you for being a SP. They may also ask for a commitment of time because they will train you and need you on days of testing. I applied for a couple in the past, but never got a response, possibly due to my age. Good Luck

Unless you’re lucky enough to have people approach you, with a romantic interest in mind, it’s a chore to find someone that you feel comfortable,and safe to be alone with. Escort services might provide it, but it’s expensive, risky, and not very personable. And if it’s a friend with benefits situation, be careful if you work together, or have the same circle of friends.

I'm rather shocked that you're having a difficult time finding a play doc to examine you. I would think you would have guys beating down your door for a fantasy exam session.

I think a lot of guys come here looking for a female patient or doctor to play with. And when none is available, they start exploring their homoflexible options. At least that was my experience.

I assume you've put out some feelers on the Personal Ad page here?

Good luck!

@thephysicalexam232

Personal recommendation from another trusted woman is the best way to go...

Well, I didn't know Standardized Patients were a thing here in California.

So that was a HOT TIP.

I have signed up with my local university, and hope to hear back from them. It's a matter of meeting the community: Doctors, medschool students, fellow Standardized Patients.

Could be fun!

---1970's boy

Zity is an excellent site, but there are others if you're not finding play Dr's that are either local or those who won't remove the sex component. Additionally, if your question was referring to communication, be upfront as you're doing now, and state that the sexual element is a non-starter. You're not alone in your request, and I've had play patients who've requested the same. I tell each of my play patients that the experience is driven by their vision and what they're looking for, not mine or the play Dr. I hope you're able to find what/who you're looking for.

@thephysicalexam232 I can help with that. I prefer not having the exam be sexual at all. I just like the feeling of caring for someone else.