Fending off perverts

When I say perverts I'm referring to the people who slobber over my best friend. She recently joined Diaperspace as an effort to get to know the AB/DL community a little better, and to offer support to those who wear for medical reasons. She, just like any other girl, attracts guys who immediately ask for IM addresses and phone numbers and such. And when the delete key or a simple "no, thanks" can't get rid of them, she calls upon me.

I've known her for 16 years and I love her deeply, so I tend to bristle up when people descend on her like that. I step in and tell the guy in a calm, tactful manner that she's not interested. I never act like a prick, unless he starts causing trouble.

I wonder if there's any guy who does this. Maybe a girl you know online or in real life has trouble getting away from the swarm of horny guys. I think doing this is a credit to the male gender, since most girls are reluctant to talk. What do you think of this?

You can count me in as someone who hates to see this kind of thing. Unfortunately there isn't much that can be done to shield ones self, be that female or anyone that may be swarmed in that manner. About all we can do is, like what Charmingboy is doing. Look out for people who would do this, and try and persuade them to not do it, or leave the other person alone.

This kind of behavior always reminds me of how 8th graders might act when they see a girl! But, with the internet you never know who your dealing with, it just might be an 8th grader???

I can recognize this...

Sadly though most people who visit this forum to hook onto some girls quickly are also the ones that just visit 1-2 times so its hard to change their attitude.

As it was the reason they came here in the first place.

I ask this because when my friend was on Myspace she got a message from a daddy who was looking for a girl to baby. She sent me the whole exchange, and it was a tad filthy. So I stepped in and asked what business he had with her. He gave me a bull story about "oh, we were just talking." I told him to leave her alone, he told me to mind my business. He went and said "oh, you think you're such a hero but you're just an asshole."

After my head cleared I wondered if guys who step in and help the girls are seen as people with dishonest motives of their own, like there was another reason for stepping in. I wasn't trying to act like a hero, just as someone looking out for a friend.

All in all, I'm just glad there are other guys who do this.

PS That's a great idea, Jeaning, to use a bit of a misleading username. Good bit of advice. Ha, if I actually look up takdriver55, will I find you?

Guys like that always piss me off. I've seen it happen on forums a lot, and I have had a history of telling those asses off and standing up for the girl/woman. Guys like them give guys like us bad names

-Sky

I've only come across one problematic guy (on DiaperSpace), and as soon as I made it abundantly clear that I was not interested...he backed off and I never heard from him again.

My wife has had the same problem in the past, even when she tell them that she is married and not looking. Best you can do is block them if that doesn't work tell the adminstrator.

I am the same way with my close female friends. I generally tell the guy harassing her to stop, or im reporting them for harassment.

Society has developed in such a way that morals are seen as irrelivant. It is impossible to be seen as a decent person. I have had people report me for sitting in a classroom quietly and doing my work. Their excuse was that I was so different from the group that i was plotting something against them. The point of this is that no matter how hard we try, if we hinder someone else's ability to get what they want, no matter what the reason, we are considered the "bad guy." We are; however, accepted by the person we are protecting; who has one of the few opinions that even matter. Society will always try to bring you down, but thats no reason to fall

Charming boy, I kind of know what you mean. I got hit on so many times by guys myself on aby.com or diaperspace. I guess they never read the I'm straight part, or just didn't care. Some guys must be real idiots and need to be put in thier place!!

I do feel sorry for most girls in diapers. Online, they are the minority. I do feel that more girls need to become open about who they really are. If this happens, you will see more & more girls online. You will also see a lot more guys go offline as well! I mean the sex perverts will leave. They will stop preying on the girls because they will lose all powers they now enjoy. Just think about it. There is POWER in numbers.

The whole truth to the matter is that there are more girls in diapers out there then there are guys! It's a proven medical fact. Hopefuly one day, thoses girls will step up to the plate & let it be known that they have to wear a diaper.

Sometimes my gender is an embarrassing reality. But then again I know some females who are just as evil/styoopid/annoying.

Let the ignoramus/a**hole/idjets fester in their own spew (ignore them, block them, or if need be create a separate identity to separate the areas where idiots usually tread)

Be free, and thus, be free of hassles!

I imagine that most regular posters around here arent like that...I actually make a point of not entering IMs or Chats with people I dont know, Ill let them Email me, and visit my Diaperspace...but more than that, and I just dont do it...

Its people like that that give us a bad name, and make it more difficult for others to join in...

I'm glad the majority of the people here aren't like that. But even I got some pretty fishy messages on here. Fortunately, one was banned, the other one of those lurkers here trying to weasel his way into the gallery.

It's weird when even a guy who makes it a point to tell everyone he's straight is still the target of horny dudes.

People like that also make things so much worse for all of the well intentioned guys. I don't think that these people realize that they are not helping their chances any but ruining the image of an entire gender. I also have to wonder if that's how they act when they go out in public.