Pro spanking

Anybody have any experience with pro spankers? I'm visiting one and just want to know what to expect.

I'm thinking that it doesn't take to much experience to be a pro spanker. My wife does a pretty good job at popping a good spank on this old ass. So I'm thinking she might be a pro at it. From a one to a ten I'll give her a ten every time.

No experience with a pro, but make sure you have a safe word and negotiate the scene; restrained or not, implements, marks or no marks, position(s), your expectations and limits.

I agree with Rigel. And we'd love a follow up post

So the follow up it went great we talked about what was to be done in the session and a little otk warm up then on to the spanking bench.

Yes my hind end was on fire and still is.

It was honstely great she took her time and didnt rush things over all i will give it a 8.5 out of 10

I would defentley do it agean

I have visited two professionals. Both different in ways. With both expectations were discussed including obviously what I was looking for. One did not use safe words. Her way of knowing my limit was my increased squirming and wiggling basically my reactions to the intensity. The other uses red and yellow though she also gauges her intensity to my reactions. I've never found it necessary to use safe words with her. Both willing to engage in role play. Both are quite at ease in their sessions and pass no judgements. And both give a good spanking.

I have visited a couple of pros. Primarily because switching messes everything up for me… throws off the whole dynamic.

There are times I want to be tossed over the knee and just blistered, without risking the exixting powers dynamic. Neither used safe words. THEY knew what was appropriate and I was quite soundly paddles each time.

Pros of pros:no drama, no confusion, generally like to spank.

I think there is much to be said for getting the negotiations out of the way before hand so you can just do with the flow.

On the two occasions i would consider very successful I was “asked” to take my clothing odd when entering the room. I was give a large enema and a butt plug. Then I was told to hold it in one instance for ten minutes and in another for fifteen (timed retention is not usual for me and these were quite large…. not even remotely comfortable)

We had agreed that i wuss out, sissy our, and otherwise try to avoid a proper paddling. We we agree that despite all that it would be very, very hard. I was nor disappointed

In my day I've spanked and been spanked by 4 different pros. My recommendation is set boundaries, establish safe words and both parties respect them. Prevents misunderstanding and ensuring a fun experience for all.

These days my wife and I know the others likes and limits so no discussion necessary.