Nurse helps the doctor, a shame for me, why so embarrassing ?

I don't recall a nurse staying in the room during a true physical exam. I have had an assistant stay in the room a few times for a derm exam to take notes (she seems completely focused on the computer, not looking), though that doesn't always happen either.

An assistant in the room for a play exam would certainly heighten the experience, but that is a different question altogether.

I remember nurses being present for exams with my own doctor as a child and school nurses or assistants being present for school physicals so it’s been nothing new to me to have a chaperone or student of some kind the only difference is years ago you weren’t given a choice you were just told what the doctor, nurse, or tech was going to do and who was coming in as well.

I recently had an STI checkup at a nearby clinic (after being divorced) and the female nurse practitioner actually had a sign on the wall that said all genital exams on males will require a chaperone present if you are uncomfortable please ask to see another provider. The NP did the preliminary exam and then excused herself so I could undress and she could get a chaperone. It was the first time I ever felt kind of awkward because it was a very young woman that introduced herself by first name and said hi Mr Smith! It’s easier mentally if they just come in and stand quietly off to the side rather then introducing herself smiling and waiting for the sheet to come off.

Interesting question. I recall being embarrassed during an examination because there was another lady whose function was unclear. There was no real nudity involved but it was embarrassing to walk around etc. with that person in addition to the doctor.

It has been hit or miss for me. Sometimes there's a nurse, helper or observer, and other times there isn't. I'm a female, very hetero, and I enjoy the embarrassment aspect, so I prefer male docs, nurses and helpers, and while it doesn't bother me to have a female present, it does nothing for me either. I used to be much more shy, but pregnancies and giving birth really did away with most of my modesty. I had all my kids at a teaching hospital, so it was common to be asked if students could watch or participate during exams or the actual birth. During my first pregnancy I always said "No". By the last one, I was like, "Sure; the more the merrier" lol, and there were quite a few of them in there. Birth was quite different though, than other situations, and I really don't have any sexual associations with it.

I know somebody who recently had her first pap, and was asked if it was okay to have students observe. She saw a female student, so she said it was fine. She was then quite surprised to see 3 more students, all male, enter the room a couple minutes later! She was a little weirded out by it; she said, "They were taking notes!!!" and couldn't help wondering what they were writing, lol. This person has some other fantasies I know of, so I wouldn't be surprised if this becomes a new one, ha!

I went to my dermatologist for a rash that just wouldn't go away. The nurse said "strip down your underwear" and then left. The doc came in, said, "Oh!", looked at my chart and saw that incontinence was listed and said, "Makes sense. Let's have a look." 30+ years in diapers and I forget to mention it sometimes. Total pro, that doc. Her nurse was behind me so I didn't see her reaction.

Tom

I actually enjoy having the nurse present, both in real and play exams. Nurses bring such a kind presence. In real exams, they can provide comfort and assurance I'm in good hands. Maybe too it has to do with how I initially went to school to become a nurse but didn't continue due to several factors, including not overcoming my own fear of needles.

Play exams, it's fun to have a nurse. Have only had this happen on one occasion but it was very memorable. 😊

I have an enemate who isn’t bothered by needles. After her enemas and spanking, I’ll pop a half dozen in her cute butt bums.

I feel between her legs and find her quite wet from the pleasure she is enjoying.

I had a nurse and medical student with the doctor when I was getting a cystoscopy last week. I don't mind a nurse with the doctor when he or she is examining me

It's possible that you like intimacy, just you and the other person