Ass to mouth? Seems disrespectful...

From what I’ve read the health risks of ATM are relatively low, especially among partners who are fluid bonded and healthy. The amount of bacteria ingested would be small, especially if the bottom was clean. It’s probably more of a “YUCK” issue for most rather than a serious health risk. I’d be more cautious about it with a non-bonded partner.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ass_to_mouth

When you stop and think about it it's yuck but in the heat of the moment literally anything goes except stink to pink, that's the only self preservation instinct still active in the throes of lust.

I would never ask anyone nor even suggest they suck me after I was in their ass, but if they want to do it, I have no problem with it. Most of the time when I am getting a dick in my ass, I will tell him to cum in my mouth. I then lick him clean after I swallow.

I had a female FWB that would stick 2-3 fingers in my ass as far as she could then bring them up and put them in our mouths while we were kissing heavily. The first couple times, they were clean but more times than not, they werent so clean. We both licked them clean with a passion!

At first it does seem disrespectful if not unappealing but not much different than analingus which I dearly love to give and receive followed by kissing.

RN here. Unless the female is infected or sick, our bodies' normal bacteria load is harmless. Fingers touching mouth transfers loads of bacteria. And the vagina! Good Lord. It's chock full of a bacteria that looks like spaghetti under the microscope. Yet we guys delight in putting our tongues in there every chance we get! And our mouths. The quantity and variety of the little things that normally reside there made me want to give up kissing. Take it from one who's been there, a course in microbiology is not good for your sex life.

I love ass to mouth as precursor to sex. But I love giving oral sex. I usually start slowly and move down then encourage her to turn over. Slowly licking her anus. Slowly to get deeper. Spreading cheeks apart so I can get my tongue deeper into her anus. Slipping over her pussy and slit. Tasting her juices as she gets wetter and wetter as I lick and suck her rosebud.

There are times we do ass to mouth 69. I do love that. She is not into anal play per se. But loves my tongue lapping her sweet rosebud.

Yes, it is disrespectful. I feel the same. I have not done it either.