General ages for Littles, Middles, Tweens and Bigs

Comments please on this generalized grouping of Bigs, Littles, Middles and Tweens.

I found this going down a rabbit hole.

Babygirl - This is frequently used to describe a female partner of a Daddy, Daddy Dom, Mommy or Mommy Dom and may describe an adult female who has child-like traits in her personality. This term is also frequently used as a term of endearment.

(I'm sure there must be a term in here for AgePlay that is younger than Littles but couldn't find any. Maybe they regress to a helpless infant and must have every need taken care of??)

Little - This is often used to refer to those who regress or role play from a toddler to pre-teen age. Generally, this means potty trained, but can still include sippy cups and pacifiers. It's also a general trend that those who fall into this category like their story time, coloring books, play doh, and many other things of that nature.

Middle - This term increasingly means someone who regresses or role plays to a teen or pre-teen age. People who consider themselves a middle generally take on the personality of someone in middle or high school. They've outgrown story time and coloring books.,

Tween - is an AgePlay category if they feel their inner age or their play is centered in the years between or near pubescence and into their Teens, so, roughly speaking, from the age of 8 or 9 up to the age 13 or 14

Bigs - This term is usually used to describe someone who regresses or feel they are between 13-14 to 17-18 in AgePlay scenarios. They believe they are old enough to act like adults and expect to be treated as one though their actions and preferences suggest they're not."

For the younger half of Age Players, which of these do you relate to the most? 🌸

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Little-tween... Describes me the most. Ages 2-12

I’m only familiar with Little, but upon reading further I identify as Tween (closer to 13-14) and Big (closer to 14-16).

10-ish. So I guess that makes me a tween or middle

I'd say Little. Sluggish and lazy bowel habits. Doctor recommended regular enemas, which my carer took literally. Even though I had been potty trained it was often used as a Punishment as I got older. A week long period of Potty and diaper training. Spanking was included.

By the definitions in the OP, I relate more to Middle and Tween, although since I discovered the age play categories in a search many years ago I've always worked on the basis that 'bigs' are actually the adult category who play the role or a grown-up / parent, and that middles covered everything that wasn't a little right up to the end of teenage non-adult years (which to me is 18 because we come of age at 18 where I'm from although I know this can vary between countrys/cultures). I've never really thought of 'tween' before. When I looked it up the general online consensus seemed to be kids aged 8-12 because they're 'between' childhood and teen years, and that's where I generally find myself wanting to be on the age play spectrum, although I do dig the teenage thing as well sometimes. I guess at heart then I'm a tween. My favourite years as a kid were basically 9-11 (or year 5 and 6, in UK terms) so it's no wonder that's what I like to think about most.

I’d say I’m a little. My play age is around 2,5 year old who is still dependent on diapers. When with ABDL family members I can tell I have ‘to go’ and then get told to use my diaper, cause that is what their for. I love being a little and taken care of. Also when in cases I can not wear or be little (like with birthdays or normal day activities with vanilla people around) my big sister only has to hit a certain note in her voice, which only I recognize, and I feel little right away. Makes me happy and is very fun to experience.

Spike

I forgot I even wrote this but I'll chime in about myself. (How egotistical, eh?)

My r/p age is quite varied. It depends on the role or age that is suggested by Daddy's questions or tone or actions. I see and feel (from the inside) from about 7 up to 15. My mind (and prob most other ppl's) is quite amazing bc it tricks me into emotionally, physically and mentally fully becoming these ages. I can only speak for myself. I cry at things, am afraid, and misunderstand intent and what is said. I feel vulnerable and unable to resist my Daddy but know that what he says, goes. I physically feel things for the first time, my reactions to these new things are usually fear and panic. Daddy understand what I am going through and is never mean nor does he do things in anger.

All of these scenarios involve anal play taking the form of punishment, maintenance or lessons with the occasional lovemaking scene thrown in. Most of our scenes involve large amounts of suppositories or enemas (including high colonics) or soap stick punishments. Bondage plays a big part of it but there is little corporal punishment.

Comments?

@SuppoEnemaGirl

It sounds like you have the perfect scenario. I can understand your feelings totally.

Margo

I think of myself as a little - immature 8 year old who still pees his bed and sometimes has daytime accidents - like when I was 8

I'm switch and in sub mode it would be little ages from 2 up to 5 yrs old . Dom mode i'm a big teen ages 15 to 17 and like to be in control of littles but still sub to adults . One girl i dominated and i use the term girl with a wide berth was in her late 30's but liked to be treated as a tween being forced to be a little . That took a lot of trail and error to get the scenario she liked working as she would pop from one personality to the other without warning .

I call myself a little puppy my age is anywhere from 4 years to 6 months old.

Most of the time i around 4 years old able to do most things but not potty trained.

Then sometimes I go to 2 years old at home.

Almost most days I end up as a 6 months older I can’t eat anything adult and walking is hard.

I can even get locked in my room as I can’t use my gate .

Basically I have the same mobility as a baby.

After all this I can even end up as a puppy and I act exactly like a dog

Between 7 and 14, especially if I can be a girl.

This is one creepy topic

I've done a bit of ageplay work (all participants 18+ IRL, of course), in my BDSM-focused clinic. I'm not an ageplayer myself, but enjoy playing with those who are. I'd say that as a subset of medical fetish, which is difficult to find/connect with on its own, ageplay combined with it is even more rare of a "real world" find. So it hasn't been quite as extensive as I'd like to explore further, when it comes to this niche combination.

One scene involved a Little and it ended up not being quite for me; great patient, and the paci was fun, but too difficult for me to really relate to, and this makes it more awkward.

I've worked with a few girls playing as Tweens/Middles and this seems like the sweet spot for my kind of work, when it comes to ageplaying. These patients were acting more mature, while still immature; they were better communicators (the Little was just fine this way too, but limited due to her roleplaying age), they act a bit more curious/precocious while still being shy, and we can turn the session more into a sex ed/"puberty" assessment/etc. sort of study/procedural work.

I am usually playing little

I think I define Middle and Little in one of my posts, and I disagree with the "definitions" or groupings set out here. Obviously these terms aren't set in stone, but to me, a Little is 2 to about pre-school or maybe Kindergarten (so 5/6). While a middle is a school age, age player, and a tween would be a subset of that. Technically, I have never heard of "tween" being used to describe an age play grouping. It's just a term for 8-12 year olds, same as pre-teen which is typically for maybe 10 or 11 and 12 year olds.

Personally, I do see myself as a Middle (age play term), who is a tween or pre-teen (general term to describe kids in those age groups I mentioned above).