Thickness vs length - anal sex

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What is more important pleasure wise, thickness or length of penis or dildo that penetrates you?

Both. I can fully insert to complete visual disappearance, past the 2" of my anal scpincter, an 18" long, 1.75" diameter double header dildo. Sometimes I'll add a 1.5" diameter double header, but can't submerge both simultaneously. I keep working on that.

Length. A dildo too wide stretching me isn’t as fun as one that’s a decent girth that goes deep.

Like asking what kid you love most, 😬. I love both, but if I had to choose, I would go with girth. That slow, wet stretch In indescribable.

I'm loving the responses to this question! I think moderate for both is the ticket, but in any case, you dance with who brought you!

I prefer thick any day but not super short either. Years ago I had a guy with a really long cock in me and I hurt for days after. Never asked him to stop though, smile.

For me thickness is what hits proverbial spot. Thicker the better to the point of being even mildly painful.

Length is completely opposite, anything longer than 6-6.5", when fucking is uncomfortably painful.

I can take 10" dildo but only when inserted slowly and then left in not moving, otherwise it's pretty unpleasant experience.

Good question!

Since this is an either/or question, I'd choose thickness. I'm not an extremist with it though and for me the thickness can not be blunt. Give me an inch or inch and a half to open me first. And if it's not a penis, I just love those firm but squishy plugs/dildos.

Since I’m a Hans Solo it depends😁My enema nozzles vary in width and length😜 1l” of insertable length. In width up to about 2 1/2 inches but I need to practice😍I’ve used dildos as big as 12” long by 2” wide but a 2 1/2 wide plug is 7.9" in circumference🙈😻🙈

The perfect ratio of length and width is the ultimate goal. I continue the search without success though the experiment can be interesting.

The perfect ratio of length and width is the ultimate goal. I continue the search without success though the experiment can be interesting.

Perhaps that would be the Golden Ratio ratio ("phi" = 1.618........) which is used in math (Euclid, Fibonacci....), architecture, art (The last Supper, Da Vinci) even the occult.

It may very well the perfrect length to thickness dick ratio as well!! 😄

I have a 7 inch dildo that is probably 1 1/2 inches wide. It works well for its intended purpose of penetrating my tight hole. My play partner also loves it when I penetrate his tight hole with it as well. I also have 12 inch long double dildo 1 1/2 inches wide that we have used on each other 😈🍑🍆

I have a 7 inch dildo that is probably 1 1/2 inches wide. It works well for its intended purpose of penetrating my tight hole. My play partner also loves it when I penetrate his tight hole with it as well. I also have 12 inch long double dildo 1 1/2 inches wide that we have used on each other 😈🍑🍆

@chelle300 You could use each of those on me!!! 😜🌹

For me, it varies. Depends on my mood and what I'm up too. If I'm in my chair, reading Zity or watching girls getting a toy or cock in their butts, I usually have my big silicon butt plug or my smooth hard plastic dildo deep in my butt. I like to walk around with those sticking out too. I have anal beads that are about a foot long. If I'm nice and clean inside, I like to lay on my side and slide those all the way in until one bead is all that's sticking out, and then slowly pull them out then back in. Wish a girl was doing that for me. They are not thick, just long and skinny. I always wanted to try one of those long dildos than have a bulb head at each end, see if I could get one of those all the way in my butt.

I play solo, so am giving and receiving in one person.

If I have to choose, then it’s thickness, especially with lots of contours. I prefer softer toys at these big sizes so I can work them in through my sphincter and feel some expansion as they squirm through and into my rectum. Great sensations as they do their work.

What I really like the most is a combination of both, depth play added to gradually increasing girth at depth. I’ve been working on this with my choice of new toys over the past three years or so.

If I’m feeling really turned-on I’ll go for the big, flared heads and somewhat narrower shafts of horse dildos. These are a particular challenge and not for everyone, but I’m certainly glad I found them.

Definitely girth. The nerve endings need to be stretched. That’s where all the pleasure is. A vibrator on my clit, as he slides his cock into my ass, is the most amazing sensation. Also, induces multiple orgasms.

Has to be wide... the stretch!

It's length for me.

Nothing any longer than 8" for me. However... my butt can take up to 3 3/8" wide.

Nothing any longer than 8" for me. However... my butt can take up to 3 3/8" wide.

Obviously girth is more important to you! 😀

6 1/2 to 7 1/2 inches long is perfect, and normal width to thick is great. Too long and your bashing my cervix ( when I had one) ouch! Thick is very nice 🙂 not a fan of it bashing the gates down but I quite like when the walls are massaged well 😎 As for anal, over eight is a no go, but thick is amazing, the stretch, the burn... Yup I like 😉

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I’m not an expert, but it would seem that unless you can stay erect, and move slowly and consistently, then you might make nothing more than a good visual impression , especially to women who are only attracted to large penises.

… it would seem unless you can stay erect and move slowly and consistently, then you might make nothing more than a good visual impression….

@JJM Not saying I’m large, butt never had a problem staying erect during anal sex and my wife liked it hard and fast.

I like both when it cums to Cock... and i don't like dildos.

For me there's a big mind fuck element.

When a Man's Cock i long, it goes past the S curve (aka "second hole") when He released His orgasm and seed and inseminates me. i can hold His seed in and absorb it when it is planted that deep. Girth, on the other hand is also a form of 'impregnation' for me because He Is opening and molding me with His Cock, which i relate to as a way He creates... which i see as Top attribute. Lol, this all has a lot of psychological connection for me.

Skill first. Girth cause you can only get so much in

For me it’s length. Nothing feels better to have a nice long dildo inserted into my rectum to get that stuffed full feeling. Especially while jerking off in my diaper.

I am more partial to thickness. 1.75-2" wide hits the prostate perfectly. I can only take 7" long... must have a short colon. 😃

In bottom mode, I like a thick 7-8" tool. For toys, my limits are much higher. As a sis top, I've found that my 6" average stick does the job. A number of my female partners have enjoyed me wearing girth expanders to "beef things up" but never have I been asked to provide more length.

Well, I would say it's all about the finding the right combination of girth and length. When you fit yourself for shoes, you look at shoe size (length) and width ("A" denoting narrow all the way to extra wide "E").

I do have some large anal toys that have a gradual increase in width which I will play with when I have the time to relax and take about 45 minutes to an hour. I like to go well beyond 2 inches in width- that in itself is a turn-on feeling my anus stretching and relaxing and taking the girth of this toy. But I push as far as I can until it hurts then pull back. So, there is some pain involved which my body is telling to stop. The trick is to keep pushing and pulling back until my anus kind of gives up and opens up. This is very pleasurable.

Now on to length. Length I feel is less of a challenge than dealing with large girth- everybody has a limit with what they can take with girth and then it is painful to go beyond that. For depth play, if you clear your colon with multiple enemas, you can with care and caution penetrate well up into the descending colon and beyond. I have done this with my 25-inch Silicone Nozzle colon tube which is about 1.25 inches wide. As far as what it feels like, I don't feel much of anything unless the end of the tube is hitting my colon wall and causes a slight poking feeling and a little bit of pain. I always pull back and then try to slowly advance the tube again. So as the tube advances deep into my colon is this pleasurable? Hmm well not really. So compared to playing with the wide anal toys I would say that is much more pleasurable due to all the nerve endings in my anus and of course my prostate. So once you get past all those pleasure zones and penetrate deep into the colon, I don't feel that much physical pleasure rather more of a sense of satisfaction having achieved penetration that goes up to the bottom of my ribcage.

All that said, having a large dildo or a real penis penetrate me is very pleasurable- long enough to get deep full strokes that can hit my prostate and wide enough to stimulate my anus. So the answer to the OP question: which is better girth or length? I would say both when it's the perfect size that creates those magical intense feelings.

I always heard.... "It Doesn't Have to Hit The Bottom, But It would Be Nice If It Scraped the Sides a Little.