Thickness vs length - anal sex

There’s an old saying:” The size of a tool isn’t important, if you don’t know how to use it.”

I'm always preferred length so I can feel my mistress going back and forth

Although on longer session I was able to get a bigger toys the reward is walking funny for couple days 😄

I have yet to be fucked, but I really want to. I fantasize of his cock spreading my asshole, and slowly entering me. His length is unimportant to me, but I want him in me fully. When it finally happens, I anticipate no disappointments. Not interested in fucking another man.

Male perspective using dildos and strapons.

Definitely girth, takes a while to getb worked up to the bigger sizes.

I like thick dildos up my bum. Nothing like submitting to a wide, thick head forcing my hole open without mercy. A small tip with a winding shaft that grows bigger around is fun to. Better if they are ridged or bumpy, Nine inches long is okay, but I want at least eleven inches or more up me slapping around.

I like thick dildos up my bum. Nothing like submitting to a wide, thick head forcing my hole open without mercy. A small tip with a winding shaft is fun to. Better if they are ridged or bumpy, Nine inches is long okay, but I want at least eleven inches or more up me slapping around.

@Bad_Princess Like your style! 😜😋😉

@Bad_Princess Greedy girl!

Most ever used was 2” diameter. After I relaxed that was comfotable (been awhile). Depth was 7”. Prefer the stretch and stimulation at the anus if ribbed or nubbed with something a bit smaller versus deep penetration. W

When it comes to toys I like to play large and my preference changes with my mood.

I love my wide toys when I want to feel stretched and being held open. When I move it shifts and rubs and feels great. I have some large plugs and dildos for those days.

I love the feeling of being filled up and is probably why I enjoy enemas. It's also why I like long toys when I want that full heavy feeling inside me. When going deep it's the knowing of how much is inside me that excites me. I have a 3ft colon snake for those days (my record is 2 ft so far).

On days where I want both I have a 1 ft long almost 3 inch wide flexible dildo that satisfies both cravings.

Prefer thick over long: both for penises and toys.

In my case 14 cm, but wide, feels much better, than 22 cm, but relatively thin. The same goes for toys: fucking myself with 14x5.5 cm plug is much more pleasurable than 19x4.3 cm dildo

Girth, without question is more important. All the sensation and pain is within the entrance and in the anal canal. You need the pain. That’s where the pleasure it.

It may be different for men. Massaging the prostate is probably where the pleasure is.

In a perfect world, I think for a man, bother are important.

Woman, we don’t care about length in the ass.

Sometimes one sometimes the other ideal would be both. My maximum size limits are a lot smaller than most of the sizes I read about in Zity.

I prefer length & am working on girth can take 18" long 2" thick dildos happily. But I like to work up to that with thinner ones.

For me it's all about length. A long slender cock shape is easier to enjoy as opposed to a thick monster cock. Unless of course pain is your thing

Thin, short no problem but not very interesting.

Normal, normal sure, bring it.

Normal, long, pound me till I faint. There's something about those neverending strokes that ...

Long, thick, I've turned these down but in a trusting enough relationship I'd be eager to work up to it.

As I've mentioned in the past, I enjoy both stretching and depth play. I tend to enjoy girth more when the depth/length is not so great. So, for a 2 1/2" to 3" girth, I'll not want to go any deeper than probably 16" -18". I've had my 1" snake in over 36". So, that makes for different preferences with pegging and hand-operated dildo.

For pegging, the sweet spot is around 1.5" X 16" or so. That's not my max, but it allows for repeated strokes from hammering hips without hurting anything.

For a good dildo session, bring it on and let's see what fits. Sometimes the depth won't be there and sometimes the stretch won't work like it did last time. And sometimes it'll stretch oh so easy and the depth will be bottomless. It's all good, clean fun. Enjoy the moment.

ldb

Length for me and lots of lube. I like to feel totally dominated which is how I used to feel when he was very deeply inside me.

I love the width I just want to go wider and wider. I also enjoy a good deep thrusting 8 or 10 inches deep.

With width i was aiming for 4 inches, but mistress has decided she want total ruin and cuntification and thinks 4.72 inches or 120 mm is a better goal. I’m a bit nervous about that but if I can get to 4 what’s another .72

A thick penis requires more time to open butthole and prepare for it. Both are good. I'd like to learn how to take a penis of any size easily and at any time soon.

As one who absolutely loves taking it up the hiney hole, I am most satisfied with a cock/dildo length of 6 or 7 inches and a width of 1.5 to 1.75 inches — kind of “average” dimensions, I guess, for something invading one’s hiney hole. I want my anal fucking experiences to feel great…be pleasant…comfortable and erotic. Personally, I don’t see how it could be safe, comfortable or erotic when jamming a 4 inch wide dildo/plug up my hole! Recently, right here on Zity, I read of a member who was recovering from surgery to repair their split apart anus/rectum from trying to set the “Olympic World Record” with ultra wide dildo insertions. Was it worth it? Personally, I would have been very embarrassed trying to explain this injury to the doctors at the ER!!!

Believe me. Speaking from experience….. A normal sized dildo (or penis), working in/out of your hiney hole, WILL provide you will incredible joy and comfort!

I like both!

However, for me it depends more on the connection I have with the owner of the cock and how they use it.

Definitely girth

Well... I love thickness but plenty of good lube is important. And length is good too... can't we have both?

Average girth or lower is best for me. I've never had problems with anyone's length. Too much girth and you know it for the rest of the day especially if he goes to town on my ass.

For me the best pleasure is the gentle rubbing or thrust of the penis on my prostate. Takes the right top and the right motion to continuously rub it.

Same rules apply for oral, can deep throat length, gets uncomfortable on the jaw to open up so.wide for girthy penis.

I do a prep about 10am I start with a wash out I use a 30-inch colon tube I got on Amazon kinda stiff so it does not kink I slowly go in and I can feel it going thru my Anal Canal and then thru the sigmoid and descending I am pretty sure it goes to Transverse I can feel it as it the trip I if I leave there I a few mins I feel the pressure building I do this a couple of times until is clear ..My wife gloves up the hand to the elbow she uses 6 inch injector full of KY jelly then she starts with fingers and slowly going to 2 and 3 and hand that is the best part feels so good slow until she at the elbow I have just stop and sit there it just feels so good sometimes I pop sometimes it last longer we been doing this the same way for about 20 years good luck (stay safe and CLEAN )