Men: Masturbate 21x per Month

21X a month? That is minimum to say the least.

Frankly I'm good with that. 21 is my lucky number!

Having just turned 65 I reckon I'm still good for around thirty a month - small beer compared to when I was a teenager & knocked out at least three a day every day! Should keep me going for a while. (Random thought I wonder how many buckets or maybe oil drums all that semen would fill? Might try to work it out later....

Talking of maths I noticed an earlier contributor who wondered what to do on the other 19 days a month. 21 + 19 = 40??? Forty days hath September, April, June & no wonder!

In my mid-60s and I masturbate pretty much every day. The only thing stopping me from being a daily masturbater is that sometimes I just do not have the time. I have noticed that over the years it takes me longer to ejaculate and I do not ejaculate nearly as much as in my youth but such is the price of getting older, I guess. I have seen other articles about this relationship between frequency of ejaculation and prostate cancer. The flushing out toxins from the prostate gland seems to make sense.

Ok Here's a guesstimate further to my last. Let's say 7ml of semen per ejaculation on average twice a day x 365 = 5.1 liters per annum. Multiplied by being sexually active for 52 years = 265 liters divided by 4.5 to give 59 Imperial gallons. Now even if I've overestimated by 25% that's still a whole oil drum full of spunk (& a hell of a lot of fun!)

@Tighty_Whiteis_Now

I have seen other articles about this relationship between frequency of ejaculation and prostate cancer. The flushing out toxins from the prostate gland seems to make sense.

Some believe there are health benefits to prostate massage. As someone who always enjoyed prostate massage, I hope that's true.

I do, every night. 😜😉

@Bobbee Re: Prostate massage - I hope you are right - either way we've had a lot of fun doing it or getting it done!

21xMonth - I might actually be doing that... I would do it every day and even though my gal is okay with me doing it; I need to have the privacy to do so....

When I was young and nice and strong,

I liked to do it hard and long.

But now I'm old and getting grey,

I only do it twice a day.

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I would definitely avoid this. My wife expects quasi daily intercourse, and if I jack off I have trouble performing my marital duties for some hours.

Ok, I guess I’m safe because I do reach the minimum of 21 times per month on average. 🤞🏻 But I also agree with @agracier that refraining from ejaculation (not masturbation or other sexual activities) for some time, what I also regularly practice, makes me feel more stable, energetic, focused with a positive mild state of continuous arousal.

Only 21 times a month? Hmmm I'm not so sure I don't exceed that even now. Depends on how horny I'm feeling. Going back to my late teens I could probably have pinched that number out in 3/4 days hehehehe. I'm sure it's good for you, great stress reliever, exercises the mind with all those wonderful fantasies, builds those wrist muscles which is good for using the tin opener and TV remote, keeps that prostate in great working order and if solo can give hours (well minutes anyway) of excitement! What's not to like?

I've got some catching up to do. LOL!

In my teens and 20s, I did it more than 21 times a month, sometimes twice a day, on rare occasions three times (when watching a porn video). As I got into my 40s, 50s and now 60, don't do it as often. Will do it for several days in a row sometimes and then go 1-2 weeks without doing it. Depends on how horny I am and how much sex I'm getting. Probably average about 8-10 times a month.

When I was younger, 21x per month was achieved and usually exceeded. Now probably 21x per year. Sucks getting older but fortunately everything still works

There are some months I'll reach this number in a week

LOL there are some months I'll reach this number in a year!

Possible

Even in my mid 50’s, I usually do it every morning, sometimes twice (once before getting out of bed and once again before I get in the shower).

Maybe I will keep a count during the month of March.

I would guess that I easily do it 25+ times per month.

I am 62 and exceed 21 times per month with either my lovely or myself and I just had my psa tested, 1.8! Healthy!

Damn, I gotta step up me game!

Gotta take a page from the ladies' books: If I don't love myself why would others?

I get the Tantric thing, but really love the clarity and focus after a good bout.

At the age of 60, I usually ejaculate every day, give or take. When I was young and single, I would masturbate twice a day in bed before falling asleep and before getting up in the morning.

I also wanted to add that being able to satisfy yourself sexually avoids a lot of problems, such as gold diggers, STDs, sex drive incompatibility with partners, arrests for solicitation etc. My most intense orgasms have come from lengthy masturbation sessions.

If I do abstain for a few days, I find myself getting spontaneous erections and my mind wandering to sexual matters.