Permanent anal stretching

Many are into anal stretching and even fisting.

Now, the question is how lasting are effects of such play.

I do like to indulge in anal play and some stretching. I cannot use poppers, so all is done naturally. And there are definitely lasting effects. I'm much more looser than before, and even taking a two and half years break had not made any difference.

Has anyone else noticed same? And what is the extent of permanent stretching?

Interesting question but I have been stretching my ass for many years and even though able to take bigger and bigger things, my ass snaps back to factory specs. I am now going through a small toy phase and able to hold them is easily. I believe what happens is like a gymnast stretching their muscles, as long as you don’t actually tear someone down there all you are doing is giving you ass the ability to relax and open up. There is also the mental aspect of knowing how much can actually take. There is a world of wonderful sensations down there so just relax and enjoy the journey. Just don’t go too fast and hurt yourself

@Easy Entry, ‘factory specs’. Love that terminology! OEM!

I'm pretty well versed in this department and can confirm good muscle memory :-)

@EasyEntry I am not worried, at least not yet, about being able to keep things closed. No problems with that, unless it's well over 3qts enema.

What got me worried is that the back entrance became much more loose. At the very beginnings a small butt plug, 1.2" wide, was a stretch and medium, 1.5" was a pain to go in and even more to take it out. But then, after a while medium was going in with no problems and I could actually push it out. And the trend was progressing.

Then I had almost 2 and half year break with no anal activity at all. And despite what many say, I had not became tighter at all.

Now, if I am standing, I have to really clench my ass hard to keep any plug smaller than 2" in, cannot really hold metal plugs. And put it bluntly, I do not feel much with smaller cocks or dildos.

I went through a 2-3 week break from plugging a couple of months ago. Things were definitely tighter back there when my plug returne. I feel it’s just now getting to the same relaxation I had before the break.

So I've been using a large anal plug almost every day for about 1 year and I can already feel my ass a little loose.

I have loved anal play forever... my wife used to insert large cucumbers almost weekly as I masturbated. She would never try her fist.. not even her fingers.. she said she hated how it felt to be inside my ass. No matter how much I told her I loved it, and loved her for "doing me", eventually over the years she just stopped being so helpful. Around 15 years ago after studying anal fisting porn and avidly reading stories here on Zity.. I finally found a massage therapist who would finger and fist me to happy ending - I saw her 4-5 times a year. Sadly she's no longer around, but I've found 2 Asian Massage Parlors where the ladies readily fist me no questions asked. I now see one of them 2-3 times a month.

As to the question of permanent stretching I've never worn buttplugs, but I believe its happening to me especially over last 3 years just from fisting. After a fisting happy ending I notice anal looseness for a few days and I seem to always have skidmarks in my shorts no matter how well I wipe, scrub and wash. I can clean up at night before bed and by morning I'll be somewhat dirty again.. as if I'm constantly leaking just a bit. I now wash myself clean after every time on the toilet. That's why I mentioned in a recent post that the Korean massage lady always cleans my crack and hole with wipes and comments on whether I was dirty or "not so much this time". We've talked about it and she understands and admits she's partly to blame for my situation. But so far I don't plan on foregoing any visits with her.

After well over 40 years of anal play I can still only take 1.5" dia & that is quite uncomfortable - I much prefer 1.25" which makes me feel 'full' & stimulated without pain. I'm not the biggest fan of fisting or massive anal dildos etc but have seen a fair bit of porn of this kind. I have often wondered if the recipients have persistent prolapses or if they can even go about their daily lives without an involuntary bowel movement from time to time. I wonder if someone can give us a qualified medical opinion on this? I do know that lots of materials can be stretched up to an 'elastic limit' & then return to normal but once that limit is exceeded a certain amount of 'permanent set' will take place preventing return to their former shape - is this true of muscle? I await with interest.

After all the stretching and insertions, I'd say yes.

Been getting fisted for 35 years I can take up 3.5 inch with no problem. Wife sticks her arm in up to the elbow sometimes. I have just stick in and sit there. It feels so good I can feel her up by my ribs. And have had no problems. I've went to the butt doctor. He did a colonoscopy said everything looks fine. So have fun and use lots of lube. Start slow and small. Every 6 months go a little bigger. Enjoy, life is short. I just turned 68 a few months ago.

The question to ask is do you have any problems with continence. If you can hold on to your stool and gas then your anus can tighten down just fine, and a likely explanation is that you are better at relaxing your anus when you want to.

I have been playing for over 7 years with big toys. I cant say i'm permanently stretched but the muscle is less tensed. I don't need so much foreplay to get is ready for the big stuff. So i guess the muscle is more relaxed, but not to a point where I don't have control over it anymore. I like it this way 😃

I’m definitely easier to get into than I was many years ago as I’ve increased the stretch of my play.

It’s clear my ass, our asses are different. Just look at the tight pucker of a girl in porn who doesn’t do anal and compare it with your own or of those of guys who enjoy big anal play. It’s quite different.

This is also clear as once clean and lubed I can start with biiig toys. This wasn’t the case a few years ago so my butt has definitely changed.

Nonetheless, clean up, toilet visits, being out and about have not posed a problem for me nor most who do this.

The one time I goofed was trusting a big fart a few hours after a fairly intense session. It bought out lube and mucus as the body had been resetting a few hours and in the moment I forgot.

Oopsie.

But as I’m 56 and have been playing up there since I was a kid, I think one untrustworthy fart isn’t bad.

I remember my first butt plug, measuring 1 3/4 inches wide and 6 inches long, which I tried to insert into my ass. This was more than twenty years ago.

It was difficult and even a little painful, but desire prevailed and I was able to take her.

Although I did damage my hole a little.

Now I can easily accept a 3.7 x 9 inch butt plug.

All functions of my anus are normal.

After many years of inserting conventional and numerous large unconventional objects into my hole, I definitely do notice a loosening.

In the last couple of years, I have stopped using very large objects. Nothing bigger than a penis size goes in now because I still want to accommodate a friendly dick if it shows up.

I enjoy large toys also and have done for almost 20 years. I haven't noticed a loosening. Some days I am only able to use my smallest toy comfortably, other times I can manage my largest without issue or working up to it.

What I have noticed is I can relax to accommodate larger toys more quickly. I've considered it as developing more control of a muscle as I've spent years learning to relax it and gaining more control. The muscle still works, and small plugs still stay in place without problem, I imagine if it were loose smaller plugs would need help to stay in.

So yes large toys go in easier most the time but this may be because I am relaxing to accept it instead of permanently stretched. And is it for toys the diameter of my forearm.

However all bodies are different and your milage my vary ;-)

I’ve also been doing this for a bit

Maybe close to a year now

Started small with multiple glycerin suppositories then just found other things but not loose at all as a matter of fact if I indulge 2 days in a row my butt gets tighter and takes longer to insert the same size as the day before

Hopefully that doesn’t change lol