How does your partner spank you?

My wife who wears the trousers in our marriage spanks me as part of our FLR contract. I always have to be naked at the start and she bends me over the breakfast bar and uses her wooden paddle. Sometimes she spanks me outside on the farm using the same paddle but she does have a smaller paddle that she keeps in the car for those impromptu occasions when formal discipline cannot be provided.

My dear friend Gerry whom I occasionally see likes to spank me restrained on the spanking bench he has in his study. All very formal when he straps me on the bench and then pulls my shorts and Yfronts down and off thereby allowing him free access to my bottom.

My wife spanks me every Sunday evening as a reminder and then as and when needed.

Last night we were having a small disagreement, which she ended by getting the paddle out. I then stripped naked and Lent over the kitchen unit. She told me off for swearing at her and then gave me 50 spanks. I was told I would be spanked again this morning as a reminder of who is in charge.

This morning nothing happened so I went upstairs as I work from home. Then 30 mins ago my mother in law arrived and I was called down stairs. She was sat in the kitchen on a chair. I was put over her lap and she spanked me with a hairbrush for 5 mins.

I am now sat upstairs, with a red hot bottom.

I won't argue again.

I lie across the bed in position and ask for it. If he is willing, he may choose the tool sometimes - and sometimes he will ask which one - it is most usually a flog. Sometimes, it’s his bare/open hand. Every now and then, it might be the flat/bank side of a brush.

Then, he will administer. He takes it slow.

It’s not about punishment or power exchange, and he is not into D/s, nor is he a sadist. He does not enjoy it; as such, he is careful and will not persist much longer after I redden or a welt is drawn. He obliges me, though… because I asked.

Probably, of the things that I ask for that he does not enjoy, spanking is the thing that he is most willing to indulge me doing. It requires no pretense, no script, etc.

Fru17gum Should happen to ME! But not likely as we are both in our 70's 😢!

My wife started spanking me when I brought home a paddle and gave it to her, about 1974!

Now always with a bath brush! BAREof course! They have been both for fore play and discipline!

The longest and most severe spankings, being restrained as she sat on my back were ones that I LOVED /hated/Loved the most afterwards! Every time I thought about them, for years, I would need to masterbate!

Most usually, naked before bed. As I am getting my sleep pants on, she pushes me down onto the bed and holds me with one hand and paddles my naughty bare bottom with the other. The spanks are any where from fifty to 100 smacks on my cheeks and sit spots. By the time she is done, my tush is red and sore and I am sniffling almost crying. My sleep pants are then pulled up to keep the heat in while I sleep on my tummy.

Most of our long play sessions start with me getting a couple of enemas, I then ask my wife if see will spank me and she say sure go get the paddle and bend over. Most of the time I am bent over with my hands on my knees or grabbing my ankles and on several occasions I will go across lap, the implements are a heart shaped paddle, and two longer wooden paddles one with holes and one without, normally get 20 swats except for birthdays I get 60 plus. We are both completely naked.