My father's penis

I've hesitated to post this but zity is a place where people are for the most part, intelligent and respectful in their posts.

I've only recently been able to talk about this but I've had an obsession since I was a pre-teen with my father's penis. Yes, you heard that correctly: My. Father's. Penis.

I was not from a family where nudity was the norm but on the rare occasions where I saw my father naked, I was immediately drawn to his genitals. The first time I saw him naked, I was a young boy and he was coming out of the shower to the bedroom. I was struck immediately at how large his penis was compared to mine which was, as pre-puberty boys are, miniscule. But, it was also the crown of bright red pubic hair that he had compared to the lack of hair that I had which I didn't understand at the time that fascinated me.

Later on when puberty started to happen, I tried a little harder to catch a look at him at the urinals or to be near the bathroom when he was showering. Alas, as I became fascinated with my own body, I just didn't measure up to my father in regards to the size of his penis, the attractiveness of his penis and the unforgettable crown of bright orange pubic hair encircling it and his large, pink testicles.

I'm probably a crazy anomaly but if any one else has had an obsession with their father's penis and would like to share, I'm up for it. If you'd rather private chat, I completely understand.

Hi, yes in my very early teens i thought my dads penis was enormous compared to mine, as we took showers togather to conserve water at a small cottage during summer vacation,however when he would soap me up i would get a hardon that would match the length of his penis and that made me proud!

I completely understand. My dad was a very hairy man, and I didn't get hairy until I was in my thirties. I remember being a kid, just staring in awe at his naked body. I was just shocked at how hairy his bush was. Then when I became a teenager, I even kind of tried to show off my bush every now and then. I don't even know why, but it felt right.

@codjer that's really cool that you had the opportunity to shower with your father at that age of development and both of you were (I guess) comfortable with your spontaneous erections in the shower.

@DomGreekChi I can relate. The first time I saw my father's naked body was when he was coming out of the shower, going to the bedroom to get dressed. I was very young at the time and totally clueless about what a naked man looked like. Like you, I was totally in awe with the abundance of hair he had surrounding his long, amazing penis. That fascination rev'd up several years later as I started to sprout my own pubic hair and develop into a young man.

In my pre-college-age years, I lived in constant fear of my father's penis. I always avoided taking a piss with him in the men's room at the adjoining urinal. It was always pure horror. Even after puberty I felt inadequate. I had never seen him in the nude, or with an erection. When I finally packed off for college, I heaved a huge sigh of relief. For many years I was sheltered from having to see any other male's penis, being entirely unathletic.

Seeing him shake that long wang after a piss out on the farm is, several months after his death, a still-indelible image.

"In my pre-college-age years, I lived in constant fear of my father's penis."

This is how every good sci-fi horror movie starts. Keep it up!

I just posted about my grandfather. I kind of forgot about his dick to be honest. He had to use intermittent catheters, and I remember I was showering in his bathroom one morning, and when I came out he was sliding one in so he could take a piss. I remember thinking his soft dick was so ridiculously long. I was probably 14 or 15 at the time. And I just remember him holding his dick with one hand and sliding it in with the other, and his dick was significantly longer flaccid than his fingers wrapped around it. That image is kind of stuck in my head.

I saw my dad's penis when I was a kid, it obviously looked big to me, but I never got fixated on it. Years later, I saw a photo where he was naked, taken on a nudist beach. It was my mother who told me where it was hidden and I looked at it several times.

Hello,

I think your story about your childhood and upbringing is very cute. I don't know what it is about penises that makes them so interesting and arouses curiosity even when you are very young. I grew up in a nudist home, me and my dad. For me it was not a sensation to see his penis, of course, there was the same curiosity that you describe. I think it's natural.

What made me so fascinated by my father's penis was that it could change shape and size…

This is on point, with a startling, but true, twist. When very young, it was not unusual for me to see my father’s penis. As I got older, that was not the case.

In my recollections, I remembered my father’s penis as much larger than mine. Somewhere, I read something to the effect that boy’s often felt inferior to their fathers, because in their memories they recalled their father’s adult penis and compared it to their own immature penis. That made sense, and I pretty much accepted that as applying in my case.

Many years passed, and while he was in the hospital, just before he died, I inadvertently saw his flaccid penis. OMG, I had never seen another penis that was even close to the size of his! I must have inherited my penis from my mother!

Here is the bizarre twist. Some while after my father’s death, I was talking to the funeral director, who had handled my father’s funeral, and whom I knew socially. There was a little alcohol involved. He said, “you know, your father was a really big man.” I said, “nah, he was only about 5’8” and weighed less than 150 pounds.” He replied, and it was clear what he meant, “no, I mean he was a really big MAN!”

I was always in admiration of my father's penis. My parents divorced when I was young. I spent weekends with my dad and we shared a common bath. In his younger days, my father was an athlete; therefore, male/male nudity was common place. Bathroom and casual nudity between us was also common and never frowned upon or discouraged. This male bonding and openness taught me to be comfortable in my own skin. It also made me comfortable in a lockerroom setting.

I entered puberty early and developed rather quickly. I had full bush by the end of the 6th grade. My legs were also hair covered and pit hair was apparent as well.

My father and I are both larger than average in penis size. We also share about the same body hair distribution. Growing up I wanted to be hung and hairy just like him!

My only surprise about my father's penis, when I was very young and he was teaching me how to shower, was about hair. I don't remember him being particularly large (bigger than mine as a kid, for sure) but it was dark and hairy.

I think it's totally normal for a boy to be fascinated by his father's penis, if for no other reason, the abundance of pubic hair which boys of course do not yet have. When I started to go through puberty, I often wondered if I would ever catch up to what my father had.

I have always admired/been envious of my father's penis as long as I can remember. His penis is much bigger than mine in length and girth and his testicles also look much bigger than mine. My father is circumcised, whereas I am uncircumcised, so I was fascinated by the difference when I was younger.

I was totally infatuated with my dads penis probably for the same reason @NerdyEnglishLad mentioned. my dad is circumcised and i am uncut. i didnt understand why my penis didnt look like his. his cock looked really sexy to me and i would practically stare at his cock when we were naked together which he obviously noticed and would laugh and say "you like to look"

there were times when we would piss together or in front of each other. everything was pretty open, he has seen me masturbating i have seen him masturbating. it was all quite normal

I think it is pretty normal for young boys to have a look at your fathers dick. Like this is what a man looks like

My father would have been the first adult males dick I saw. I was in awe of the really big textured cock head he had. I though wow this is what a man looks like and also the forrest of dark pubes.

Differing from some of the posts both my father and i are circumcised.

Unfortunately, my father was never in my life, so I didn't have any opportunity to compare my penis with his 😢. However, I did once see my grandfather's and can understand the curiosity with another adult male penis.

I was fortunate in that my father was not at all body shy. He wasn't a nudist, but to be nude in an appropriate setting did not bother him at all. Probably the result of growing up in a large family and being in the Army during WW2.

Like some have noted, I was put in the shower at a young age so he could show me the proper way to shower and of course his hairy penis was an obvious difference between us. I suppose I was only supposed to shower with him a few times but I really liked showering with my dad, for a variety of reasons, and I frequently showered with him. This continued after puberty set in and I liked letting him see that my penis was growing and getting hairy like his. Regular shower with dad continued all through high school and we saw each other's penis on an almost daily basis.

@Spengle Do you know why your father was circumcised?

Not so much about my own dad’s penis, probably because I saw it way too often (still do).

However, my friends dad’s penises, that’s a different story. Lol. Not only penises, also just grown male bodies of other adults.

Is it not simply the case that rather than some father obsession, all males (& females) are just curious about others' genitals in general, especially more grown/adult versions, and so they peek whenever they can? For a curious young boy, their father's are likely to be the most available, just as (I assume) young girls compare their own young breasts to their mother's more developed ones?

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I was fascinated with my father's body (and penis) but also had mixed feelings. I remember wanting to get big, too, but I wasn't sure about getting all hairy. And his penis, while interesting to me, was also kind of weird, like veiny and dark in color compared to mine at the time.

I think it's totally fine for a boy to be fixated on his father's penis - I definitely was. My dad did not run around the house casually naked. We were a pretty conservative family but, on occasion, I did see him naked and yes, I found his body to be quite interesting compared to mine at the time.

I occasionally saw him naked and at the time thought his penis was enormous.

I never remember seeing my father's penis, and was shocked when he got circumcised when he was in his fifties. I was circumcised at birth so I always figured he was also. While he was in recovery he showed me his balls that were swollen and looked like elephant balls. Still didn't see his penis it was all bandaged up.

My boys have seen mine because we would shower together sometimes until they were around eight. I think my youngest asked why mine was so big, I just told him he would be to when he got older.

I have seen my father's penis many times, getting naked with it is no problem. His penis is average size and uncircumcised like all my brothers' unlike me.

Even my children have seen us naked many times or shared a shower.

Did you ever ask your dad what made his penis change its shape and size @MoaEnemaLove?

Interesting topic. It happened to me when I was 10. Dad took me to the so called city banya. It was a place roughly resembling ancient Roman baths with sauna where people washed themselves and socialise. Of course all were naked. I was nervous when we were approaching banya as I had never seen a naked adult before. And once we were there I immediately was shocked by the view of many naked adult men, including my dad. The sizes of their penises and pubic hair was not what i expected to see. At that time i thought it was quite embarrassing to have a large penis.