Why do guys wear cages

I find the sight of a cock in a cage the ugliest thing…

What is the meaning of wearing a cage ? I know it’s like a prison type of thing , anything else ?

In the grand scheme of things, what you find ugly or attractive is pretty meaningless. A cock in a cage/chastity device may float your balls or not, nothing changes the fact that many men do like that.

Now, I don't want to chastitysplain something I know next to nothing about, but it can at times have something to do with humiliation, at other times with the relinquishing of control to someone, etc.

Let's wait for the men and woman who are into it to share their point of view with the crowd!

I liked putting my sub in his cage because his cock and balls looked so uncomfortable, when hugely erect, in it. All tight and red, trying so hard to escape through the openings.

Personally I like wearing one because I enjoy (love) surrendering power to my wife. When I'm locked up I'm quite focused on her needs and wants and the cage is almost constantly edging me because I can't stop thinking about it.

Though I don't like it being or looking uncomfortable so I seek out comfortable cages that are also effective.

Cages are something from the medevial ages where fathers would have their young sons caged to keep them from masturbating while dad was off to the crusades! They wanted to keep their sons pure and save their sperm for marrige and babies.

I used to cum very quickly and found that a silicone chastity cage works well to help slow down the process. Strangely enough my sexual partners also like seeing me with it on. I do not like the metal cages.

They are used often enough in sissification imagery. The goal is often to suppress the masculinity of the person in question and wearing a penis or chastity cage/device often constrains the size of the male organs making the body look more sissified or feminized.

For me, it's not really the cage, but the energy and intent behind the cage. i have 7 cages (i think?). I've tried all of them on, but i don't wear them and don't cage myself. For me, like 'toys,' they are an implement or tool for a Man (in my case) to use to express said "energy and intent." Agracier identified some things that would 'penetrate' and 'mind fuck' me if a Man was feeling it and using a cage with me for that purpose. But He has to be "feeling it," the act or device alone doesn't carry any power with me. Really it's the lust of the Man through it that i am connecting to and feeling.

Semen retention. Which is a very healthy practice is not something taught at school, but should be. Chastity devices were first invented for women so they couldn't cheat while hubby was off on a crusade pillaging & raping other men's wives. Monastic orders were probably next, all hair shirts & discomfort around the nether regions. Try not to ejaculate from ones cock for a month assplay is fine. It is difficult but not impossible. See how you feel.

Chastity devices were first invented for women so they couldn't cheat while hubby was off on a crusade pillaging & raping other men's wives.

Going off on a crusade usually involved being a few years away from home. So if locked up with a chastity device, in a few months time at most, she develops all kinds of urinary infections and heavens knows what else around the anus. Imagine developing hemorrhoids. If Milady even survived, her nether regions would look worse than those of the local lepers.

The Crusader, medieval stuff is just overblown 19th century romanticism with a sexual tint.

That said, Tantic yoga is based on the principle of retaining the life essence, often interpreted as being semen, so semen retention is considered healthy in some schools of thought. During the Interbellum, sterilization (of men mainly) was propagated by some as a method of being healthier and prolonging one's lifespan.

General Ripper had some thoughts on this as well, but he went a little far around the deep deep end with his notions on the subject ... ha ha

I sometimes play with chastity during playtime at home. For me it’s simply another experience for my body and can add to the fun during anal play by keeping my hands off my penis. It concentrates me on my sensations in my butt and gut and leaves my balls exposed, too.

I’m not in a dom:sub relationship where chastity play of course takes on a very different role, here I have no experience, perhaps other members of the community could comment on theirs.

I agree. I'm not into it but I guess cucks would be.

Is it just me or does it seem like men wearing chastity cages now seems to be the trendy thing to do? I cannot recall them ever being as popular before as they seem to be now for gay, straight, and bi men. Although I personally don't particularly like them nor do I think that they even look good on men ( I would personally rather see the penis clearly), I think that everyone is entitled to have their own personal fetishes, and I won't criticize anyone for any fetish they have. Not every fetish has to be for everyone. In fact, I have dated several men in recent years who liked wearing chastity cages. I had asked all of them why they liked wearing cages, and the answers were as varied and different as the men themselves. A few of the answers I got from them were that they liked how it felt, it made them feel submissive, they were trying to build up testosterone levels, they liked how it looked, it made them feel owned, it made them feel monogamous, they liked the lack of control it made them feel, it helped them to focus on things other than sex better, and the list of their reasons just went on and on. Obviously, a chastity cage isn't for everyone, but those who like the cages seem to really like them a lot.

I always assumed it was some sort of cuckolding thing or male chastity thing inflicted by dominant partners.

For fashion? This is a new thing to me. I could understand a cod piece but locking it up? It sure does not convey virility to me.

I always assumed it was some sort of cuckolding thing or male chastity thing inflicted by dominant partners.

Wearing a male chastity cage can feel pleasant when it is the right size and fit. I feels as if the penis is being held tight or fondled, admittedly not by a hand, but still in a sexual manner. Walking around with one, when naked causes the cage to move around and pressure various parts of the penis in a subtle manner. When worn under clothing, the added confinement of clothing adds to the pressure and friction.

Wearing a cage, aside from the psychological satisfaction of the symbolism or relationship dynamic it carries and imparts, can be a purely physical stimulation of the male genitals, once again, depending on what kind of cage and the size and fit.

For instance there are cages that include a (short) urethral sound which must surely impart a special stimulation. There are other types that are designed to push the penis back up into the abdomen, supposedly to help shrink the size of the organ over time. That too must give a different kind of physical stimulation.

I'd say that ultimately at present, wearing a chastity cage on males, is a way to heighten sexual awareness and feelings, rather than to suppress a person's sexuality or horniness. Just like in medfet situations where examining genitals without going further into full out sexual play can be satisfying and arousing, so the same with wearing a chastity cage. It's just another form of restrained sexual play that is carried out long term.

btw: I've often wondered what the reaction would be if a male wore (a flesh colored) chastity cage at a nudist beach. I've seen enough guys wearing some sort of discrete penis jewellery at nude beaches, but no chastity cage - yet.

I wear one from time to time to stop me from getting a hardon too quickly. Its almost a punishment from a partner. I use the silicone cages which are a bit less painful.

I wear a chatitsy cage all the time I being in my cage for over a year now

My rhought is wearing a cage is a submissive thing. However I have no experience wearing one and if some feel it’s pleasuarable, then it is to them., but not something I’m interested in experimenting with.

I purchased a cock cage and asked my wife to lock me up when she dates other men, The eroticism of her having sex with someone else Is ultra stimulating for me. I masterbated when she was on a date or had a guy over to our house. I felt I was out of control, hence the introduction of a cock cage.

The dynamics of our relationship changed after that, she was a submissive, but she responded to the power she had over me brought out her Dominate side. For me I became more submissive, which made me be more aware of her needs. So if she wants to date the cage foes on. I still get the overwhelming feelings of eroticism, I no longer masterbate.

Semen retention. Which is a very healthy practice is not something taught at school, but should be.

What are the claimed health benefits? Studies seem to indicate it would increase the risk of prostate cancer.

Semen retention.

What are the claimed health benefits? Studies seem to indicate it would increase the risk of prostate cancer.

It's an old practice affiliated to Tantric Yoga and some fringe beliefs derived from Eastern mystic stuff that were popular in the 1920-30s. And still now.

The underlaying thought is that semen contains a life essence and that depletion or semen release also depletes the whole (male) body. Hence semen retention and even sterilization being encouraged in those circles. This probably comes from observing that men become tired, exhausted and good for little after ejaculation. Linking this observation to losing a Life Essence is of course typical confused mystical thinking.

I know people and family members who are into this sort of stuff (sadly). Cult leaders who get people to engage in this, can so easily exert pressure and control by permitting or not permitting semen release in followers. Crazy stuff. Also do a comparison with wacky gen. D. Ripper in 'Dr. Strangelove' (POE=purity of essence ... ha ha ).

I find the sight of a cock in a cage the ugliest thing…

Well, this is in the eye of the beholder. I could also argue that an erect penis in plain view is obscene.

Semen retention

Men not necessarily wear chastity devices for the purpose of semen retention. Men can reach orgasm and ejaculate without having an erection and without stimulation of the penis.