Having sex in front of your friends or housemates, OR them having sex in front of you.

Has anyone here been on that situation? Share the dirty details!

Back when I was a kid I spied on my cousin having sex with his girlfriend.

Then, in my adult life:

I watched a friend of mine having sex with his girfriend in the street.

I watched a domme friend from the BDSM scene having sex with her submissive, tied-up in shibari.

I have spied on my stepdaughter having sex with her boyfriend.

A day later (after the first time spying on my stepdaughter), I watched my wife having sex with a female friend of hers, early in our relationship.

Well, I’ve been at parties where things got pretty wild, and some folks were just doing their thing without caring who was around. If you’re into that kinda scene, you might wanna check out https://tosituhma.com/. It’s a chill spot where people are on the same page about stuff like that, so there’s no weirdness or pressure.

I’m not an exhibitionist when it comes to sex, I very much enjoy the privacy and the intimacy of just me and my partner. It’s the same reason I have never enjoyed sex with multiple partners (three ways, double teamed, etc), despite kind of wanting to enjoy it…

Voyeurism however I am ok with and I have watched people having sex and enjoyed it.

As an adult, I’ve been to a swinger party where there was sexual activity going on. As a teen I’ve been to a ‘makeout party’ where the lights were shut off and people did stuff. I honestly didn’t love either, which surprised me.

At a hosted BDSM play party a couple I did not know were going at it fast and furious in one of the smaller bedrooms. He was pounding her from behind, making a lot of noise slapping her upturned butt and she was loudly moaning. I stopped to watch for a moment and an acquaintance walked by. He stopped, I shook my head in disapproval. He nodded at the breach of manners then said, “We’d do it to if we could.”

At a subsequent party, in the same room, I ended up going down on my partner, giving her a nice orgasm. While I was tidying up my face in the adjacent bathroom a female friend came in, and observing what I was doing, asked if I just ate out my partner. I admitted that I had, which impressed her so much that at the end of the evening as everyone was leaving she pointed me out to her date and announced that this was the person who ate out his partner.

Not sex per se, but I did attend one BDSM party when I was in my early 20s. This group had a large house and property kindof back in the woods. I wanted to enjoy it but didn’t. I felt too vulnerable and didn’t really hit it off with anybody. Probably didn’t help that most of the people there were vastly older than me. So, parties aren’t for me. It’s too overwhelming. I have always had a fantasy about being dominated along side 1-2 other subs though. That sounds really fun, but I would have to get to know everyone involved and make sure I felt comfortable with them.

My wife and I were swingers in our 30's. Had sex most times with other women, while the men were fucking my wife. Whether the women were being fucked, or were sucking our cocks, just watching them while doing the same, was unbelievable! A woman's curves and body are made to be looked at, when they are engaged in such pleasing activities. We always had at least one other couple, and many times 3-7 couples, all fucking somebody. Organized orgies were populated with over 100 couples, having sex with others, and generally lasted 2-3 days! At these events, every sex act possible was being performed, either on a stage, or with everybody. When over, few people had the energy to eat food, let alone drive home! Aids stopped everyone!!

I have never been so lucky. The closest thing that I’ve seen, was a large pool party, where several people swam naked. Many of the women had sagging boobs, and big butts. It wasn’t a thrill.

The only time it happened to me, it was my barracks roommate and a chick he brought back to the room. My then girlfriend, now wife, and I were in my bed sleeping until they woke us up but we stayed quiet. They were fairly quiet but occsionally we would hear an ass slap or a drunken "Oh shiiiitt." from my buddy. It was all we could do not to bust out laughing.

I was in a tent with my girlfriend (now wife) and my buddy was in the same tent with his girlfriend (now wife). My wife and I zipped our sleeping bags together. We undressed in the bag and cuddled naked. We got spooning and I fucked her slowly, gently and quietly until came insider her. Our friends might have been doing the same but we heard no noise.

In college living in dorms for 2 years it was difficult not to have sex with one of my roommates or one of my girlfriends roommates somewhere in the room, but I think the most uneasy was when one of my girlfriends and her roommate made bunk beds with the 2 beds and then turned the opposite room into a living room but they hadn't gotten furniture yet and the floor was tile. My girlfriend slept on the bottom bunk and one night we were really late getting in and totally horny and her roommate was sleeping up top and we just went for it and we tried to use a slow rhythm but she started to get excited and just went off. Her roommate didn't say or do anything up top. After I left the next day my girlfriend called me and said her roommate was going to request a new roommate if we ever did that again. Of course we did and she ended up moving to a different dorm.