Walking a tight rope between staying healthy and pushing the boundries

I hope i am not repeating a question already discussed, but i thought i would throw this out as i am constantly feeling on that edge.

Pain/pleasure; stretching but not too far; in control and letting go of control; trusting your partner etc.

As i move deeper into my kink, i also continue asking the question, when is it becoming unsafe.

Not sure i have a complete answer, but let me know what you think.

I'm not sure repeated question but I have a repeated answer . Be aware that there is a line between pleasure and you're body won't go back to “normal”

You have to question , Will you're wife/partner/ buddy who ever you depend on to take you to the edge ,Have the good sense to not take you beyond what is good for you ? Will that Wife/partner still be there for you when you are 70 or 80 . If they used you anally will they change you're diapers when you hit old age????If you are into sounding and or penis modification will they be there in you're old age to change you're catheter ?

I was lucky . I was married to a wonderful woman that was also a nurse and knew when not to go too far . Cancer took her far too soon . We had 34 short years together .

I was lucky . I was married to a wonderful woman that was also a nurse and knew when not to go too far . Cancer took her far too soon . We had 34 short years together .

@nytwatch1 She was vey special. ❤️

I was lucky. I was married to a wonderful woman that was also a nurse and knew when not to go too far. Cancer took her far too soon. We had 34 short years together.

Thank you for your thoughtful and personal response. And so sorry for your loss, and so thankful for your wonderful for you wonderful memories. I have a wonderful partner, but we are both discovering together with as much common sense and little medical understanding, which makes it difficult at times to know when you have crossed the line. Fortunately, i haven't had any knowable issues, but i have to admit, when my body feels out of sorts, i start asking ‘have i gone to far’. I think this why its a tightrope. Part of the pleasure for some of us is this ‘edgy’ extreme - pain, stretching, deep insertions, feeling that sense of ‘being filled up inside' and knowing that we are at the edge.

I love your understanding that at the end of the day, what is your relationship with your partner like, and will he/she/them still be around, no matter what.

Thanks for interacting.

Fisting may be pleasureable, but can be very dangerous. That is one of the things I’ll never do. Please be careful when doing this. Can ruin your life if too extreme

When ones body & mind cannot keep up with ones desires.

Ones health is not a permanent guarantee. So pushing anything too far is not good.