How long does it usually take to stretch a rectum so a fist can go in.

How long does it usually take to stretch a rectum so a fist can go in.

I guess it's different for everyone, it didn't take me long, years but playing with my ass like 1 time per 6 months.

Depends on the anus and the fist. The beauty of the deal is that the practice is fun too. And the final result is wonderful.

I've been working at it for a while now. I can only take about 2.5 round, but trying to work my way up. I get worried about going to fast. Don't want to cause any health problems.

Every anus is different just like every person is different. The anus is a sensitive area of our body. It will stretch butt it will take time to get it to where you need it to be. Use plenty of lube and don't rush it. Like everything else we do, have fun with it.

Why would you want to damage your lower bowel? The dumb things that young people do, will cause permanent damage, or death.

Why would you want to damage your lower bowel? The dumb things that young people do, will cause permanent damage, or death.

The OP who posed the question is a 60+ years young person. 😀.

Your stretching the muscles around the anus - the rectum is large enough to accommodate a fist.

Years. Of patience and trial and error.

My wife has fisted me plenty of times, sometimes nearly to the elbow. No damage. It's awesome!

It will vary from butt hole to butt hole. 😜

Take your time to stretch and get yourself able to take a fist. If it hurts, stop. Don't go too fast or it will not work. Relax to be able to get more into yourself.

The only thing that worked for my ass was dildos of various sizes…. starting with smaller ones and going up in width and length gradually. I also found it helped to insert it before a nap… so it stays there for an hour or so. And no, it didn’t make my anus loose and didn’t contribute to any issues except I am now able to accept thick and long cocks too with no issues. Well, if a cock is extremely thick I do struggle and yes, some semi-pain but it is doable.

Additionally, my wife has double fisted me on a few occasions. Proper stretching = slowly. One particular time I was on my knees and I asked her if both were in yet. She said ‘Yes’.

Not sure how much I stretched a play partner's rectum before fisting him. I inserted rectal dilators of various sizes before inserting fingers one by one until I got my fist inside him🍑🤛😈

Gently and with plenty of lubricated patience, maybe a dozen sessions over weeks or months. It's a rush either giving or receiving.

Ass stretching, like all ass play, is something you can only do day-by-day. Toy A fits barely, eventually goes in an out without much drama. Now you start thinking about something a little bigger. So on it goes. (Pain or bleeding are reliable signs that you've gone far enough for the day.)

I'm not sure, but I think from the time I started exploring with bigger toys until taking approximately a fist size was around a couple years. Two things that helped me were visualizing the toy inside, and bearing down when inserting the toy release my anal muscles.

Ruined orgasms get a lot of play on porn sites, but a ruined insertion--where you try and try and the toy doesn't go in--gives a kind of frustration and desperation that I think helps one later with resolve to expand even more the next time.

Overall it's been rewarding.

Like others, I don't think you can put a time frame on it. Depends how often you exercise your sphincter. Slowly and gradually allow the muscle to stretch - like learning to do the splits. Practice daily.

https://www.pulse-clinic.com/how-to-stretch-your-ass-for-safe-anal-sex-and-fisting

The more frequently you stretch/play, the faster you'll progress. Play & stretch as often as possible, but when you become sore give it a couple days break. Slowly you'll become able to play without so much soreness until you go larger & then need another break. Just keep at it & don't get discouraged.

I’d say years and of course it’s hugely dependent on your frame size and that of the fist. If you’re 6’4” and your fister is a 4’11” gymnast, you’re already off to a great start.

if you’re already playing with dildos in your butt, the chances are you’ll be quicker as you’ve already made a start.

as others have said, the key is repetition; a gentle but insistent stretch becomes less of a strain each time. … if you always remember to warm up, start gently using gently tapered, smooth toys and lots of slippery lube.

you can go deeper and so expand the stretch each time little by little without having to keep upsizing your dildo every few weeks.

try and use flexible toys especially as you get towards fist size as your fist isnt rigid nor perfectly round either.

when you think you’re ready to try a real fist, start with your big toy and then switch over to a very slippery hand and see how you go.

if you practice regularly and often, you should make good progress but this is still going to take months not weeks as you’re stretching & training a muscle. It needs time to stretch further, recover and stretch again.

have fun!

Been doing it for a few months now lve been able too go from a 1” diameter to almost 3” inch’s

I get2.5” in all the way trying to work up to 3”

Buying j lube has definitely helped in the last 3 weeks

Making it easier

I just go slow so as not too hurt myself

My mistress said that I need to practice and play alone if I want her to fist me

In one of the sessions she got all her fingers in me but not the fist

It varies by individual, but the amount of time it takes is inversely proportional to how often you stretch and directly proportional to the size of the fist you want to accept. Some may achieve it in a few months, others never. Practice more and find someone with small hands!

We never made past the knuckle, and we tried a lot!

No fisting but finally got a 3” diameter bottle relatively easy

Now working on 3.25 lol

Slow progress again

My first fisting was about 12 years ago.. from my massage therapist. On my first visit she gave me a surprise (totally unexpected) happy ending with a finger in my ass. I told her my wife had become expert at shoving a cucumber up me - she just murmured it was quite normal. 2nd visit I brought a cucumber which she used on me. Every visit from then on the happy ending included her fist up in me, so really the first try at fisting worked. I guess I wanted it as much as she wanted to do it.

Finally got that 3.25” inside me last night after a couple of long sessions

But wow felt good when it finally slipped in

Going to give myself a break for a couple of days

Then try again

A long time . A great deal of passion. And a enema before any Anal sex . Orgervhise it can get a real mess. When you are use to clean your bum. Then start with a good lube . And your Dildoes warm . Because a cold dildo don't help you to relaxing. Start with a small dildo and then a bigger one . Never try to force it , if you have any pain in the bum then you have to wait to a other time . Fisting are something that's taking time to do.

@SouthernGuy Three inches is enormous!

For me it took a few months, after I was able to take a 3" diameter Plug fisting was possible as well. Nowadays it's my warmup before I take my bigger toys.

I posted here about my American massage lady in a nearby town readily (eagerly?) fisting my ass. I visited her last week for the first time in nearly a year. Face down on her table she lightly massaged my back and legs for a few minutes before zeroing right in on my butt. I moaned and spread my legs. She swiped up and down my crack raking over my anus, then in went one finger. I groaned in pleasure as I pushed against her pressure. She also let out a murmur of encouragement. She probed and twisted and I wriggled beneath her. 2-3-4 fingers went in and each one stretched me exquisitely. I couldn't help moaning and grunting in pure pleasure.. she pushed harder and harder and finally her thumb and knuckles were inside. I gasped "You must know how incredible this feels!!" She just continued murmuring as she pushed deeper and began twisting her hand around. My prostate was on fire - her other hand slipped under to cup my still flaccid penis - despite the intense pleasure it refuses to become erect. Being Mr. Obvious I mentioned - "I can't get hard but it still feels so goddamned good." She just agreed "Uh-huh." I finally shuddered in mind-numbing orgasm, cumming into her cupped hand. She slowed down, let me relax and slowly withdrew her hand giving me another shock of pleasure as her knuckles slipped out. After the rest of the hour was over and she was helping me up off the table I noticed brown stains on the white sheets. She saw the embarrassment on my face and said "That shows it was a good massage." I replied "It really shows you should give me enemas beforehand." She just smiled and lightly nodded, "Maybe." I'm fantasizing that she must know and enjoy what she does to men's assholes. How can she be that good and enthusiastic about it unless she's experienced and enjoys it herself. I would die of pleasure myself if I could get my fist up her ample bottom and have her writhing in orgasm - just returning the favor. My apologies - I know this account may mirror an earlier account butt I could not help myself. If you're anally oriented yet haven't been ass-fisted - you have not fully lived. That's just MHO..HaHa... "Try it, you'll like it" as the old TV ad used to say. I don't even recall what the ad was for - just that tag-line.

Sounds far too dangerous to me. I am adventuresome but prefer not to jump off that cliff. Denise