Zitybiz in Youtube

If you do a search for Zitybiz a Youtube video shows up. Hour 13: Lou Reads zity.biz (and it's really gross) | Escape From Garbage Day 2022. The guy reads posts from the site. Anybody ever listen? He mostly makes fun of the discussion.

There are videos of others reading from Zity as well. I wonder if they actually were members to get at some of the stuff they read? Seems like some might have come from the Lounge which I don't think is accessible unless you're a member. while they do pan it, some of their comments are actually funny!!

There are also YouTube videos panning other kinky/sexy sites such as FetLife out there.

…and that's how groups get infiltrated by those who shouldn't have access. Remember when the "christians' decided to do away with all the ning groups, yahoo groups, etc.? A real member on here should have better sense. Just my 2 pennies worth.

…and that's how groups get infiltrated by those who shouldn't have access. Remember when the "christians' decided to do away with all the ning groups, yahoo groups, etc.? A real member on here should have better sense. Just my 2 pennies worth.

True - but how do you screen for those Zealots??? If you're a public, open forum you have no way of knowing who one is when they join. Some give it away in their posts, but not all are caught. Just like underage getting in or men posing as women.

If you do a search for Zitybiz a Youtube video shows up. Lou reads Zitybiz. The guy reads posts from the site. Anybody ever listen? He mostly makes fun of the discussion.

Just looked the link up and I hope he reads this comment of mine to say in what poor taste his video is. Totally out of context and moreover cherry picked for max gross factor, especially to ordinary noobs.

I have to wonder why he didn't read from discussions here on is there life in the universe, how to be happy, if society is becoming more prudish, covid-19 experiences along with forays into discussing philosophy, health care and other social problems of the day.

There is a lot of such serious posting going on on Zity, especially considering this is a kink/fetish site. Why not report on that? That would be something unusual for listeners to contemplate on, kinksters discussing philosophy, history and social issues.

A pox on such people.

True - but how do you screen for those Zealots??? If you're a public, open forum you have no way of knowing. Just like underage getting in or men posing as women.

Sometimes you can spot such zealots by the way they answer questions or their own posts and certain key words or phrases that might give them away.

Of course, if they keep quiet and don't say anything at all, they will be hard to spot.

I suspect the YouTube video of "Lou reads Zity" may have been some good PR for Zity. Those that want to blast us will, but a lot more people than we expect who saw it are kink-curious and may have come aboard to find out more!!

@agracier good point about reading text showing anything positive. But he was looking for shock factor I assume. Anything positive wouldn’t fit his narrative.

Maybe it's gross, but how did this guy find Zity if not by searching for prurient material, or by being told by someone who had searched for such materials?

Thats a low blow, just wrong. I wonder who that was. And how many of them are still on here.

Thats a low blow, just wrong. I wonder who that was. And how many of them are still on here.

It needn’t be anyone who is ‘on here’. Anybody can read zity or google for posts containing certain words—you don’t need to be a member.

It needn’t be anyone who is ‘on here’. Anybody can read zity or google for posts containing certain words—you don’t need to be a member.

@Rigel, said.

Seems like some might have come from the Lounge which I don't think is accessible unless you're a member. while they do pan it,

Which means someone actually is a memeber or became a memeber just to make zity look nasty along with us members.

It needn’t be anyone who is ‘on here’. Anybody can read zity or google for posts containing certain words—you don’t need to be a member.

Some of the stuff in the video may have come from “The Lounge” - I don't believe you can get to that unless you're a logged-in member. Stories, Blogs, and posts in other topics are fair game I think.

It needn’t be anyone who is ‘on here’. Anybody can read zity or google for posts containing certain words—you don’t need to be a member.

Correct … just as it can also be noted on Facebook

Google (Alphabet Inc) owns YouTube !!!

Most of the people who listen/watched are curious and secretly turned on by the things we enjoy and talk about here. So I think it's a service and a help to those who might never learn that there are many others who enjoy the same things.

Some of the stuff in the video may have come from “The Lounge” - I don't believe you can get to that unless you're a logged-in member. Stories, Blogs, and posts in other topics are fair game I think.

True, I forgot that.

Most of the people who listen/watched are curious and secretly turned on by the things we enjoy and talk about here. So I think it's a service and a help to those who might never learn that there are many others who enjoy the same things.

You do have a point there.

It’s seems anything you post is out there that’s obviously known just like you cell phone it can locate you in that cell towers vicinity. This is also why your phones have a battery you can’t remove if they want to listen in it doesn’t matter your phones off. As far as privacy there’s no such thing with government or google

Obviously all correct.

But it's still not advantageous to Zity to broadcast about the more extreme kinks and practices discussed here on the various sub-forums. There are far too many self-righteous and uncharitably minded people on a mission to rid the world of what they call filth, moral decay and decrepitude. And once in their cross-hairs, they think they have the right and obligation to use any means, fair, foul or illegal to silence you.

Good case for never using your real name in public places on here. And if you use it in DM or chatgram, be careful who you divulge it to.

Good case for never using your real name in public places on here. And if you use it in DM or chatgram, be careful who you divulge it to.

Also, consider putting anything you don't want potentially exposed in the Lounge area.

Fuck ‘em all if they can’t take a joke!!! I'm secure enough with myself, my sexuality, my station in life, etc. that my detractors, whether directing their barbs at me personally or those I chose to associate with, are simply not worth the time to either rebutt, deny OR try to justify what I do or say….other than by means of reasoned discussion. Let LOU (whoever he may be) deal with his own problems. Mmmmmmmm…I think I'll go hang a bag.

I listened to the entire video and all the quotes are from discussions posts, not from the chat rooms and no pictures. Yes he is trying to make fun of us and considering less than 400 views and I think some of those views are zity members, this is not a threat at the moment. Even I am quoted in the video and I don't see anything negative.

Fuck ‘em all if they can’t take a joke!!! I'm secure enough with myself, my sexuality, my station in life, etc. that my detractors, whether directing their barbs at me personally or those I chose to associate with, are simply not worth the time to either rebutt, deny OR try to justify what I do or say….other than by means of reasoned discussion. o hang a bag.

I also have the same secure feelings about what I write here.

However the thing is that many (conservative) social warriors don't have much of a sense of humor. They can be deadly serious and go for the jugular to twist and turn things when they feel all righteous and virtuous.

I wonder if @webby can make zity less open and more private…I been to other forums that you can't see anything unless you become a member. This is creepying me out big time…just when I felt safe to open up with my kinks. I'm also thinking of staying away from Zity for a bit.

I wounder if @webby, can make zity less open and more private…I been to other forums that you can't see anything unless you become a memeber.

I don't think you realise what you are asking. If the site was closed to viewing by unregistered guests, its content could not be indexed by search engines, which would mean its relevance in search results would go into decline until it no longer had an effective presence on the Internet. The result of that would be no new members. And reversing that situation is not as easy as it might sound.

I therefore do not expect @Webby to close the door on unregistered guests any time soon.

This is creepying me out big time…just when I felt safe to open up with my kinks.

Huh…

Your safety does not result from the fact of web site being not open to guest users. Don't be fooled by that.

Come anonymous, stay anonymous and nothing that you say can be linked to you. That's your key to safety.

Thank you, @Webby!!!!

@DrZ , I didn't realized it was that complicated. But as @Webby said

Come anonymous, stay anonymous and nothing that you say can be linked to you. That's your key to safety.

That's the best tool…

Come anonymous, stay anonymous and nothing that you say can be linked to you. That's your key to safety.

Agree. Not using anything that identify you in real life is a good thing. If one wants to be more “open” about their real identity they take the risk of possibly being “found”.

I prefer to read rather than listen to text, so the guy and his channel are pretty boring and without any entertainment value for me.

He literally reads what he finds on the internet. He seems to go after pages that are not the most mainstream in content, but are examples of what he claims he considers garbage. The dude has 1700 followers. Go figure.

I disagree with the “go anonymous” method of never being discovered on a site you might be embarrassed to be discovered perusing. It doesn't take all that much effort to discover you, so if you want to not be found out, don't go there.