Enema goes in slowly before orgasm

When I am giving an enema to a man (just my husband now), I have noticed that if he is very aroused, the enema flows slowly and I often have to lift the bag higher to get the flow going. But if I make him orgasm, then it's like a valve opens and the water just flows into him like crazy.

Physiologically, I'm not sure what is going on. Is it muscle tension, is the prostate swelling and closing the rectum?

I've also noticed that before orgasm my husband highly desires the enema, but after ejaculation, not so much. He's over it (but I make him finish it anyway). Is this just my husband, or are you other guys the same?

Hi.

For me having an enema does heighten the experience with me imagining what is being said and by whom.

Using a buttplug kinda makes me helpless and whimpering until the magic moment comes when i reach the big O. Thank god the toilet is next to the bedroom, wink

@Miss_Sarah First I've heard of the enema going in slowly when a man is very aroused. Something I never experienced, nor have any partners ever mentioned this. As for losing interest in enemas upon ejaculation; oh yes, that is something I very much experience. Once I cum, I lose all interest in enemas and things sexual. So much so, I have written about having a partner tie me up, and then masturbate me and then proceed with giving me an enema while I'm begging not to have it done!

I think it’s very likely due to relaxation of the pelvic floor and sphincter muscles. The erotic drive in relation to an anticipated enema also disappears temporarily following an intense orgasm.

The reason I do my best NOT to orgasm before my last enema (usually my 3rd) is because if I do, I lose interest in finishing the session. I can edge to make the enema flow better, but If I wait until I finish my last enema I can enjoy the orgasm and and still get the session in.

Similar to me: I always wait until the final phase of the last rinsing enema before I orgasm, afterwards my interest for any enema or other sexual activities is gone for at least a couple of hours.

For me, the speed of an enema flowing into my bottom depends on if and when enema cramps start, not when I'm about to ejaculate. I must say when my partner offers to give me an enema, I will immediately begin to get an erection because at some point, I will have a powerful orgasm. As my partner removes my clothes and I now see a bag full of hot soapy water hanging next to my bed, my erection is clearly noticeable. My partner will see this and say "look at you! looks like you're gonna want to do more that just get an enema!" When the enema starts, it isn't long before precum starts to leak and my erection Is as hard as ever. It's all I can do to keep from ejaculating because once I do, all desire to complete the enema ends.

Of relevance to this discussion, it’s possible to have a novel and extremely pleasurable enema experience, using a nozzle with side openings, inserted to the level of the internal sphincters, with the enema bag carefully adjusted to a height where you can control the flow by relaxing and contracting your pelvic muscles— incidentally a great Kegel exercise for the women!

Yes, yes, slow and intermittent for me from a kindly mature woman who knows just what she is doing to me.

@Miss_Sarah said,

I've also noticed that before orgasm my husband highly desires the enema, but after ejaculation, not so much. He's over it (but I make him finish it anyway). Is this just my husband, or are you other guys the same?

I’ve experienced the same thing many times over the years when I’ve been given enemas by my sister, girlfriends, and wife. I’d lose all interest in enemas once I’d cum. However, my interest in enemas would generally return in less than twenty minutes. Especially, if I gave the girls a couple of enemas once they had finished giving me a couple.

When I am giving an enema to a man (just my husband now), I have noticed that if he is very aroused, the enema flows slowly and I often have to lift the bag higher to get the flow going. But if I make him orgasm, then it's like a valve opens and the water just flows into him like crazy.

I don’t recall the flow slowing down as I neared orgasm. If it did, the girls administering my enemas, never said anything about it. But remember, back in those days, there was no clear enema hose or flow monitors like we have today. So, the girls probably never knew if the flow slowed down or stopped.

I know when I'm on my last enema and about to orgasm, the enema gushes into me just before I orgasm. What a rush! 😜

When I was about 14 my grandmother who was a. Nurse I ing me my weekly enema. However there was somthing. Different with this one. I was on the table. On my back so I could see it was one. Of. Her large bags and. It was. Filled to the. Max..she was using a. Double. Baloon nozzle on me that. Was inserted and blown up a bit. She told. Me. To relax and take my enema. . I responded Saying I would. She startedvthe flow She said it e a slow flow It was very warm. She was. Telling me to relax and. Do not. Resist. The enema. She. Told me that as the. Bbag drained she would. Need to. Inflate the balloons so every few. Minuets she would reach between my legs and squzzee the air. Pump to inflate the balloons a little. Bit more . This was done over a period of time as the enema drained in to me. A. Little over half way Egan to experience cramps I was to to take a. Deep. Breath as I did so I felt the nozzle. Inflated putting more pressure on my insides . The enema continued to flow and the. Nozzle. In flayed again and again until. It streching me . I had taken over three quarters of the enema. Now and from the inside I was streched and. I felt. The pressure in my rectum Pushing on my prostrate I was beginning to leak fluid From my penis. I asked what was happening and was told it was. Natural for a boy to react. To a enema . She told me that she was going to inflate the nozzle a bit mor and I should relax . With the pressure of the solution and the nozzle it was difficult to relax and I ask if. She could stop the Emanuel . The response no and after two more squares. On the air pump there was a good amount of fluid the shot out of my penis all over my stomach and face. I did not know what happened . I asked what happened and she to me that I ejaculated for the first time. I was feeling. Very relaxed and the pressure of the nozzles and the enema subsisted and did not feel as painful as it did. I said I was sorry but was told. Nothing bad happened and that. It was a natural response for a boy to have. I asked for the enema to bbe stoped but was told I had to finish the enema for her. That I did with out any problem since I watery relaxed finally the enema stoped and I thought I could get off the table but was to to stay. A few. Minuets later mt. Mother came in to the room looked at me and mygrandmother told my mother That every. Thing. Was working. Fine.with that said I was helped off the table and made to walk to the toilet with the nozzle still in me and my mother holding the i was told to stand in the shower hold the towel rack as the nozzle wS deflated and pulled out . I raced to the toilet to expel my enema. After that enema my enemas were stopped over a short period of time but each time I was given a enema after that one I ejaculated during the enema what a great feeling.

I don't know about rate of flow, my wife uses a Higginson pump most of the time and even if not she will just shut or slow the clamp seldom has a bag been held rather than hung from something.

As to the second part I relate for sure. I like to try and time my orgasm near the end or when the bag is already empty.

In post 3 reddevil got me thinking that this is one of those fun fantasy situations that in reality would certainly not make for much fun.

My wife knows that I lose interest and has when I was restrained let me squirm for a bit for her amusement post orgasem before letting me up in the past on several occasions but never brought be to orgasm before it even starts

Only a matter of time till I get a suprise one of these probably and now I'm excited at the thought. I bet way more excited than I will be when begging for restrants to be undone.

Hell that or I will just get aroused again. My 5 quart + bag can be made do go slow enough to probably get me the time I need to get worked up all over who knows ?

@James3333 In post 3 reddevil got me thinking that this is one of those fun fantasy situations that in reality would certainly not make for much fun.

Just to recap what I mentioned “Once I cum, I lose all interest in enemas and things sexual. So much so, I have written about having a partner tie me up, and then masturbate me and then proceed with giving me an enema while I'm begging not to have it done!”

I have such vivid memory of that scene with my gal who had tied me up and began stoking my peckeroo with the bulging enema bag hanging above me and nozzle inside me. I came in a flash, and equally fast lost all desire to continue. But since this was my idea to do, she really was not into seeing me suffer, and so she did not start the enema and simply untied me. I was glad she did at the time; but when I'm horny and thing back, I wished she hadn't, as it would duplicated the true feeling of what it's like getting an enemas when you don't want or like them.

Oh, afterthought, I'm sure some gals here would have had no problem ignoring my pleading and releasing the clip!

It's pretty much the same with me, as well…I guess that it's a ‘Man Thing’. He's certainly a Lucky Man!⚘

I orgasm after holding my enema for an extended time. Then I'll expell and start again. I get really turned on and want more❤I definitely don't lose interest.

My wife gives me enemas with a big rubber bulb and if I cum during enema too fast, I loose interest.

I think the flow rate largely depends on:

• Height above the nozzle of the bag or can
• Inside diameter of the hose
• Degree to which air has or has not been purged fron the hose
• Backpressure from solid waste or gas in the recipient's bowels plus the water taken previously
• How relaxed the patient is

My wife gives me a 3+ quarts, slow (because I taught her the frequent start/stop technique recommended by Christina Amelong of Optimal Health Network, not beacause of a slow flow rate), erotic enema every weekend. To keep me relaxed, she avoids any dickular stimulation for a while - maybe 5 minutes or the 1st ¼ or so of the bag - and just massages my belly and otherwise caresses my legs and lower torso. Then my cock will start to get some occasional love. She'll very gradually increase the attention paid to it, keeping me at half-mast most of that time. She'll eventually bring me up to fully erect when I only have about 2 cups left in the bag. Up until that point I am, though certainly aroused, very relaxed, and the water flows freely other than the frequent, intentional breaks. We have a flow meter on the bag to make sure things keep flowing smoothly.

The highlight of my week is when she then envelopes my cock with her mouth for the rest of the enema. That last bit goes much slower due to the back pressure and my relaxation yielding to sexual tension. Because, as most others have mentioned, I have a difficult time taking more water after I climax (in fact the urge to expel greatly intensifies shortly thereafter), we both try to time my orgasm to occur as I take the last little bit. Ideally we hear that gurgling sound right before my last delightful spasm.

Miss Sarah…He's certainly NOT alone…as guys, that's ‘Just the way we Roll’!

Maybe slowly at 1st for my ex giving. As the bag was ½ empty, and a hard-on, she said “play”!

Kinda a BDSM thing, as if I didn't cum right away, she refilled the bag to make sure I did.

I've also noticed that before orgasm my husband highly desires the enema, but after ejaculation, not so much. He's over it (but I make him finish it anyway). Is this just my husband, or are you other guys the same?

My sub likes that his enema would go in until an orgasm then the belly tightens up and then the enema needs out. He would slow down to wait for his orgasm to finish his bags. Then slowly ramps back up to get to that orgasm. Bang!! He is a very happy sub. No matter what the enema was.

Without question, being aroused in advance and during an enema helps to enable me to tolerate larger, warmer, soapier enemas. So, as a rule, I often engage in edging- (consisting of teasing, arousal and orgasm denial….over and over…. to get to the highest level of arousal). Obviously, if orgasm occurs anytime during the enema, then the tolerance for the enema is lessened. So- I engage in the balancing-act of effective edging to achieve the best results. ….michael https://en.zity.biz/gallery/image/212297

I was told and it kinda make sense that when your in your mood your body don't care about pooping or peeing. This disconnect makes me think you are not in control and are in a relaxed state.

Yes I agree during orgasm and after the solution seems to flow in easier. Maybe the prostate gland starts to relax 👍🏿

When I was given enemas as an aspect of foreplay, the slower the better. This edging came very close to pushing me beyond the point of no return. My S.O. told me often that the enema made me a much better lover. Once we both had orgasmed, I was content to finish off a large volume as quickly as possible. I didn't quickly lose my erection until many years later.

If I cum the thought of enema is not exciting but if give me enema to warm me up after release more anal pleasure in my clean ass is delightful

@sse4fun said,

When I was given enemas as an aspect of foreplay, the slower the better. This edging came very close to pushing me beyond the point of no return. My S.O. told me often that the enema made me a much better lover. Once we both had orgasmed, I was content to finish off a large volume as quickly as possible. I didn't quickly lose my erection until many years later.

My ex-wife and I used enemas for health, pleasure, foreplay, and occasionally during sexual intercourse. When we used enemas during foreplay, she was careful not to let me go over the edge, but I always tried to push her over the edge into a good orgasm. She liked holding a two-quart enema, while we had sexual intercourse, giving her some really intense orgasms. Another thing we liked doing, was having intercourse while I was taking a slow two-quart enema using a long-curved douche nozzle. The motion of the douche nozzle on my prostate while my penis was buried deep in her vagina, did a real number on both of us, especially me. We both liked taking enemas slowly, because they were a lot more pleasurable that way. Besides, running the flow fast, gave both of us cramps, which neither of us liked.

I never had an issue losing my hard-on, especially if enemas or a couple of douche nozzles were involved in our foreplay. As we were lying in bed naked, she would slide a greased douche nozzle in my rectum as we fondled one another. Then I’d do likewise to her. The only prerequisite we had before engaging in that activity, was a two-quart rinse enema beforehand.

Strong Work Thanks for Sharing.

Yesss slowly the enema with some painful and sensuous touching yummy