What has changed since you joined Zity?

„What has changed since you joined Zity?„

...a question I asked myself after half a year at Zity.

Since my twenties I've been infected by a "virus" that has completely shaken up my previous sexual orientation. This "pathogen" must have been dormant within me for a long time, just waiting for an opportune moment to begin its "destructive work".

And that moment came... definitive... 😱

Said "virus" struck with brute force when I suddenly stood unplanned in front of two large shop windows of a medical supply store in a big city and was beaten by an armada of enema utensils that I had never seen before.

Not only did my pupils get bigger, the bulge in my pants also took on enormous proportions.

The "virus" struck with all its might...

I sneaked around the block a few more times to unobtrusively get more views of the display. After I had gathered all my courage, I later bought my first articles there.

Now the first enemas followed, which I administered myself. I found it extremely exciting. The thought that one was perverted or somehow sick in the head haunted the convolutions of the brain.

You couldn't talk to anyone about it, and you put off the thought of putting yourself in professional medical hands; who voluntarily ends up in an insane asylum. And the internet didn't exist back then.

Topics such as enemas, anal eroticism were not exactly presented to the current sexual partner on a salver. At some point I came across a lady who approached me very openly. She was anally erotic and insisted on enemas before every sex; and she claimed sex every day. After two weeks with her I pulled the ripcord; two weeks every day several enemas brought me to my limits.

Then one day a red-haired creature caught me with her spell, which accompanies me through life as my wife to this day.

Over the years, horny sex developed that did not exclude the anal area, including enemas and pegging. Our mutual passion lasts to this day.

Then I came across Zity, which I signed up for after some deliberation.

You read endless posts, enjoyed the horny picture galleries, and discovered a previously unknown world of fetishists of all kinds.

Zity has me under its spell. Even my wife noticed that our water consumption increased...

Of course she enjoys her extra work giving me enemas. Then she can edit me with her strapons, which she loves very much.

Zity is responsible for...

Is this also the case with others in such a way that positive changes can be noted through this side?

My sex drive has increased immensely 🍑😈!

Some new friendships with some very interesting people.

I started collecting vintage enema equipment & doing more enemas!

I’ll second what @LordJim2 said. Some fantastic new friends and insights into their lives have positively changed mine!

I founds lots of people who shared my likes and interests.

@Aquarius I can't begin to describe how zity.biz has changed me. The thing is that the change is ongoing and I am loving it. 🌹

My love for diapers has multiplied exponentially. To where my goal is to be diapered 24/7 and be incontinant in them.

Its fun and interesting to talk about things you may not be able to readily talk about to people you know IRL. Well, except for my one friend who grew up in a similar situation to me. I always tease him that his granny is coming over with a mustard plaster and a hot soapsuds enema!

I've come to accept my love of Enemas is simply how I was wired from an early age. And I have certainly enjoyed the amazing, erotic and graphic pictures that people have shared. I’ve been able to communicate with some of the members online, and it’s been a thrill to share my story; Jake and Dominic’s Erotic Encounter. It has been fun.

Just like on Fetlife, you meet some like minded, as well as “Interesting” people. It's been mostly good experiences intermixed with a touch of unnecessary drama now and then.

I am several kilos lighter

I got a Dom

I got a sub

I made many new friends

What once was a hard limit, is no more

Sometimes I wonder if I lost myself along the way. But I am not the person I was when I joined under the name “ wet_girl” many years ago

I've had a lot of enjoyment communicating with folks who share the same interests. Wonderful community here.

I have met many new wonderful friends here and reintroduced enemas to my fun time. Learning HOW to best take an enema has been an education itself. It is so relaxing here in zity chatting with like minded people with no judgement who enjoy their anal adventures. The mutual interest in anything anal is such a relief. My whole life I have enjoyed butt plugs and zity has enabled me to take that wonderful sensation to a new level and such a relief to not be alone with this desire. Here I sit just out of the shower with my favorite butt plug in knowing I am not alone. Thank you ZITY.

Not much good I would say.

I've grown 11 years older since joining and that is not nothing. And looking at world events, I somehow feel we have entered the situations of the age when my parents were young and one catastrophe after another was occurring.

Being a member on Zity I have regularly been somewhat flabbergasted at how some/many members were raised when they were young. You could say it is eye-opening, but not in a way that would endear me to the practices they had to go through. Horrid physical punishments for little reason.

And those accounts that tell of sexual awakenings and precociousness by members have made me feel somewhat inadequate and envious. Certainly in having missed out on many life experiences. Before I went on-line and then joined zity, I had thought myself contented and to be rather accomplished sexually. But with reading many accounts here, that mistaken notion of mine has been put to rest. I now see myself as the neophyte and amateur that I really am. At least for real life experiences.

And then not to forget that the world is becoming more prudish and nasty towards anything sexual or even slightly unusual by the year.

I'm also reminded by a line from the recent movie ‘Don’t Look Up'. I believe that it is Leonardo di Caprio's character who says when doom arrives: 'We had it all, didn't we?'

I joined Zity in 2006. We used to have “clubs” at egroups.com, MSN Groups, Yahoo Groups, Etc. We had Ron and “Beth” Tyler, whoever the Beth was at the moment. We had old E movies to upload, some good most fair. We had more vintage equipment on EBAY. By and large, we are watching a hobby, a fetish retrench if not disappear. I am glad Zity.com is here. I use it to archive as much old stuff as I can. That's what my albums are about. I hope they are here for a long time to come.

Not much good I would say.

I've grown 11 years older since joining and that is not nothing. And looking at world events, I somehow feel we have entered the situations of the age when my parents were young and one catastrophe after another was occurring.

Being a member on Zity I have regularly been…

Me too. I am surprised and somewhat disappointed about how much I've missed out on.

I've been a member here 14 years, made MANY friends here and have met several women in RL. 😉🌹 Have also learned lots of good things here. I think Zity has a great community here except for a few bad apples which you'll get on any website. Tried Fetlife but didn't get the closeness and personal interaction I do with the people here. And a lot more wackos on there too. 🙄 Keep up the great job Webby, appreciate all the hard work you do for us! 😃

My sex drive has increased immensely 🍑😈!

@chelle300 I can see that, and what a cute butt you have! 😉🌹

@mike45 Thank you 😊 I appreciate your sweet words!

I agree with Mike you have a cute butt!

Many of the friends and even my sub have left Zity.biz over the years. At the time the attitude on Zity.biz was not as positive as it started out. Negativity was prevalent causing some to step away and even step back.

Over the last couple years that attitude has swung back to a better space. It is nice to see that happening. But I miss those friends and the many conversations that were had. I still keep in touch with those friends outside of Zity. So I know they are doing well.

Since joining Zity, I remember the posts that really turned me on. Some are so good that it takes very little to get up and give myself a big soapy enema and masturbate until I have a huge orgasm. And I love reading about our want and need of enemas. I particularly like reading about childhood experiences. I have tons of embarrassing memories of my own with Mom and enemas. Now, in my old age, that's the only thing that turns me on. Enemas!!!

The whole Zity community is fabulous and has deeply enriched my life. Thank you!

@Moms_Egirl I couldn't agree more with you… reading some of the posts almost always leads to a big soapy enema, to reminisce those childhood experiences.

I joined Zity 15 years ago and it only seems like yesterday!

What has changed: a lot! But here are the highlights….

• Gone from a slavish copywriter who worked nights, weekends and holidays, to freelance and now retired from a career of 40+ years

• Moved to our coastal Carolina home…a lifelong dream for hubby and me

• Hubby has become an enema “convert” (how can you live with a klismo and not have a little rub off?)

• Learned to fly and in the process of earning my private pilot's license

But there is so much more. Zity has afforded me the chance to share in a subject (enemas) that most people find gross. From techniques, to solutions to equipment (especially Silicone Nozzles) my knowledge base has increased in size dramatically.

And last, but certainly not least, are the kind people I've met through my keyboard who share my passion for a nice warm enema.

My thanks to all of you for a wonderful 15 years!

Have fun and keep on playing safe!

Deb

Oh, changes over the years have not been good for me enema-wise. The large hernia that began some 7 years ago as made me extremely cautious to do enemas; so I now take small shower-shot enemas daily. (The hernia has made that needed because of constipation.) But oh, how I could go for a bulging full open-top enema bag of strong soapy water! Over the years I've become grumpier. Oh, my poor gal, putting up with me! Despite fast walking miles on many days, my legs are weak when I try to get up from the floor. Balance sucks, so no more climbing up radio towers. I've forgotten just about all electronics theory, UNIX, C, etc. ) I'm relegated to single note guitar playing as fingers too stiff to play chords. At least the peckeroo still stiffens at the sight of an a shapely woman! I swear it has shrunk! But on a positive note, thanks to emerging AI (https://openai.com/blog/chatgpt/) I can easily get answers to things…

I have watched and participated in Zity Biz for over twelve years. What was an open and accepting place for all to experience from others has changed. If anything and my group of friends who are here in Zity Biz are left somewhat empty by day-to-day likes with no actual sharing of thoughts. We all know you are in here so why not be heard? This has changed over the years good or bad it is not for me to judge. Maybe that is Society showing through.

Cage / Playpen rattling from the cloistered and snuggly diapered few. Elf😎

Been a member for fourteen years. A lot of changes in general. Retired. Became a grandfather. Done some traveling and have made contact with two professional mistresses, one of which gave me my first spanking and first enema as an adult.

For me zity Biz not only gave an outlet to my fetishes, but also made it clear I was not the only one who enjoyed spankings and enemas.

I’ve also met lots of new interesting friends & shared stories about our childhood upbringing and adventures.

Far fewer members in the chat rooms, we us to have so much fun there.