What has changed since you joined Zity?

Far fewer members in the chat rooms, we used to have so much fun there.

That we did @ford .

As it turned out, I have been a member of this forum for more than two years. But I was just looking for ways to satisfy my sick fantasy. In the material sense, nothing has changed at all, but I have undergone many transformations in the psychological sense, and now I feel like a completely different person, being, creature. As my once best friend said, "If something broke your heart but opened your eyes, it can be considered progress and development for yourself." And in my heart I still remain a romantic . . .

Thank you for reading my cringe texts and being here.

What has changed? The world has changed! Oh well, at least enemas are still popular enough for people to be here writing about them.

Unbelievably 13 years since I got started on Zity. Made & sadly lost a wonderful friend for whom I used to enjoy 'painting word pictures' of all sorts of anal slanted erotica which she reciprocated. Have made contact with many other similarly kinked folks which always serves to remind me I'm not as alone in this as I once believed. I hope I have also learned to appreciate other kinks that while they maybe don't work for me give others pleasure. Now pretty much fully retired following the collapse of the engineering company I used to work for part time I now have more time available & hope for more new friends & experiences. Thank you all, Big Al.

Far fewer members in the chat rooms, we usef to have so much fun there.

and i enjoyed "whispering" sexy things to you in the chat room 😃

Sadly the chat room noticed the drop in amount in chat room after room name changes

When I joined many years ago there were users who would ridicule fantasy posts. Complaining "oh, that would never happen". Often ending in silly arguments and lots of hurt feelings.

@Brubaker Moderation prefers members report such posts instead of commenting negatively about them. The validity of them can be found. Hopefully ending, at least reducing, such encounters of the forum.

* A side note...the member has removed their quoted post twice. Once of their choosing and a second time after moderation reinstated it for continuation of the discussion. Thus prompting this note to be added. If moderation feels your post should remain...please leave it in the discussion. Especially when it is not breaking any rule, but is helping to promote better member behavior...ie. reporting issues

Everyone in the UK knows that it is becoming increasingly difficult to see a doctor. This is a website that is supposed to bring people with a medical fetish together and yet it is even harder to meet a doctor on here than in real life!! What's wrong with all you pretend doctors?

I've been a member of Zity for 19 years. It was very exciting back then to discover such a wonderful forum to explore my medical fetish interests and to learn how to play safely. The photos were usually very erotic and the stories great food for fantasy. In this time I have communicated with some really great people and even managed to meet five playdocs for a real-life play session. It's been fun, but for some reason things have shifted and I am increasingly convinced that I'm just wasting my time. It's gotten much harder to meet people, personal ads don't get any response, and my medfet is now purely in my imagination. Zity helped me make my fantasy reality over ten years ago and I'm grateful for that, but that has gone. So rather than keep setting myself up for disappointment, I think it's time to move on and find something else to do with my time and energy.

I remember that the earlier rectal temperature and female butt pictures were more explicit, with better details. It seems like there was a higher percentage of women posting. It’s still a great place to discuss your fetish. I don’t know of other websites that have so much variety.