I’m likely the odd duck out here. While I never expressly told my giver I found enemas from him sexual, we almost always concluded a session with great sex, so I’m sure he didn’t need his PhD to understand I could enjoy them.
With that said, I never asked him or anyone for a pure “fun” enema, even though in his case I’m sure I could have without recriminations. While I wouldn’t lie to get one, I’ve lacked the bravery to ask for enemas I didn’t immediately need. Also, my giver lavished so much attention on me when I was ill that when I felt better, I wanted to make our bedroom time much more centered on him.
However, this has not been much of an impediment; years of IBS and exacerbations from what turned out to be a failing gallbladder meant that I need not wait too long to feel legitimate medical need, which in my case always makes the resulting relief much more sexually charged than for an enema taken preventatively.
I have requested enemas when not traditionally constipated; my right side and not my left has spasms, so relaxing that part of my colon during a flare and releasing what can amount to very little trapped stool can profoundly increase my comfort. In fact, as I always tried first to shift an IBS attack solo, only appealing to my giver when I couldn’t reset it on my own, pretty much every enema I’ve ever requested has been with a colon that was at least 2/3 empty.
Regular left-sided constipation, which I have very occasionally, responds easily to my solo enema efforts and has never caused me to seek help.