Has any male “patient” not developed an erection during a role play examination?

Has any male “patient” not developed an erection during a role play examination?

The acute embarrassment caused prevents arousal sometimes.

I usually manage when the “doctor” requires a sample of my semen but just wondered if this is fairly common.

I had a play exam once, just once, with a lady doctor.

It wasn't really all that fun nor arousing. So, no erection. I sort of went through the motions until time was up. Not there was anything off-putting about the doctor or setting or anything. It was simply that making an appointment for a specific day and specific hour is not conducive to becoming aroused. I was just not in the mood but went anyway because I do not like being thought of as a no-show. Not polite.

Maybe a 20 year old can become aroused and willing at the drop of a hat, but when older it just doesn't work like that anymore.

And I fear that it would be the same for any kind of planned sexual event.

Not here. Only a time or two I've started the genital exam soft. Normally I'm already completely hard before that. And those couple times, as soon as the genital exam started I became completely erect and remained that way during the entire rest of the exam.

I'm usually hard by the time I start to untie my shoes.

I'm with kc patient. I'm at least “chubbed” before the doc even gets in the exam room.

I had a couple of in-depth role-play exams with a female doctor and a female nurse. The ‘doctor’ was a friend of mine who was very receptive to my interest in being put in embarrassing medical exam situations. She recruited two other women to act as nurse/student, one in each of the two exams. The theme was that the doctor would demonstrate a very intense hands on genital exam and then the nurse would do it as well. The idea was to make me get an erection so that I could be chastised by them for the blatant display of sexuality during a clinical exam.

In both of the exams I was surprised that it took a long time to accomplish their goals. Both times I stayed flaccid during the exam by the ‘doctor’ and didn't start to get erect until the ‘nurse' was well into her exam. I'm not circumcised and so the exam involved a lot of retracting and replacing of the foreskin as well as a lot of palpation. I would guess that in all I was probably manipulated for 5 or 10 minutes by the nurse before I began to get erect and then I never did get totally hard, enough to stand up and be counted, but not a real heavy duty hard-on.

I'm not sure why that is, but I think that for me, the idea of a medical fetish exam is so much more mental than physical that although I'm loving it while I'm being examined, I'm relating to it more in a mental way than a physical one. I don't know if this is the case or if it's just my perception, but I have always stayed more flaccid than erect during role-play situations.

I've been offered play scenarios where I'd take poppers for heart and rectal exams. As a result I'd be artificially flaccide.

It's an interesting exchange- partial immasculation so the doctor can examine me better. I don't know how horny I'd feel if I'm not hard (I top in vanilla sex) but anything that prolongs the exam and adds an element of humiliation adds to the fetish.

The closest I've come is prostate exams immediately after ejaculation. It's all about transcending the limits of the male orgasm, accepting what the doctor has to do in order to give me a full, tough exam.

I’m usually hard as soon as I start undressing and remain erect for the entirety of the exam. I’m pretty sure my “doctor” has never actually examined my penis while it is flaccid!

Same here - if there is to be one-on-one nudity, or CFNM, I'm erect before I even undress, and I remain that way throughout. (In an actual medical setting this hasn't happened since I was a teenager - thankfully, as I don't want things to be awkward with the doctor/nurse!) Age hasn't affected my arousal response at all, thankfully.

Have examined two young men, my dear friend in high school and one more recently. I can say that I rarely saw them soft. Usually they were hard by the time I slipped off their underwear.

@GraceT I confirm it is also my reaction.

Often I have an erection before having my genitals exposed only just for the anticipation and when my play doc slip off my underwear she found my penis with a lot of precum.

Never been examined in role play, but if female doc I would probably be hard.

I booked a play exam once, but didn't really develop an erection. It was a disappointing experience in that I learned that one cannot schedule sexual excitement by timetable.

I tried my best just to be polite, but of course trying for an erection is the best way not to have one.

And to put it into context, the lady playdoc was nice, friendly and professional, the surroundings just like a doctor's office with all the instruments you could think of. She went through the 'normal' list of things to do, but for some reason my heart - and prick - just wasn't in it. I didn't feel silly as such, but I was glad when it was finished as I thought it would have been impolite to ask to stop after the first 10 minutes or so.

So yes to a play exam, but a definite no to an erection or (sexual) excitement.

I think that this is more common than we like to admit. There is no underestimating the psychological aspects of receiving the exam.

I had 5 sessions with a play doc, a fantasy come true, but didn't & couldn't get an erection. Surprising to me still.

I do both roles in play exams. As a play patient I have always gotten an erection at some point in the play exam. The points in the exam will vary however. That may be because the play exams vary from one play doctor to another.

Now in all my years in the role of play doctor, every male patient I have ever examined has gotten an erection at some point during the exam, except for play patients who have informed me prior to their exams that they suffer from erectile dysfunction.

In the role of a play patient, I do feel psychologically free that it is ok to have erections, so that may be the reason I get them in play exams. In a real life exam, my biggest fear is to get an erection. For me personally that would be the most mortifying thing that could happen to me.

Well for e its the actual stimulation of replaying my school medical and of course I always get an erection and subsequently donate a semen sample willingly often helped by he doctor

I have an erection right at the beginning of the exam

I've had many patients and been the patients for a few doctors too over the years. The younger patients (20-30 y.o.) usually get an erection just from the anticipation, which is visible by the time they are asked to remove their pants and lay on the exam table in their underwear. For the older ones (around 50y.o.) it varies, but generally they will get hard during the course of genital exam at the latest. I've never examined anyone with a previous diagnosis of erectile dysfunction. I have seen one or two guys who didn't get fully hard, and this coincided with them being very nervous. If I remember correctly it was because of it being their first play exam and an actual strong fear of doctors. I've also had a few patients who couldn't produce a semen sample, although they were hard. At least in one case the patient did mention that he was on an SSRI while taking the medical history.

As a patient, I always get very hard in play exams well before the genital exam and this is quite visible. Play doctors like that, so tend to wear tight white underwear to make it obvious.

That will be " lost time " !!

On my first play exam, I was so nervous that my penis remained flaccid the whole time, despite the really thorough genital exam.