Seeking tips for multiple female orgasms

While the world knows women can have multiple orgasms, it seems pretty difficult to achieve in reality.

In play with my partner I typically start with oral stimulation of clit, followed by fingering with simultaneous clit massage. Thereafter a small vibrator on the clit with more fingering (3 or possibly 4 fingers) brings her to first orgasm. After that no matter what I try, doesn't seem to feel good to her. My goal is to bring more orgasms to her.

Would like to hear more tips from men and experiences and tips from women here. Thanks.

To add, normal sex does not bring her to orgasms.

Also she dosent like larger vibrators like Hitachi. They actually give her mtiple orgasms quickly, but those orgasms are not intense.

Not all women are multi-orgasmic. Is she happy with the ones you give her? If so then good enough

My first question is that does she want multiple orgasms? My second is how is the communication between you two, have you let her show you what she likes and how she likes it? Have you taken the time to learn her body and how it responds without pressuring for results. It can be fun exploring her body and you might be surprised she will also respond finding what you like.

The communication is pretty good.

She does want multiple orgasms but it never works.

The techniques used for first orgasm stop working right after that orgasm.

So go with what you got and don’t make it an issue that will most likely complicate the problem…if it is a problem!

I kinda agree with @Rigel and the both of you relax and cuddle for awhile and then try again. It is not a contest but just a time to enjoy and learn.

There was one woman (so far) in my lifetime sexual experience, who enjoyed having multiple orgasms. She would have 4-6 orgasms, and sometimes even more, by me giving her oral sex and masturbation. She especially liked me licking her clitoris, and probing her vagina with my tongue. She usually required a brief (15-30 seconds) respite between orgasms, and would eventually be so spent that she stopped me from helping her have even more!

Don't know if this impacted her orgasms, but she said that she had a prolapsed bladder. Always wished she would have soaked my face with a burst of her pee as she orgasmed – but never happened. That being said, she was VERY wet!

I kinda agree with @Rigel and the both of you relax and cuddle for awhile and then try again. It is not a contest but just a time to enjoy and learn.

I agree to this. Sex isn't a olympic discipline, and a multible orgasm comes true when the time ist good for it.