The way Drs/medical personal talked to you when you were young

Did you experience in your youth the way doctors or nurses talk to children and sometimes even young adults? The mix of a soothing, caring tone of voice, easy terms and praise for being a brave/good boy/girl? (Women do this clearly better than men.)

If you imagine a Venn diagram, this is probably where medfet, ageplay and mommykink intersect. The idea of a caring, but dominant person that wants your best but will invade your privacy. I find this more attracting than the typical medfed tropes like someone examining your genitals.

Surprisingly no not that I remember, in fact, most of the time the nurses didn't speak to me really. Like at the dentist the nurse barely would say anything just nodding her head to what the dentist said and he didn't even say much to me just the usual. Then when it came to my GP or being at a hospital I didn't get any soothing really only one doctor saying “Your braver than the rugby player I had come in not too long ago”. That's probably the only caring I got and also a caring/soothing part when I fainted off the table and hit the floor and woke up a minute later giving both the doctor and my mum a heart attack.

This was mostly in my youth bar the fainting one that happened 5 years ago as a young adult.

The only thing that comes to mind is a doctor who I used to see occasionally, he wasn't our regular doctor but sometimes I guess he had to fill in. He was an elderly guy, with a thick Irish accent which I found hard to understand and which made him sound almost angry the whole time! He was also quite rough with his examinations .quite hurried! I was terrified of him.

I remember having to have several teeth pulled at the dentist before I got my braces over quite a few visits. I never fussed or anything because I knew it wouldn’t change anything.

One time one of the nurses made the comment that there were grown men who were more scared than me, which I took to mean “if you want to be good you’re never allowed to act scared, even if you are.” I also remember that the dentist always used the phrase “we will quit picking on you.” I do think that some of that is the root of my fantasies now, because the gentle comfort and reassurance are things that really push my buttons.

I love hearing that it’s okay to be scared and also just the simple things like “you’re doing great” and also even “everything is okay, you’re safe” And of course even with the permission to be scared, I love and need to hear that I’m a good girl (perhaps especially when I act scared)

When I was young I don't really remember doctors talking oddly to me.

Growing up though, I have noticed that many nurses here where I live, have an annoying tendency to talk to older people as if they were still underage. And moreover adopt a higher, singsong tone of voice as if they were annoyed and bored by everything and had learned how to appear polite.

If anyone has ever seen and understood the ORR female exam videos, you'd have the perfect example of how condescending and childish this tone of voice sounds. When such nurses tell me to do something or assume a position, I have to suppress the urge to say 'Yes mother …'

Then again when I was young, I absolutely hated how dentists in the US talked to me. No matter what the dental issue was, they always acted like it was my own, express fault that I willingly had done something wrong to my teeth (even when I knocked out some front teeth during a football game). They always used an accusatory tone of voice and choice of words. Not to mention the glaring and staring as if trying to unnerve me into admitting my dental crime.

I absolutely loathed this and lost my respect for them.

Luckily when we moved to Belgium, the dentists didn't seem to play the accusation game. Having a dental problem was not a reflection on a person's personal character or integrity. They just wanted to do the job as quickly as possible and get paid. Nor moralizing thank goodness.

When I was young I don't really remember doctors talking oddly to me.

Growing up though, I have noticed that many nurses here where I live, have an annoying tendency to talk to older people as if they were still underage. And moreover adopt a higher, singsong tone of voice as if they were annoyed and bored by everything and had learned how to appear polite.

If anyone has ever seen and understood the ORR female exam videos, you'd have the perfect example of how condescending and childish this tone of voice sounds. When such nurses tell me to do something or assume a position, I have to suppress the urge to say 'Yes mother …'

Then again when I was young, I absolutely hated how dentists in the US talked to me. No matter what the dental issue was, they always acted like it was my own, express fault that I willingly had done something wrong to my teeth (even when I knocked out some front teeth during a football game). They always used an accusatory tone of voice and choice of words. Not to mention the glaring and staring as if trying to unnerve me into admitting my dental crime.

I absolutely loathed this and lost my respect for them.

Luckily when we moved to Belgium, the dentists didn't seem to play the accusation game. Having a dental problem was not a reflection on a person's personal character or integrity. They just wanted to do the job as quickly as possible and get paid. Nor moralizing thank goodness.

This captures it pretty well, esp. with the invasion of privacy. Getting an invasive procedure like an enema from a dominant female figure together with praise is one if my biggest fantasies.

If you are into „good girl“-stuff, you should check the audios on the subreddit r/gonewildaudio (search the search bar for ddlg or just good girl), plenty of excellent audio roleplays there.

If anyone has ever seen and understood the ORR female exam videos, you'd have the perfect example of how condescending and childish this tone of voice sounds. When such nurses tell me to do something or assume a position, I have to suppress the urge to say 'Yes mother …'

What does the ORR mean in the female exam videos?

What does the ORR mean in the female exam videos?

ORR was the name of a medfet clinic that operated in the Belgian city of Antwerp. It was also the name of their website. It consisted of an actual accredited doctor and nurses who were willing to perform all manner of medfet procedures that often went beyond just normal play exam scenarios. They would actually perform real surgical procedures.

In any case, I do not know what ORR stands for or if it is an acronym. The doctor running it was German I believe, so you may have to think up quite a number of possible abbreviations. I would think ‘operating room’ features in there somewhere, but that is as far as I can get.

Thanks for the explaination, agracier!

@ suppyo Thanks for the explaination, agracier!

There's more to the ORR story. Here is a thread about the demise of ORR … really sad. And the sadder thing for me was it was within walking distance of my home. I never went though, much to my regret to this day.

https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;topic=77413;mark=ORR

What does ORR mean in the female exam videos?

ORR = Operation Room Roleplay

https://www.thecellar.be/en/doctor-jill

ORR = Operation Room Roleplay

https://www.thecellar.be/en/doctor-jill

Hmmm … I think I know where ‘the Cellar’ was located, but if I am not mistaken it too closed down, possibly because of inactivity during Covid. Any idea from what year this link dates?

Nice set of medical pics, though I wish there were a medfet roleplay doc who would manage to recreate an old pre WWII looking exam room, with white tiles, metal furniture, glass cabinets, old instruments etc.

Tnx for the link. Now I will have to start thinking all over again about trying a second visit to such an establishment.

Right, I recall those things, and I also have seen that for my own children.

Now for less pleasant aspects of that:

• Doctor announces some unpleasant treatment (e.g., suppositories), child makes a face, doctor smiles benignly (but the treatment will still be given).
• Doctor discusses issues with mother in adult terms, perhaps outside of the child's presence. Child has no idea what is going to happen, and is surprised "for his/her own good".

When I was young, the doctors and nurses never spoke directly to me. They always talked to my mom about me, like I wasn't even there. My first sports physical with my female pediatrician was also the first time I went back to the exam room by myself, without my mother (I'm guessing she knew what was coming and didn't feel the need to embarrass me even further by witnessing it. Thank goodness!). That was the most I had been directly communicated with at a doctor's visit. Still, the only words the doctor spoke to me were, “Have a seat up on the table”, “Stand up”, and “You can get dressed now”. She didn't even tell me when she wanted me to lie down, she just patted the table and gently guided me down by my shoulders. No warning when she lifted my waistband and stuck her hand down my briefs or lowered them a few moments later. It was very off-putting at the time, but I find the memory of it all very arousing.

When I was young, the doctors and nurses never spoke directly to me. They always talked to my mom about me, like I wasn't even there. My first sports physical with my female pediatrician was also the first time I went back to the exam room by myself, without my mother (I'm guessing she knew what was coming and didn't feel the need to embarrass me even further by witnessing it. Thank goodness!). That was the most I had been directly communicated with at a doctor's visit. Still, the only words the doctor spoke to me were, “Have a seat up on the table”, “Stand up”, and “You can get dressed now”. She didn't even tell me when she wanted me to lie down, she just patted the table and gently guided me down by my shoulders. No warning when she lifted my waistband and stuck her hand down my briefs or lowered them a few moments later. It was very off-putting at the time, but I find the memory of it all very arousing.

Interesting. In my case the Drs were always very elaborate on what they are about to do and afaik they are also educates to do it that way because it can take away anxiety for the child and increase trust. (This was in the 90s.)