Example for a worried cousin, sibling, etc. It's not too bad.

Anybody get an enema to show a sibling, cousin, friend there was no reason to afraid or embarrassed?

“Your cousin is afraid. Come help me show him it won't be as bad as he thinks."

When my siblings an I were kids, we got enemas together from mom and moms two teenage sisters. Mom gave us enemas laying across our bed together, an as we got older, in the bathroom together. Our aunts were a little different, sometimes the enemas were private one on one affairs in the bathroom. At other times we were together with both aunts in grandmas large bathroom.

Grandma used my brother an I as her teaching subject when she taught moms two teenage sisters how to give enemas. Over the course of two days, we each received a soapy an a rinse enema each day. On day one, she showed them what to do, then talked them through doing it. On day two, each girl had to demonstrate to grandma that they knew what they were doing. She watched as each girl fixed and gave her subject a soapy an a rinse enema. Of course, their subjects were my brother an I. Afterwards, our two teenage aunts gave my siblings an I enemas at grandmas direction, occasionally doing it herself.

I used to have to get enemas to show my sister that an enema doesn’t hurt ( I loved to get the enemas).

I seem to have the opposite problem. While I may well have another klismo in the family, I have at least one who seems repulsed by enemas, has expressed “worry” and has asked me not to take any more enemas expressing concern that I “might hurt myself.”

Prior to becoming my wife my then girlfriend was constipated for many days. I told her she needed an enema she didn't know what an enema was. I bought one so I could give her an enema. She didn't like the sound of the procedure and i said it wasn't bad and she will like the relief she will be getting.

She said NO

That's when I said she could give me an enema to see how it's done.

She said OK

So, I proceeded to show her how to fill the bag and showed her the douche nozzle, saying it works better than the small tips.

Then I took off all my close, and got the Vaseline, saying it is important to use lubricant.

Dip your finger in and rub it on the nozzle, then dip it in again and insert in my butt,

Really? You want me to do that?

Yes, put it in as deeply as possible.

Really?

Yes, it doesn't hurt.

As she slid her finger in, she commented she never put a finger in a guy's butt before.

Now, put the nozzle in and release the clamp.

Click

I thought myself this is fantastic. I stated getting a hard penis.

She noticed and said you are getting hard.

I know, it feels good, see nothing to be afraid of. You'll love it.

After expelling I said it was your turn, take off your close, please, and repeated the procedure I just showed her. Being very constipated she couldn't take much water so I had her expel and come back for more water. We repeated this several times and i said she needed another enema.

Another?

Yes, you need take a full bag, so we flush out everything.

This time she took a full enema bag. When she was done she said,

You are right, I feel so much better.

I hung the hose, nozzle and bag in the shower where it remained for weeks. Every time I saw it I got sexually stimulated and looked forward to more enemas like that

Bagman 25. The garments we wear are clothes, a noun. Close is a verb and is the opposite of open.

So @bagman925, if she turned into your wife, have you ever had her agree since then to give you enemas or get them from you or find them sexually stimulating as part of your sex life?

Eric🍑💦 (lifelong enema lover)

I sort of did that when I was trying to get my wife interested in enemas for fun. She was an enema virgin and after telling her that I read in a magazine that some couples enjoy giving each other enemas and I wanted to try it, I told her she could give me one first so she could see what it is like. She did, a few times before she would let me give her one. Unfortunately she didn’t like it. She said she just couldn’t get past worrying that she couldn’t hold it and making a mess. After a few times taking just a little water, she said she would give me an enema but she was not going to take one. And eventually she said if I wanted an enema I should do it myself.

Yes frequently my mother often used me to demonstrate how enemas were given to not just cousins

Yes. Once my stepmother gave me an enema in front of her sister, because she had never done it. Her son, very young, needed it. I must have been about 10 years old.

She had never seen me naked (maybe when I was younger at the beach but I don't know) and it was very embarrassing, especially because she had full view of my private parts.

Some time before my grandmother had given me an enema in front of my cousin, younger. She hadn't done it because she wanted to show it to her, she was watching TV. I think though that if she had wanted to give me some privacy she could have... Over time I understood that she had done it to make my cousin understand that the procedure wasn't painful... and to show the difference between males and females.

Ewww, do people actually do this?

Ewww, do people actually do this?

@Miss_Medical What, take enemas?

Many, many do. It is kind of a form of medical fetish if you think about it… it’s a medical procedure that used to be done more frequently in homes before common use of laxatives and other modern medicine, and lots of folks find it … nostalgic.

If not enemas, what kind of medical experiences capture your imagination?

@Miss_Medical To me, stories about a mother giving an enema to a child gratuitously, for no reason except to show to another child that it is no big deal, sound more like fantasy than fact. I however acknowledge the fact that a non-negligible proportion of parents take options that I find inappropriate.

In my case I was not subjected to enema ONLY for demonstration. I was going to get it anyway... I remember my stepmom was arguing with her sister about me having to get my enema, and she was recommending it for her son too.

I’ve posted elsewhere on Zity about Mom using me foe enema training. The first time was when I was 7 and Mom and her 1st cousin used me to show my 5 year old cousin that enemas weren’t painful. Interestingly, these were my first colon tube enemas. My cousin watched me get a couple of enemas then willingly submitted to her first enema. We both had a nice enema series that day.

Mom was an RN and even though it was the 50s, part of the Golden Age of enemas, not all moms knew how to give enemas as they hadn’t gotten them growing up. Mom used me as a teaching tool, giving me an enema as the mom watched, then having the mom give me the rest of my series for practice. Many times the student mom’s kid or kids were there to observe and, usually, take their turn at the receiving end of the nozzle.

@RedBulb99 said,

I sort of did that when I was trying to get my wife interested in enemas for fun. She was an enema virgin and after telling her that I read in a magazine that some couples enjoy giving each other enemas and I wanted to try it, I told her she could give me one first so she could see what it is like. She did, a few times before she would let me give her one. Unfortunately she didn’t like it. She said she just couldn’t get past worrying that she couldn’t hold it and making a mess.

When I first met my wife, she didn’t like doing enemas, but used them for relief of constipation and period cramps on advice of her OB/GYN.

Having liked enemas from an early age and been given enemas growing up along with my siblings. On top of that, mom and dad's house only had two bedrooms and one bath, so my siblings and I had to share a bedroom until our mid to late teens. Seeing one another naked on a daily basis, so nudity between us wasn’t an issue. Giving us an advantage, learning the differences between male and female and their likes and dislikes. Then, as preteens, our RN grandmother taught us personal hygiene and enemas became our responsibility. Shortly afterwards, my siblings and I started swapping enemas with each other.

Fast forward a number of years, when my girlfriend (future wife) shared an apartment with my sister for a year. My girlfriend knew I liked doing enemas, but what she didn’t realize, my sister liked doing enemas as much or more than I did. And that, as preteens then teenagers, we gave each other enemas for both health and pleasure, until we finished High School.

Shortly after they started sharing an apartment, my girlfriend came in from work one Friday evening and told my sister that she thought she was coming down with the flu. So, my sister suggested she take a couple of enemas, to help feel better, something we’d learned from our grandmother. Not liking enemas to begin with, my girlfriend rejected my sister's suggestion. Being stubborn, and not one to giving up easily, my sister eventually talked her into a couple of enemas. Once she finished giving her the enemas that evening, my girlfriend admitted they really helped. Then, having just started her period, my sister asked my girlfriend to return the favor, and give her a couple of enemas. That evening opened the door for my girlfriend to comfortably allow someone else to give her enemas. Afterwards, the two girls swapped enemas on a routine basis, like me and my sister as teenagers. Over the course of a year, my girlfriend went from disliking enemas, to liking them as much as my sister and I did.

This discussion have reminded me of one time my mother gave my siblings and I an enema each and my brother was not interested. He wanted to go outside and play, but she insisted he had to stay. Despite me being the youngest, I do remember her saying “why can’t you behave yourself like Samantha! Look! She’s not carrying on with all this fuss!”

While I wasn’t an example for a ‘worried’ person, and all three of us were used to enemas, I guess I was an example of the behaviour expected while having an enema.